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BellaFenice
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posted July 21, 2015 11:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for BellaFenice     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Warning: negative Nancy question, but I do promise to exchange and answer your questions in a positive and cheerful manner

I'm not a fan of asking these questions, but something has really been bothering me the last year after a buildup of things over time:

Why is nothing I do ever enough or appreciated?

I feel in real life I work incredibly hard at what I do, and either it goes unnoticed or unappreciated whether it is work, school, writing, friendship, etc. Maybe it is a Capricorn Rising thing, but it always seems I tend to get the short end of the stick, am behind my peers when it comes to life accomplishments, and work harder than most with nothing to show for it.

I worry that I am already getting jaded because everything the last 6 years has been a test and it would be nice if things finally chilled out for once. Even a simple thank you would be nice once in a while, because I feel that I give, give, give, and start to wonder now if I'm just too generous with my time and energy, because no one I know ever extends the hand in return. Not that I do things for a pat on the back or praise, but I feel most I know are inconsiderate and selfish.

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cherful24
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posted July 21, 2015 11:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for cherful24     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Perhaps it's your mission to recognize the importance of developing people in a complete way, not just intellectually but in terms of their spiritual, psychological and physical development......and in doing so, unfortunately others take the value that you offer them and cannot fully understand yet that what you've done to help better them is something that they should be appreciative. Instead they take it as...great she helped...are not truly spiritually developed enough to see the impact that you made. Often that maturity comes later in life after they can see how they got through that struggle and it was because of you.


Here's a quote I read that rings true in my life and maybe it does for yours too


For a long time, it had seemed to me that life was about to begin-real life. But there was always some obstacle in the way, something to be gotten through first, some unfinished business, time still to be served, a debt to be paid. Then life would begin. At last it dawned on me that these obstacles were my life.

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andstuff
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posted July 22, 2015 04:14 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for andstuff     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Bella

I took a stab at this one, got these

The Chariot - 7 wands - the Tower - 3 pents - 2 cups

I'd say you're very soft-hearted and compassionate by nature, perhaps with a tendency to over-identify with others?

I think the sheer fact of you asking this Q means something is brewing/accumulating inside you, some wish for a balance or fair exchanging. Until recently you were probably so confused you couldn't tell what is fair and what isn't, weren't able to decide who is worth your time and who isn't. Guess that was the whole point, to accumulate enough experience to make decisions in the future, to invest in the right people and to give it a pass when it comes to those only willing to use and not acknowledge your help.

I think you have reached a point when you are ready to have your own set of beliefs re: helping others, so everything is going to change. Very soon you will only invest in things that pay off, the progress being obvious if maybe a trifle slow.

I'd say the whole thing is an exercise in learning about your boundaries, but I guess you've done your time, now is the moment to walk away from whoever takes you for granted. Not sure but it's possible you will start revolving in different circles where you will find acknowledgement and compensation of all sorts (initially not too much, but enough to build upon)

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LeeLoo2014
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posted July 22, 2015 09:09 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeeLoo2014     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Bella

I know how it feels, I've asked myself the same questions at some point. It's our Cancer DSC, I believe (Cap Rising here as well
It needs to learn from the next sign, Leo, to be more elitist about whom and what it invests its protective and caring energy in.

The cards I drew for you are very much in tune with this, I have the Beauty and the Beast theme.

It suggests facing our own shadow when investing in projects and people, find out why we do it. Do we expect the same in return? yes. would we do it nevertheless? yes, but resentment and frustration is being built, bringing out the beast side (negative thoughts). The shadow of a Cancer DSC is nurturing everyone, including negative energy, by providing to those who aren't ready to give back, for some reason. Solution: as suggested by the theme, a selection of the people and projects we invest in, those who can play the same game. It has to be a flow of energy, like a dance.

This leads to card 3 I drew for you, Hazard
(the card also describes this flow)

44. The Hazard

Flowers and winged wheel, topped by a crown. The wheel symbolizes the flowering cycles of life and harmony. The wings allow for easy adaptation, one off benefit. All symbolizes the rise, moving, and briskly liberation of the mind and soul. The golden crown with three points symbolizes the power of action on the events.

This card brings good fortune, energy, enthusiasm, happy and surprising transformations. This card announces the chance and providence on the right side.

A wheel of fortune equipped with wings and a crown is shown on the map of Hazard. It symbolizes the ultimate chance, whatever the area of question! Lucky in business, where the positive events will follow one another serendipitously. Lucky in love, or destiny may place on your way soul mate when you least expect it. The chance that a cash windfall will come as a surprise. Circumstances are conducive to the success and progress. The good people will be at the right time. This oracle can also tell the consultant that the time is favorable to try his luck in the game

FEELINGS A rapid and unexpected. Circumstances of surprising encounters, fast and happy. Greater harmony given by a breath of fresh air.

PROFESSIONAL Contingencies providing a happy embodiments. The changes are immediate. All activities are favored.

FINANCES Cash unexpected. Release and relief.

HEALTH Energy found.

If you want, you can ask the cards about the energy surrounding me around my birthday (September)

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I seem to have loved you in numberless forms...

AstroMandala

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BellaFenice
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posted July 22, 2015 08:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for BellaFenice     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you everyone!

3 of Cups
Knight of Swords
3 of Pentacles

I can't say it will bad. I imagine for one it will be a fun and celebratory time so any parties or events you have around your birthday or for your birthday will go very well and enjoyable. Friends and family will also make your time more special, and this also relates to be able to meet any goals you set. There is something about communication around that time, being quick and effective. I'm not sure if you are looking to advance career wise, complete a project, or enter some sort of contest, but the outcome tells me that you will be very successful at whatever goals you set in the past and can reap benefits.

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andstuff
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posted July 23, 2015 02:50 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for andstuff     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oh, incidentally, is your offer to exchange still valid? It appears I forgot to leave a question

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LeeLoo2014
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posted July 23, 2015 05:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeeLoo2014     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you, Bella

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I seem to have loved you in numberless forms...

AstroMandala

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BellaFenice
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posted July 23, 2015 06:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for BellaFenice     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by andstuff:
Oh, incidentally, is your offer to exchange still valid? It appears I forgot to leave a question

Yes, just leave me your question.

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andstuff
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posted July 24, 2015 01:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for andstuff     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by BellaFenice:
Yes, just leave me your question.

Thanks

I was wondering what kind of person I will be in love with next? Whatever comes through, really.

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BellaFenice
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posted July 24, 2015 09:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for BellaFenice     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Knight of Wands
The Moon
Justice

This person will have a mixture of earth and water in their chart, and maybe a bit of Libra (usually denoted by the Justice card). They will be a bold communicator, and often do things to get your attention and/or praise. Expect them to be outgoing for the most part and flashy in appearance on some level. But, there is a part of them that is very intense and perhaps moody, and once in a while may get too emotional about things. There is a depth to them that might be hidden due to their boldness, but this is a person you can confide in and have deep conversation with. They do have Justice in the mix, which tells me they normally will be able to handle their emotions, as they seek to have balance in the way they handle situations, and will take a logical stance before reacting. Has a strong sense of right and wrong and will always want to make sure the situation is fair between the two of you.

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andstuff
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posted July 26, 2015 04:45 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for andstuff     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Bella

Thank you very much for your reading, sounds super cool. I have seen the knight if wands when reading for myself a couple of weeks ago, hope it was the same one.

So thanks again and best of luck with everything x

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