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Tryptamine
Newflake

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From: Nottingham, UK
Registered: Jun 2015

posted August 02, 2015 11:38 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Tryptamine     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey guys, I'm looking for a little insight to a problem that I have. I feel that people don't trust me, or take what I say at face value very often. This has ended up with people spreading hurtful mean things about me, on the basis of assumption and I'm starting to become a bit neurotic about it.


I've had several bad experiences in the past with people basically treating me like a creep or a weirdo behind my back, but being 'nice' to my face (apart from small digs that they try to disguise) and even had housemates digging through my things whilst I was gone and going through my personal belongings! Apparently, I have 'too many secrets'. I guess I should add that I'm quite the introvert and quite happy in my own company, more so than others and I guess they find this hard to grasp?


People seem to think that I'm a liar? My mother recently introduced me to a boyfriend that she had and told him that I lie a lot!

I don't consider myself I liar, infact, I never tell people fabrications, if I'm to 'hide' something from someone (I'm allowed privacy in my life, no?) I'll simply omit what I think they don't need to know... Infact, the things I'm accused of lying about are always true...

What's causing this? At times I would hear my old housemates talking about me and basically gossiping in the other room (rude, I stopped talking to them and moved out because of things like this) and it's the speculation and spreading of rumour that are unjust that bother me the most, because it then affects the way people treat me and it seems very undeserved - I'd never gossip or speak about someone else maliciously.

Here's my chart: http://imgur.com/bYAt7WW

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Enneline
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Registered: Nov 2012

posted August 02, 2015 12:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Enneline     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Maybe your asc in scorpio and its ruler in 1st house makes you come across as intimidating and/or weird + the ruler pluto inconjunct mercury could make your words come across as "awkward".

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