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Topic: anyone up? exchange
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cherful24
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From: chicago, il
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted July 20, 2015 11:20 PM
  
I was talking to my ex boyfriend today and everything was going great as it usually does but I don't know if I did something stupid or not. He was on TV at first I said your great job it looks really good blah blah blah. and then this lady on Facebook commented on the show that he was on and I sent a screenshot of it I said well it looks like you don't have a fan. I said that jokingly but he didn't contact me back and I know he saw it. And he always contact me back immediately. so I just want to know if he thought I did that to hurt his ego? Or does he know it was to be funny and it wasn't serious?IP: Logged |
MinceyMouse
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posted July 20, 2015 11:28 PM
Cher, I think you hurt his ego even though he knew it was just to humorously poke him. I don't think it's anything to worry about- he'll be in touch soon enough. I think you're overthinking this one. Do you have any other questions? (preferably direct so I can use my cards). Can you see how going back to uni will be for me? IP: Logged |
cherful24
Knowflake Posts: 4469
From: chicago, il
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted July 20, 2015 11:33 PM
Yes....for August I'm subleasing this woman's apartment. But I can't tell if she's trustworthy or if I'm going to get ripped off?IP: Logged |
cherful24
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From: chicago, il
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted July 20, 2015 11:37 PM
Is it just for a semester? if not do you think that you will go through all the way? I ask that because I feel that you're going to be overwhelmingly tired. I think you will go and do the work but I keep sensing that you're very very tired. I don't know why I just keep saying one semester. IP: Logged |
cherful24
Knowflake Posts: 4469
From: chicago, il
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted July 20, 2015 11:39 PM
Hmmmm. can I ask another one? Why does he contact me, my ex? We've been broken up for years. it used to be several times a month and then for a good two years it was just every month. But now its like every other month or two. He's been married for over a year and with that lady for almost 4 years. But he contacts me a lot. can you see the reasons why he does so? does he have any caring feelings for me anymore? Does your think what it would be like if he did end up marrying me? and is he happy with his wife?IP: Logged |
MinceyMouse
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posted July 20, 2015 11:40 PM
the empress , viii of swords- rx, page of swordsInitially all will be good, and the apartment will seem luxurious to you and have the creature comforts which you like- but there will be some confusion with the costs when you are about to leave- but things will be stacked in your favour. It seems like you will need to ask him/her to write down all the costs involved (make up an excuse and say you need it for something.. ) and show it to her before you leave- just be fair and use common sense when it comes to dealing with her. Intuitively, she seems a bit scatterbrained. IP: Logged |
cherful24
Knowflake Posts: 4469
From: chicago, il
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted July 20, 2015 11:41 PM
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Originally posted by cherful24:
Hmmmm. can I ask another one? Why does he contact me, my ex? We've been broken up for years. it used to be several times a month and then for a good two years it was just every month. But now its like every other month or two. He's been married for over a year and with that lady for almost 4 years. But he contacts me a lot. can you see the reasons why he does so? does he have any caring feelings for me anymore? Does your think what it would be like if he did end up marrying me? and is he happy with his wife?
....and he did contact me back😊 IP: Logged |
MinceyMouse
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posted July 20, 2015 11:42 PM
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Originally posted by cherful24:
Is it just for a semester? if not do you think that you will go through all the way? I ask that because I feel that you're going to be overwhelmingly tired. I think you will go and do the work but I keep sensing that you're very very tired. I don't know why I just keep saying one semester.
No, it's for a year. I'm tired right now because I can't breathe well due to the air quality here. Plus I have a cold and cough.
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cherful24
Knowflake Posts: 4469
From: chicago, il
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted July 20, 2015 11:43 PM
yes so far I can tell she's a scatterbrain. But today out of nowhere she says I have someone thats offering me 1400 dollars but since you're ahead of them I'll wait for you to deposit the money in my account. Personally I thought that was really odd because if it's not even an issue since I'm ahead of that person then why did she even bring it up and that's more than what I'm paying her so it makes me think she's fish!
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Originally posted by MinceyMouse:
the empress , viii of swords- rx, page of swordsInitially all will be good, and the apartment will seem luxurious to you and have the creature comforts which you like- but there will be some confusion with the costs when you are about to leave- but things will be stacked in your favour. It seems like you will need to ask him/her to write down all the costs involved (make up an excuse and say you need it for something.. ) and show it to her before you leave- just be fair and use common sense when it comes to dealing with her. Intuitively, she seems a bit scatterbrained.
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cherful24
Knowflake Posts: 4469
From: chicago, il
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted July 20, 2015 11:45 PM
Lol, oh okay.....well sorry ur feeling bad! but I still do see you feeling overwhelmed and I get a sense that it's a lot of work for you. & I don't know if you're going to be doing something else such as working but it feels to me that you're overloaded. I don't know if you're taking more than one class or this class is very heavy. You'll do the work and no completed but it's really just too much sometimes
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Originally posted by MinceyMouse:
No, it's for a year. I'm tired right now because I can't breathe well due to the air quality here. Plus I have a cold and cough.
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MinceyMouse
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posted July 20, 2015 11:48 PM
You stroke his ego, and are a bit of a sounding board for his ideas. Since you're game, it seems to be a mutually beneficial connection. For subletting, I usually find a friend of a friend as it tends to be safer. The woman is nice enough, but isn't organized! Lol. I will be taking a heavy courseload, but it's something I love. IP: Logged |
MinceyMouse
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posted July 21, 2015 12:07 AM
Thanks cher  IP: Logged |
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