posted May 25, 2015 12:53 PM            

Fast forward to today, I finished work unusually early and came home at noon for lunch. Heard noise in the kitchen and as my other roommate is in school I was hoping it was L. It was. There was someone in the bathroom.

He was super hungover and dead looking and a girl came out of the bathroom. So awkward. Now I absolutely know firsthand why it is a bad idea to casually sleep with roommates. I feel so hurt and gross (even though I'm the one who started pushing him away when things got too serious and asked for space...)

posted June 06, 2015 07:02 PM            

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Originally posted by melodiemelodie:
Okay so my roommate L moved in in mid-March. He is super lovely and fun and we hit it off right off the bat. We ended up sleeping together in early April all the way until last week; super casually but not really. We spent a lot of time together (obviously living together), he would also just sleep in my bed and cuddle and we'd cook and all the romantic nonsense. He's just out of a four year relationship and I am mourning my breakup as well so we decided to keep it casual.

Fast forward to today, I finished work unusually early and came home at noon for lunch. Heard noise in the kitchen and as my other roommate is in school I was hoping it was L. It was. There was someone in the bathroom.

He was super hungover and dead looking and a girl came out of the bathroom. So awkward. Now I absolutely know firsthand why it is a bad idea to casually sleep with roommates. I feel so hurt and gross (even though I'm the one who started pushing him away when things got too serious and asked for space...)

Can someone do a lil reading to see how he feels or what will come out of this? Should we just remain friends, or is there a possibility of more? Urgh and this feeling of my stomach sinking. I had genuine feelings for him as he is such a lovely, amazing and respectful man.

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posted June 26, 2015 12:28 AM            

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Originally posted by blindpainter:

I think he feels like this is a new beggining for him (coffin) and that is reinforced by the child indicating a fresh start, he may be immature or you make him feel young again he definatly has a lot of fun with you. You make him feel like he can achieve his dreams....i pulled two more to clarify and got stork and ring
The stork indicates positive change and moving forward but you may need to get into gear to make it happen. Ring shows a committed relationship in the future.

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Thank you so much! He has told me so many times that I am so fun and make him feel like a kid again! I'm a sunny Leo he's such a super grounded Cap. So here is what happened: We ended up barely speaking for the next two weeks, I was avoiding him casually I guess, never addressed the other girl just kept being (and was truly) busy. There was tension. We ended up talking one day and rekindling our friendship and he told me he was leaving. He left first week of June for work, he will be gone for the next 2 to 4 months. We slept together again and the days before he left were very romantic once again. He definitely was trying to contain his feelings but they showed nonetheless...

posted June 26, 2015 12:31 AM            

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Originally posted by sunnybunny:
I got 10 of cups on this reading, since ya'll have kept it casual, I am thinking maby he might be developing feelings for you but does not want to say so and may have done this to test your reaction?
I also think he really was just really drunk or something, just not thinking clearly.
I hope you handled it in a calm manner, since, to me, the 10 of cups came up for you in this reading.

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