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BellaFenice
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From: Neptune with PisceanDream, Faith, and Meissieri
Registered: Sep 2013

posted July 16, 2015 10:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for BellaFenice     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
If you have a moment, I would like for you to review these two threads, because I think a ban is in order. I've never seen a poster cuss out and degrade a number of users on this site in 24 hours.

It is not right for the users to be called offensive names unjustly for trying to help and this behavior is downright abnormal and a detriment to the community. At the very least a serious warning is needed.

This is the sort of thing that not only Personal Readings does not need, but the site in general.

http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum18/HTML/001994.html

http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum11/HTML/016407.html

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venuscorpio86
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posted July 17, 2015 12:58 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Or these users could refrain from trolling my threads being bukkies yes I did Bella you know why cause leeloo ALWAYS has way of commenting in my threads being a bully then other users do the same help??? Lol degrading me is helpful??? Everyone at their own will to not open a thread they don't like or not read for a user maybe minding their own business vs being bullies pushing others to stand up for themselves would help? Yes warn me for standing up against these critizibg bullies PLEASE lol..

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BellaFenice
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From: Neptune with PisceanDream, Faith, and Meissieri
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posted July 17, 2015 01:30 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for BellaFenice     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Did anyone today cuss you out and verbally abuse you in a hostile tone like you did to countless others? The only one who acted close to a bully is you, and I actually do not think this word is appropriate given the countless number of kids who endure actual bullying.

LeeLoo does not deserve this, and especially not the vile comments you spoke to her. In fact, no one deserves hate spewed at them for expressing concern. You should be WAY more concerned about your own behavior than shifting the blame on others and failing to take any accountability.

LeeLoo and I have been on opposite sides of debates, but you know what? She has never cussed me out or belittled me for having a different opinion. We might both be very passionate about our beliefs, but neither one of us will personally attack the other person.

You, on the other hand, have done this today by going after anyone who wanted to help you. This is not good for the forum, as this sort of energy brings the entire forum down.

The day we start to work on the struggles inside of us are the days our outside world becomes better. I suggest you reconsider the route you are taking, because not only does it harm others, but consequently harms you the most. If you were truly happy with yourself, you would not lash out at people like this and need approval from men to feel validated.

And for the record, I did not make this thread for you, it is for the countless number of posters you attacked today, who deserved to be treated far better.

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andstuff
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posted July 17, 2015 02:03 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for andstuff     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Okay venus, I know I bailed out from moderating this board back in the day, and yet here's what

I remember when you first registered and your style has been the same throughout the years. The only thing that changes is the initials of the people you enquire about.

I remember telling you that third party readings are unethical, both to request and to carry out. Telling you again. It is wrong to ask the spirits / angels / whatever about things that do not concern you, it's like breaking into an apartment or bugging a phone. Plus it's bad for your karma. Yet this is what you keep enquiring about.

If you indeed forget who you asked readings from, perhaps you should make notes so as to avoid leaving multiple requests. If you own a smartphone, there is an app called "notes" where you can copy links to threads you left requests in, so you can come back later. So convenient, you wouldn't believe!

If what Valmu said about you giving optimistic readings in exchange for positive readings you get and the other way round, may I perhaps suggest you need to reconsider offering readings at all? We all undergo stress and experience periods during which we can't read impartially, be calm and objective enough to help others. Users on this board sometimes stop offering, then go back to offering again when they feel empowered enough. Only suggesting you re-examine your attitude, if this is indeed the case, the exchanges you take part in would be somehow unbalanced/unfair.

Not gonna comment on you giving people names part, since well, I have seen much worse around here. I think everyone will be able to make their own conclusions re: whether to interact with you or not on the basis of those comments.

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venuscorpio86
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posted July 17, 2015 02:15 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Exactly don't like me .....don't respond comment or partake in my threads lol...is that hard to comprehend??? And stuff......exactly I have no other issues in my life that I'd need to read or exchange on so why would I? I can control other aspects if no one likes it don't respond don't interact with me. I don't exchange with you there are ppl on here I don't want to exchange with or corrospind with and I don't troll their threads bullying them lol....

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athenegoddess
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posted July 17, 2015 02:21 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for athenegoddess     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The problem is that you don't honor your exchanges to people who put their heart and time into helping you. So you need to make sure that if you ask for a reading and it is given, you give one back instead of starting a new thread asking the same Q again. Be more proactive and respectful to those you ask a reading from and give that energy back.

The asking the same Q over and over again is just another negative aspect of what has been going on.

