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posted July 05, 2015 02:34 PM            

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As you all are probably aware, I came out of a crazy relationship about a year and a half ago and I've been processing it ever since.

For a very long time, I felt stuck and very ashamed and embarrassed because my ex literally chose someone else over me and that made me feel like absolute garbage. Dealing with rejection, humiliation and sorrow was definitely painful; but it also made me make myself certain promises - like to NEVER ignore a red flag and to always question what is presented to me!!!!

As I've reflected upon my lessons and begun to accept them, I've attempted to meet a number of new people. I have successfully managed to begin 3 "relationships", but now I'm nervous because I don't know who I should be trying to establish a real connection with.

I really am not in the business of pursuing unserious guys or painful situations anymore - I am saying NO to my Venus/Pluto natal opposition!

As I accumulate more potential interests, I feel like I just need some help and guidance on what to look for in my next partner or perhaps more information about what my next romantic partner will be like. Can you tell me (trait wise - Sun/Moon/Asc) what he will be like, so I know who to look out for?

I just want to know if I should I take any of the three men I am talking to seriously, I guess.

Thank you in advance x

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From: Georgia
Registered: May 2009

posted July 06, 2015 11:39 PM            

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hey Ikja,

I did the "Future Partner" spread for you, by LeeLoo

1 - where you meet them
BIRDS
chatting, talking, social network, online
2 - what he does (for a living)
BOOK
writer, officials, college student, book seller, journalist
3 - qualities
FISH
sensual and deep. Wealthy, broad shoulders, thin legs. Taurus-like personality.
4 - weaknesses
FOX
manipulative and shrewd, cunning
5 - physical description
WHIP + COFFIN
sexy as hell, athletic, thin, dark
6 - his opinion of you when you meet, how he will see you
SUN
like a sunshine to him
7 - your opinion of them when you meet, how you see them
STARS
stars in the eyes when you see him
8 - what he will feel for you
CLOVER
tha he hit the jackpot
9 - what you will feel for them
BEAR
that he is strong, protective and successful
10 - best side of the relationship
TOWER
you can count on each other, very strong together. A sense of isolation.
11 - challenges in the relationship
SCYTHE
brutal honesty, jealousy, aggression, radical change, can be painful at times, not sugar coating things
12 - advice for improving the relationship
TREE
Take it slow, don't rush it, patience
13 - when you meet them
MOON
In the evening, soon
14 - long term vs short term prospects
STORK
Long term and far ranging developments, it will undergo changes and adaptations.
15 - outcome of the relationship
SHIP+ ANCHOR
The ship has finally arrived and has been anchored. Excellent prognosis for a meaningful relationship

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From: London, UK (GMT - 5 hours ahead)
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posted July 07, 2015 04:44 PM            

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Thanks Orange.

I'm going to screen shot this and keep it in mind! - I'm hmmmming some of the information so far! Wonder if I've already met him?!?!

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