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posted July 03, 2015 09:52 PM            

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Hi guys I am wondering why my ex J is still interested in me even though I cheated on him and said some very bad things towards him? Why does he still want to be with me? These questions have really confused me. Any help would be awesome and thank you :-)

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posted July 03, 2015 09:56 PM            

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is this the one you haven't talked to since 2013? I think you need to give yourself some time to heal from your last relationship before trying to start something new with anyone. This is my personal opinion. Plus I think we all have those people in our past that we still think about and we tend to forget the bad times and remember only the good. But the only way to do any past relationship justice is to remember the bad and good times and weigh out the pros and cons before contacting or trying to get back with someone.

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posted July 03, 2015 10:11 PM            

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Did you end up contacting him? Did he tell you he was still interested?

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posted July 03, 2015 10:46 PM            

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No but I am thinking of doing so either tomorrow or wait until his birthday just to give it even more time.

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posted July 03, 2015 10:56 PM            

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Is this the same guy you told me you wouldn't contact and rather would take time to be alone and work on things? I really feel as I said last time you need to focus on yourself and stop worrying about J for the time being. This is just my opinion, but after a break up focusing on our exes is just a way to avoid dealing with the pain.

Honestly, as the cards told me last time I read for you, nothing really is to be gained from contacting him now. I guess I am just wondering why you want to contact him now and what the benefit would be?

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posted July 03, 2015 10:58 PM            

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Fairy has a point here. You wont truly know if he was still interested if those words weren't from him. It's been a few years since the both of you have had any contact, a lot of things can change in that period of time. Go talk to him but leave all your expectations behind.

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posted July 03, 2015 11:01 PM            

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OK guys I'll keep it in mind

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