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Vivi327
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posted July 21, 2015 08:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Vivi327     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I guess I am just looking for answers as I am truly grieving right now. A man I really loved just disappeared out of the blue. It's been a month and no word from him, I truly thought above all we where friends. That's the most painful part. If anyone is up for it is truly appreciate a reading on what happened? If it's another woman I truly am ready to accept that.

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Orange
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posted July 21, 2015 08:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Orange     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think he has a girlfriend, honey.
I can only imagine the hurt you must feel now of not knowing what's going on, the lack of closure or explanation. It's just not right.
I feel for you.

The spread I did for you:

1. How is your ex's love life at present:

LOVERS

2. In what way is your ex thinking about you now:

THE HIEROPHANT

3. What are your ex feelings for you right now

FIVE of WANDS

He knows you are mad at him, and expect quarrels

4.What kind of a relationship your ex intends to keep with you in the future

THREE of WANDS

Distanced, he is in a waiting period, to sort it out

5. Is there a potential to renew your relationship

KING OF WANDS

It depends on him, the ball is in his court. He likes adventures, thou, and to play the field. The King of Wands has no regrets. He likes things to be on his terms.

6. Is he coming back

ACE OF WANDS

Yes, he will and things will go about full speed

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SereneDaze
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posted July 21, 2015 08:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SereneDaze     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi vivi, I'm getting he cut things off with you because he doesn't want to deal with anything related to emotions. He had to leave because something came up for him which required his focus. He is also seeing another woman, not romantically involved but he is keeping it physical for now. I asked if he would talk to you and he would, but I don't know how long that would take.

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FairyDust75
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posted July 21, 2015 08:22 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oh Vivi I'm so sorry. I can't offer you a reading but I feel your pain deeply. Having gone through this I know how painful it is. You are in my thoughts.

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Meatballzzzzzz
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posted July 21, 2015 09:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Meatballzzzzzz     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Aw sweetheart, I am so sorry. I have had this happen to me before and I understand you pain and it is not easy. You're in my thoughts and prayers. I can't do readings but I just wanted to say this.

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Vivi327
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posted July 21, 2015 09:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Vivi327     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you all from the bottom of my heart

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FaithInLove2
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posted July 21, 2015 10:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for FaithInLove2     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Vivi, sorry I cannot read for you as well. But I truly know how you feel. Such things happen, and you'll grow to become stronger.

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lilithpluto
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posted July 22, 2015 05:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for lilithpluto     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Vivi.. I pray the best for you n hope you overcome this... I understand the pain u are having now.. Faced the same before 5 years ago.. Stay Strong.

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LeeLoo2014
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posted July 22, 2015 08:43 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeeLoo2014     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am very sorry, Vivi I hope you are feeling better. I got cards that suggest marriage and children, could this be possible? I remember the Leno spread I did for you an official contract (ring letter) was in the cards, but I saw it back then as being your possible future together. I also remember there was emotional distancing at some point, as intermediary stage, Moon Mountain, so maybe this is it?

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Vivi327
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posted July 22, 2015 10:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Vivi327     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you all for your kind words, they truly help, I am feeling better and I know il get theough this. Leeloo I'm pretty sure he doesn't have a family although it could be possible, I've known him for years and we recently reconnected after 2 years and I asked him flat out and he told me he was not attached, so you think this is the emotional distance stage that you spoke of?

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IntuitiveJ
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posted July 22, 2015 01:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for IntuitiveJ     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm sorry to read this. Is this the man I read on for you the other day?

If it is I did see a reconciliation and a reconnection, just not immediately.

Wishing you all the best!

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SparklingSag
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posted July 22, 2015 01:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SparklingSag     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
So sorry

Light and love

Sparkling

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Vivi327
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posted July 23, 2015 03:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Vivi327     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you all again. It's really comforting and refreshing to know that there are such caring individuals on this forum, (especially with all the negative energy that has been here lately). I am feeling better and am looking forward to my future. Hopefully great things are on the way for all of us!

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LeeLoo2014
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posted July 23, 2015 04:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeeLoo2014     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Vivi327:
Thank you all for your kind words, they truly help, I am feeling better and I know il get theough this. Leeloo I'm pretty sure he doesn't have a family although it could be possible, I've known him for years and we recently reconnected after 2 years and I asked him flat out and he told me he was not attached, so you think this is the emotional distance stage that you spoke of?


I think this is the distance stage, yes, Moon Mountain. Still, I wonder about what I said, does he have an ex wife and children or something like that? Someone he could have returned to? I certainly hope this isn't the case, this kind of thing breaks my heart But you don't have to become suspicious because of what I say, just try to find out in a clear manner, from real life sources, for you!

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Vivi327
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posted September 08, 2016 04:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Vivi327     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Update

Yes he came back a year later!

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Julz87
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posted September 08, 2016 04:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Julz87     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Woohoo goooooo 🙌

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LostSoulRebecca
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posted September 09, 2016 06:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LostSoulRebecca     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Vivi327:
Update

Yes he came back a year later!


Wow! Sweet!!

If it is not too personal, what was the reason of his 'dissaprance'? Another woman?

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harmonicvibes
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posted September 09, 2016 06:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for harmonicvibes     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
awe...VIVI! Really! THat is amazing and hugs I am happy hope it all works for the best for you hugs!

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Vivi327
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posted September 09, 2016 06:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Vivi327     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hey thank you all

I honestly am not sure if there was another woman...I may see him tonight and I plan on really asking him...

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Astro keen
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posted September 09, 2016 10:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Astro keen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Vivi,
Would love to exchange with you, when you are able to.

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Vivi327
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posted September 09, 2016 11:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Vivi327     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes of course Astro. Will open a thread when I get a chance!!

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MillyX
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posted September 09, 2016 11:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MillyX     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Vivi327:
Update

Yes he came back a year later!


Wow I went through the same thing with a guy. Disappeared last year and came back this summer. It's a roller coaster for me emotion wise!

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