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Topic: Can someone pull for me. What's his motive?
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Plutonian_Gal8
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Registered: Jan 2014
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posted July 24, 2015 12:47 AM
  
Straight to the point; this a years on end, hot/cold" thing we have going on. Both have hurt one another. His chart - quite Uranian (unfortunately I can't post it right now) and I am an Aqua sun so so far it makes some since why there's been the push-pull stuff. Irresistible attraction, despite crap years ago.I've resigned myself into a no strings attached stance with him in recent years. But ALL OF A SUDDEN he's under a belief that I am "destined to be his wife" Which I call BS because his aim now, has primarily been about finding a wife, as if it's of urgency. Turning the tables on me, to get very serious. His actions "seem" authentic as far as pursuing me. If he's genuine y'all, I would consider dating him to go about it the right way. Honestly I'm scared he's not sincere as far as really cementing an honest thing. I never want to be the woman he settles for. It's consuming me lately...
Could really use your insight pls. Does A. genuinely want to go the distance with me?
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LostSoulRebecca
Knowflake Posts: 806
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Registered: Feb 2014
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posted July 24, 2015 01:33 AM
From what I got from cards it looks like he suddenly transformed himself, changed his mind. Maybe it has something to do with either health, religion or spirituality, that has made him change? However, when I asked about him being serious I got some neutral cards, two negative and two positive – the first and the last one. To me it looks like he means it, but it might take a bit longer for you two (I got Mountain, which could mean some obstacles, feeling of being stuck) to really consume the happiness of a long-lasting relationship. But the Sun card at the very end indicates final success, so from what cards are saying there is honesty on his part, willingness to try too.
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Plutonian_Gal8
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posted July 24, 2015 01:41 AM
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Originally posted by LostSoulRebecca:
From what I got from cards it looks like he suddenly transformed himself, changed his mind. Maybe it has something to do with either health, religion or spirituality, that has made him change? However, when I asked about him being serious I got some neutral cards, two negative and two positive – the first and the last one. To me it looks like he means it, but it might take a bit longer for you two (I got Mountain, which could mean some obstacles, feeling of being stuck) to really consume the happiness of a long-lasting relationship. But the Sun card at the very end indicates final success, so from what cards are saying there is honesty on his part, willingness to try too.
Thank you. Thank you SO much for granting me this reading. I'm sorry, though you did not ask, I'm not able to return the favor. I'm quite teary-eyed by what you pulled...my spirit would've finally been crushed to pieces if his intentions weren't genuine. I love him, but trust had to be built on both of our ends. I'm not surprised you pulled the Mountain card: obstacles are 100% there on my part. I have the biggest decisions to make. Presently I'm in a huge bind that will take time and courage to maneuver out of, if I really want to try something serious again.
More importantly I'm just PROUD that you received the energy of his change, because he truly has evolved a bit better. Wow, you're so awesome to help me with this. I'm tremendously grateful  IP: Logged |
LostSoulRebecca
Knowflake Posts: 806
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posted July 24, 2015 01:54 AM
I am this person who often gives people a second chance and get therefore often hurt. Again and again. So I can relate to your feeling of doubt and fear of being ultimately hurt if someone would turn back on you for the second time.Willingness to change is definitely there for him. I wish you all best. IP: Logged |
Plutonian_Gal8
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posted July 24, 2015 02:16 AM
LostSoulRebecca, awe it's refreshing to know you understand me better by having been in my shoes (though I'm not trying to make complicated love sound ok lol) Knowing at the very least my forgiveness and unconditional love isn't being taken for granted, is a decent start. Thank you again for your support  IP: Logged | |
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