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ikja
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From: London, UK (GMT - 5 hours ahead)
Registered: Oct 2014

posted July 17, 2015 02:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ikja     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
There was also a time that I had to chase you for a reading VenusScorpio, before my hiatus in April. It wasn't until I bumped it up a few times that I received a response. I believe that exchange took about 1-2 days to complete.

I'm not someone who likes to say things without supporting evidence to back up what i am saying. So, if you would like me to go and find the example... Please do let me know.

EDIT: Here it is http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum11/HTML/014834.html

It took you SEVEN days to come back to me, but you advertised that it was a Saturday morning exchange.

On that note, I can't really stand up for you and say that readings slipping your mind is a 'one time' thing. You post QUICK exchanges, get your answer and disappear often. That's not a quick exchange, and if you are committed to other things, making it difficult for you to hold your end of the bargain... SAY THAT UPFRONT. Many users can provide you with examples of times when you disappeared after they have read for you, so surely they ALL can't be lying?

I do think other people are guilty of asking the same question time and time again, however... Like I said on the other thread, I think it's your energy that singles you out. It comes across as frantic and this makes me uneasy. It's also the fact that you ask the SAME question. You don't even attempt to reword or anything!!! I even provided you with dates for reference in my other thread.

Honestly, take the time to survey your 'QUICK EXCHANGE' threads and their contents... You will see what we are talking about for yourself.

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venuscorpio86
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posted July 17, 2015 03:54 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ikja shut up.....


Your that concerned you dig up "evidence" like a detective??? Lol really??I out time frames on my readings FOR A REASON CAISE ITS A TIMEFRAME tell others this is time to ask between ask after that read for me after that time ...you will be waiting that's why there's Tim frame if you have problem waiting cause you missed tinframe don't exchange with me then that simple....putting time frames being upfront people still complain when I clearly state this in the beginnibg do you ppl really not have anything else going on but to concern yourself with my threads lol. Pretyyyyy sad lol

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ikja
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posted July 17, 2015 04:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ikja     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
If I'm going to present an argument to you (about your behaviour and my experience of it), I'm going to do so with the evidence I need to support what I am saying. That way, you can't say what I'm telling you is unfounded or that I am part of a witch hunt to drive you away.

Your problem is that you have an issue with being exposed as a flake. Don't be mad, just accept what people are calling you out on like the grown up and well put together person YOU imply that you are. People have their flaws/quirks... Just own them.

To clarify, I was well within the timeframe on THAT particular thread. The minute your question was answered you disappeared. The information is all there in black/purple for YOU to see.

You said Saturday morning in your thread and came back seven days later. There's quite frankly nothing else that you need to or have to tell me. I'm just presenting the facts of that case as I see them. For that reason, I can't say that I'm surprised that other people are annoyed with you about not fulfilling exchanges in a timely manner.

I can live with being called a detective. It's actually a compliment!!!! 😂 I think I missed my calling... Maybe one day.

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LeeLoo2014
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Posts: 13561
From: Venus cornering Neptune
Registered: Mar 2014

posted July 17, 2015 07:10 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeeLoo2014     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by venuscorpio86:
Or these users could refrain from trolling my threads being bukkies yes I did Bella you know why cause leeloo ALWAYS has way of commenting in my threads being a bully then other users do the same help??? Lol degrading me is helpful??? Everyone at their own will to not open a thread they don't like or not read for a user maybe minding their own business vs being bullies pushing others to stand up for themselves would help? Yes warn me for standing up against these critizibg bullies PLEASE lol..

You have a frozen heart!

It's the first time I am addressing this issue with you, in the TTLG thread, because I have seen you doing this for a year!: flooding the forum with the same question over and over again and tricking people into exchanges you don't honor and everything else everyone describes here. And it has become unbearable!

Before that, my last interaction with you was to give you a reading out of my time and energy, to which you didn't even bother to give a simple thank you or a feedback!
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum11/HTML/016217-11.html

And before that, the only interaction I had with you was to give you countless readings in TTLG which you flooded! every day! before discovering you can use the exchange trick in PR to get daily readings from people:

http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum18/HTML/001659.html
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum18/HTML/001655.html
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum18/HTML/001649.html
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum18/HTML/001644.html
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum18/HTML/001636.html

You are consuming this place, daily, without giving back, and injecting daily toxic fumes. And you lie! who works 12h a day and yet has the time to flood a forum, almost every day, with threads and bumps?

I am posting this as reference for the others, but don't bother to reply, I don't understand your language.

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LeeLoo2014
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Posts: 13561
From: Venus cornering Neptune
Registered: Mar 2014

posted July 17, 2015 07:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeeLoo2014     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you for your kind words, Bella.

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Randall
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From: Saturn next to Charmaine
Registered: Apr 2009

posted July 17, 2015 01:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you, Bella.

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