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Topic: May I have a reading?
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WastedLove Knowflake Posts: 59 From: Registered: Jul 2015
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posted July 31, 2015 07:29 AM
Hey guys,As most of you know my ex and I broke up last month and it hasn't been easy. It's a really complicated situation with long distance and 3 different locations (I'm doing my Phd overseas, so I'm not in my home country for like half of the year). Last time we met was a month ago. We reunited to make the break up official but we ended up making out. The day after we broke it off again. We haven't spoken since and it's honestly killing me, coz when you're used to talking to someone everyday all day for 10 years straight and suddenly you just can't, it's like preventing a drug addict from taking drugs. On the other hand, even though I think he still likes me, he doesn't care that much anymore. I don't feel like he's suffering the way I am. He's in another city, busy with work, while I'm here having to deal with the memories everywhere I go.And this damn retrograde ain't helping lol. Could someone please help me read how he's feeling about me and the whole situation? IP: Logged |
WastedLove Knowflake Posts: 59 From: Registered: Jul 2015
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posted July 31, 2015 07:30 AM
NvmIP: Logged |
erickaf Knowflake Posts: 917 From: Europe Registered: Oct 2014
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posted July 31, 2015 07:47 AM
Hi I can read for you if you would like? IP: Logged |
WastedLove Knowflake Posts: 59 From: Registered: Jul 2015
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posted July 31, 2015 07:53 AM
Sure, I'd really appreciate that <3IP: Logged |
erickaf Knowflake Posts: 917 From: Europe Registered: Oct 2014
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posted July 31, 2015 11:58 AM
I asked how he feels about the breakup... Magician and queen of swords...I feel his personality is changeable however I think he isn't very focused on you, more about him. I do feel he thinks the relationship is over and done. I think he is trying to control his emotions. I asked how he feels about you...hermit and 2 of wands, he is soul searching...looking to the future as well. I pulled 4 of cups to clarify the 2 of wands. This guy is withdrawing and wants to be alone but at the same time thinking about "what now?" Everybody suffers differently. You may think he isn't suffering the way you are but that may be not necessarily true. The cards just show that at the moment he may need some time to reflect. He isn't in the mood for reconciliation or anything like that. Hope this makes sense. Sorry if the reading is short...writing on an iPad and it's not very comfortable lol. Let me know if you any other questions.IP: Logged |
WastedLove Knowflake Posts: 59 From: Registered: Jul 2015
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posted July 31, 2015 12:10 PM
hey ericka, thanks for the reading, it makes totally sense and it resonates with the other readings I got. He got a job in another city in January and that move changed him a lot. He went from a shy, loner guy, to this guy who is trying to become super sociable, who kisses everybody's ass at work and I feel like that isn't who he really is. When we met to talk I did feel like he was completely confused and lost in general. He's just too much of a mess to be with me rn :/ I feel as if he has yet to realize what he's done by throwing away our relationship like that, but I think that's just my own bias speaking IP: Logged |
WastedLove Knowflake Posts: 59 From: Registered: Jul 2015
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posted July 31, 2015 12:21 PM
ericka, if you don't mind me asking, what do you see for us in the future? IP: Logged |
erickaf Knowflake Posts: 917 From: Europe Registered: Oct 2014
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posted August 01, 2015 08:26 AM
quote: Originally posted by WastedLove: ericka, if you don't mind me asking, what do you see for us in the future?
Chariot-Star-Ace of Cups Looks like someone is moving, travelling or something like that, I see long-distance relationship, longing from afar...I see someone starting a new relationship, ...however, since I am a hopeless romantic I like the Ace of Cups, there could be an open line of communication between you two, a potential for a new stage in your relationship. Hope this helps. Just let him have his time for reflection for now. Good Luck. IP: Logged |
WastedLove Knowflake Posts: 59 From: Registered: Jul 2015
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posted August 01, 2015 08:45 AM
Thank you ericka! Wow, you're good. I'm going abroad in September, so there's definitely some long distance going on. I hope that if someone starts a new relationship it's me haha.Thanks again IP: Logged |
erickaf Knowflake Posts: 917 From: Europe Registered: Oct 2014
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posted August 01, 2015 09:05 AM
You are welcome.IP: Logged |
WastedLove Knowflake Posts: 59 From: Registered: Jul 2015
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posted August 01, 2015 09:06 AM
Thank you ericka! Wow, you're good. I'm going abroad in September, so there's definitely some long distance going on. I hope that if someone starts a new relationship it's me haha.Thanks again IP: Logged |