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luckystar25
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posted July 24, 2015 11:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for luckystar25     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
that would be awesome just leave your questions.

1. Where do my codependency issues come from and what can i do to fix it?
2. Starting to realize my self esteem and self worth need to be higher, how do i help myself in that aspect to heal those and why are they as they are?
3. I thought i found myself completly but i realize im still trying to..what can i do to find who im meant to be and manifest the life i desire?

4. What messages to my spirit guides want to tell me right now

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peacefulclouds
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posted July 24, 2015 12:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for peacefulclouds     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
No need for exchange glad to see these questions. I will be back with some answers

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luckystar25
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posted July 24, 2015 12:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for luckystar25     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by peacefulclouds:
No need for exchange glad to see these questions. I will be back with some answers

Aww thanks peaceful
Everyones probably sick of my whining lmao i realize i need to turn within

I really do appreciate everyone on here...its like a big self exploration love fest...even tho we all dont know each other we support one another and inspire lol

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peacefulclouds
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posted July 24, 2015 12:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for peacefulclouds     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
10 cards were picked but here's first 5 which deals more of what you asked..

#1 - The core issue - King of pentacles
#2 - Opposition - Six of Wands
#3 - Root Cause - Seven of Cups
#4 - Recent happening - Five of Cups
#5 - Lesson learned - Page of Swords

This to me shows some of your current core problems has something to do with a father figure, or a male older figure in your life when you were young, and also it shows financial issue that affects the peacefulness. Were money/responsibilities always have been a big issue in your family when you were younger? In either case, there was some lack in emotional support or lacking in structure relating to finance (whether you're wealthy or not) or earthly issues in familial setting (step father?). Does not seem it's something 100% direct, or consciously understood, which could explain ur confusion.

You are surprisingly, as strange as it sounds, optimistic, even if you think you are negative. You hope for the best in your circumstances and other people, even if things are realistically not positive or wouldn't be. In many ways this is one of your good traits, even if at times it could lead to what shown above- which causes you to 'fantasize' of the possibilities, because you are seeking a kind of 'salvation', a swift change of situation towards the positive rather than a solid construct (which can be slow) but it is not out of laziness, it's because of the lack of support mentioned above condition you to feel perhaps at times hopeless.

yet, your optimistic trait wont let you stop.

I suppose what's happening to your right now, is because you felt you just lost something- or someone, which propels you into thinking of these questions. But Five of Cups is very appropriate symbol for this. 3 cups fell over but two is still standing, so despite your loss, or grief, good things are still in store for you simply because you want to seek the root cause and understand it. It's a very good trait to have, which i tied to your unique brand of optimism above.

to be continued (let me know if it does not resonate)

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peacefulclouds
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posted July 24, 2015 12:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for peacefulclouds     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
#6 - You - Two of Swords
#7 - What is coming shortly - The Devil
#8 - What's currently happening - 9 of Swords
#9 - Advice - The Chariot
#10 - Synthesis - 9 of Cups

You are shown, aptly, as if you're on a crossroad. You are unsure what steps to take. It does seem emotional, (two of swords raider waite, moonlit nighttime) but even so, you are not weak, it does show balance as the flipside. Despite that, 9 of swords shows your mindstate in a bit of vulnerable side. But it is your mind state, created by the mind, and so it will pass.

I feel strongly cards #7 and 9 is from your higher being, so I will try to read them in sequence.

Whats going to happen shortly, is a warning that you may fall into an old pattern very quickly. I am not sure if you have a lost love or someone you are into, or something you really wanted to get (an object of desire, material or person) but not good for you at this time. A light situation will occur which may trigger your co-dependency side again, perhaps they showed interest in a way that is not fully committing or you may obtain enough money to purchase an object you sorely want, but the prediction is here for you to understood and be aware of. The choice is yours to make use of this information.

The advice is to be aware and do what you feel is right- and GO for it. Ask yourself- when you are going to do something, if it is based on fear of losing, or more curiosity (to satisfy yourself)? because it makes a whole lot difference.

The synthesis card is an amazing card, well your wish will be granted in time.


Now to summarize (and answer your questions in more precise manner), on my next reply shorty (to be continued)

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peacefulclouds
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posted July 24, 2015 01:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for peacefulclouds     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
1. Where do my codependency issues come from and what can i do to fix it?

From the card spread, it seems from a lack of solid structure when you were growing up, or perhaps in teenage state. To fix it, you need to create a more solid structure, start small, such as (examples) :

-physical world: organizing your time and schedule, and making a consistent habit out of something. Provide structure in your daily life- almost like a ritual.
-emotional realm : consciously create some bullet points for your principle, for you to not ever cross, or let anyone cross. Start small, as a sample like 'I don't like others to be late, I won't be late also' etc
2. Starting to realize my self esteem and self worth need to be higher, how do i help myself in that aspect to heal those and why are they as they are?

Knowing that to have a solidity in life, you have to start from the very beginning, which can be boring. Nothing is instant or can be turned over night. A good foundation require time to solidify, and no one else but you can do it. Other people or things may make you feel good but it is fleeting, if you have no solid foundation, which in turn would suck them in also. Somehow the word 'structure' echoes over and over again. Perhaps it is your calling to build a completely new 'structure' in your life, in order to be independent, especially emotionally.
3. I thought i found myself completly but i realize im still trying to..what can i do to find who im meant to be and manifest the life i desire?

To be more open minded, and realize that there are so much in the world for you to experience. We never really 'found' ourselves completely, it's a constant journey until we die, and that is beautiful. It is not a flaw to not have found yourself completely. Accept yourself completely, good bits, flawed bits and all. Only then you can start looking beyond your own emotional needs from other people (to love or give you what you need)


Sorry for the words, and if it's not resonating, or sounds preachy. this is what I get from the cards, as I dont know much about you but your questions are very loud and clear, so these what I got for them. Let me know if you need clarifications

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luckystar25
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posted July 24, 2015 01:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for luckystar25     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Wow 100% on point i w explain more ahen im out of work but my dad use to think nust bcause he brought the money home thats all he needed to do, and would argue with my mom and leave to go to bars after she slaved away to make dinner

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peacefulclouds
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posted July 25, 2015 12:02 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for peacefulclouds     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sure, let me know if it resonates or if it is rubbish lol

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