posted June 07, 2015 01:53 PM            

My Q: What would be the best approach to take with M? What's coming up for us in the next few months?

posted June 07, 2015 01:58 PM            

My Q (2):

Do you see if SH will still try to contact me again or will he comply to his promise and move on with his new life (end of our connection)?

posted June 07, 2015 02:12 PM            

So from these I would say yes, he will try his best to comply with his promise to you and move on. However, I do feel him wanting to contact you and I feel like he might slip up once or twice and do it in a few months. If not response is given, that would be best and he will not continue to pursue.

Will the project be successful in the launch in August?
Ace of diamonds- in business a new partnerships forming or financial success
6 of diamonds-financial responsibility
4 clubs-mental stability and creativity

I would say yes, the project will be successful at the August launch. It seems that you are investing quite a bit of thought and creativity into it and it will pay off. Does it have something to do with bringing in a new client or increasing the finances of a company? It seems that the launch of this project will be financially beneficial.

posted June 07, 2015 02:16 PM            

4 cards pulled to make sense of your situation (I don't put them in order except the first one):

2 of cups
Temperance
Queen of Swords
Hermit

and 2 more (for my own clarity) Knight of Pents + Queen of Wands.

ok so.......

Not sure if this is right but he might be knight of pents. because knight of pents shows up when I shuffled. So twice out.

2 of cups = potential union, well maybe you guys already sorta that close, but it is on the first position so it shows the connection between you two.

What will happen? Hermit - there might be a period of stagnancy between you two, and you are encouraged to not lose your cool... Temperance is the 'theme', i think either of you is weighing the pros and cons really to push things further, that would be the delay lol

right now you are queen of swords... at first I wonder why queen of wands shows up, I thought "does he have someone else?" but I feel the queen of wands is the advice card. Be less controlled (queen of sword) and be more spontaneous and courageous like queen of wands. Take the lead, make decisions. He is slow and will be slow, so you are encouraged to harness the power of fire and be brave about it.

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posted June 07, 2015 02:31 PM            

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Originally posted by Spritualjourney:
will SH try to contact again or will he move on and comply with his promise?
King of diamonds-mature man
9 of hearts-wishes fulfilled
Knight of clubs-trusting man

So from these I would say yes, he will try his best to comply with his promise to you and move on. However, I do feel him wanting to contact you and I feel like he might slip up once or twice and do it in a few months. If not response is given, that would be best and he will not continue to pursue.

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Well, the situation is that he is getting married. We were friends for 2 yrs- I loved him, he like me a lot as a friend he said, which I accepted and said good bye in january (he is 22 yrs older, so I understand his hesitation) but he kept 'chasing' me not wanting to lose our friendship, even admitted he still follow my posts on socmed (i blocked him, so need new acct i guess), until finally he straight up offered me a job (lol) as an effort to keep me close. I refused ofc, that led to us talking on phone and meeting up for the last time (my idea)

He still want to keep our friendship, and we do connect very well.. but he's getting married, so... he was so stubborn, wanting to have a cake and eat it too.

The actual promise/ultimatum is actually this:

Sure you can contact me but only if you do not talk about your wedding, your lover, your love life, or anything related to that area. I don't wanna know anything about that part. I don't wanna see you with anyone else, so you can only talk to me if you can abide those. Can you do that?

(I told him that so he has a strong excuse to not contact me because it will be dishonest to his fiance which he agreed. he agreed to that promise, so he won't contact me in personal way anymore because it will be dishonest to K.)

if he fulfill his promise, (and like you said, contacts me) that means he'll be single, no? LOL

Thanks for the reading, as of now he is dead to me, I consider he's gone from my life, just curious.

posted June 07, 2015 03:01 PM            

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Originally posted by peacefulclouds:
Well, the situation is that he is getting married. We were friends for 2 yrs- I loved him, he like me a lot as a friend he said, which I accepted and said good bye in january (he is 22 yrs older, so I understand his hesitation) but he kept 'chasing' me not wanting to lose our friendship, even admitted he still follow my posts on socmed (i blocked him, so need new acct i guess), until finally he straight up offered me a job (lol) as an effort to keep me close. I refused ofc, that led to us talking on phone and meeting up for the last time (my idea)

He still want to keep our friendship, and we do connect very well.. but he's getting married, so... he was so stubborn, wanting to have a cake and eat it too.

[b]The actual promise/ultimatum is actually this:

Sure you can contact me but only if you do not talk about your wedding, your lover, your love life, or anything related to that area. I don't wanna know anything about that part. I don't wanna see you with anyone else, so you can only talk to me if you can abide those. Can you do that?

(I told him that so he has a strong excuse to not contact me because it will be dishonest to his fiance which he agreed. he agreed to that promise, so he won't contact me in personal way anymore because it will be dishonest to K.)

if he fulfill his promise, (and like you said, contacts me) that means he'll be single, no? LOL

Thanks for the reading, as of now he is dead to me, I consider he's gone from my life, just curious.

If u need clarification on ur reading let me know btw, or further details. [/B]

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Wow, that was some relationship! No, him contacting you doesn't mean he's single lol...it's just that he can't seem to let you go. That's the feeling I got that you are constantly on his mind, you're explanation now makes sense why I felt this. You are right though, he did want the best of both worlds so to speak. My personal opinion/advice is that you did the right thing asking him to not contact you. I do feel him being curious how you are doing and also missing your energy.

posted June 07, 2015 03:13 PM            

4 cards pulled to make sense of your situation (I don't put them in order except the first one):

2 of cups
Temperance
Queen of Swords
Hermit

and 2 more (for my own clarity) Knight of Pents + Queen of Wands.

ok so.......

Not sure if this is right but he might be knight of pents. because knight of pents shows up when I shuffled. So twice out.

2 of cups = potential union, well maybe you guys already sorta that close, but it is on the first position so it shows the connection between you two.

What will happen? Hermit - there might be a period of stagnancy between you two, and you are encouraged to not lose your cool... Temperance is the 'theme', i think either of you is weighing the pros and cons really to push things further, that would be the delay lol

right now you are queen of swords... at first I wonder why queen of wands shows up, I thought "does he have someone else?" but I feel the queen of wands is the advice card. Be less controlled (queen of sword) and be more spontaneous and courageous like queen of wands. Take the lead, make decisions. He is slow and will be slow, so you are encouraged to harness the power of fire and be brave about it.

So 2 of cups, yes we are already extremely close. Well right now we have a pause since I pushed a bit for more and then I we've both been traveling so other than texting haven't really been in contact. So right now it is a period of stagnancy, and me being encouraged not to lose my cool makes sense since I often get 'patience' as advice. He is likely the one weighing the pros and cons of starting something with me.
To my knowledge, there is no other woman, so the queen of wands advising me to take the lead makes sense, he is extremely slow and I think quite comfortable with how we are now.

One more Q for whenever you have the energy to answer. How does M really feel about me?

Feel free to ask more clarification Qs

posted June 07, 2015 11:12 PM            

How does M feel about you..

Comfort for sure. The card I got is The World. He feels at home and strong connection. You are part of his current life, irreplacable, and helped him so much in understanding himself

BUT

As for now, I have yet to see any 'love' in romantic sense. 9 of Wands confirmed this. He is standing on his ground, and wands are action/passion. Another card I pull is 6 of Wands. So he thinks your current arrangement is ideal for now... have you guys been sexually intimate? The wands says it- attraction and passionate.

How does he sees you? Queen of Cups- so definitely he knows you want more, but for some reason he's not ready for commitment. Not at the level you want, but he does find you attractive. I think- ultimately he is not sure how to approach the whole relationship with you, as it is something he's not used to.

posted June 08, 2015 05:45 PM            

Comfort for sure. The card I got is The World. He feels at home and strong connection. You are part of his current life, irreplacable, and helped him so much in understanding himself
No worries! Yes, without going into details, this card completely resonates.

BUT

As for now, I have yet to see any 'love' in romantic sense. 9 of Wands confirmed this. He is standing on his ground, and wands are action/passion. Another card I pull is 6 of Wands. So he thinks your current arrangement is ideal for now... have you guys been sexually intimate? The wands says it- attraction and passionate.
These cards make sense too. No we haven't been sexually intimate, (at least not recently, other than periodic kissing). I'm a bit confused though, how would you describe his feelings then, if there's passion and attraction and the strong connection described above would it be like a crush but not 'in love'?

How does he sees you? Queen of Cups- so definitely he knows you want more, but for some reason he's not ready for commitment. Not at the level you want, but he does find you attractive. I think- ultimately he is not sure how to approach the whole relationship with you, as it is something he's not used to.

Funny on how 3 of the queens shows up representing you. I wonder if he sees through your 'aggressive' demeanor and thinks you are actually a very soft person/he is afraid of hurting you because he thinks he can't yet give you what you need at this time?

What's holding him back is he is working on himself right now and doesn't want to be in a "relationship". He does know I want more and I know he finds me attractive, so spot on. It makes sense with him not knowing how to approach this relationship, it's very different than any he's ever been in. Also, yes, I do have an 'aggressive' demeanour but underneath it I am actually very soft and he is afraid of hurting me, this I know for sure.