posted August 05, 2015 10:24 AM
ASPECTS FROM HIM TO VIVI327
Him's Moon Semisquare Vivi327's Moon
Orb 0°08' Separating
This is a difficult combination for close, personal relationships whether they be friendships or love relationships. However it is not unusual to see a connection between two lovers' Moons. Emotional tensions can arise easily through misunderstandings. In the long term unresolved tension can lead to breakdowns in the relationship. Therefore it is important to resolve emotional problems rather than leave them in the hope that everything will turn out all right in the end. The problem is not a lack of care or love. In fact Him and Vivi327 can be very much in love and are often baffled as to why they just can't seem to feel secure within a loving relationship. The problem is that both Him and Vivi327 seek comfort and emotional satisfaction in different ways. This is where the misunderstandings arise. Perhaps one of them likes action in times of stress while the other likes to withdraw and ponder on the best path forward. Possibly one person wants to seek comfort in the arms of their loved one when faced with life's stresses, while the other wants to create some alone time. Whatever the manner in which Him and Vivi327 seek comfort it is likely to differ from each other. There is a positive side. This combination enables Him and Vivi327 to develop a better understanding of the each other, particularly if they can maintain a compassionate and understanding approach. It is also possible that other aspects of their personal charts mean that they enjoy a little spice in life. Perhaps a little tension is better than a void? If both people are committed to working through emotional problems this can lead to a satisfying and rewarding relationship.
Him's Moon Conjunction Vivi327's Sun
Orb 6°14' Applying
This is an ideal combination for a close, personal relationship whether it be a close friendship or love relationship. Him and Vivi327 enjoy each other's company and feel that the other person is giving something special to the relationship. They have a lot in common and the ability to share enjoyable times together. Vivi327 is likely to be the more dominant person in the relationship believing her identity and individuality are likely to be enhanced by the association. Perhaps Vivi327 receives emotional support from Him which contributes to a greater sense of being alive and an ability to achieve her personal goals. Vivi327 may appreciate Him's emotional insights. On the other hand Him feels comforted by the relationship, perhaps playing a supportive role and offering emotional insights and comfort. Alternatively Him may simply feel secure within the relationship, experiencing a sense of well-being. This relationship provides Him with a supportive base from which to explore life. Both Him and Vivi327 understand each other and enjoy an easy rapport which augurs well for their association.
Him's Moon Trine Vivi327's Mars
Orb 3°09' Separating
This combination of planets denotes a relationship that is exciting and animated. Him and Vivi327's discussions are lively and impassioned and their shared pastimes are also likely to be energetic and fun. Him and Vivi327 enjoy spontaneity and both tend to be impulsive when together. Both of them feel that their lives have become more effervescent with the advent of this relationship. Him is most likely to feel that Vivi327 brings excitement into his life. Him is aware that Vivi327's drive and energy contributes positively to his life. Whereas Vivi327 feels inspired by the relationship to achieve her goals. Vivi327 acknowledges that Him's support and understanding is helping her to advance in life. There is also likely to be a strong sexual attraction that helps to add a little spice to life. However, this sexual attraction is most powerful when both Him and Vivi327 are feeling comfortable within the association. The attraction can lose its spark when there is emotional tension. Fortunately, this does not happen often. Him and Vivi327 are mostly able to resolve their differences and enjoy an enlivened and satisfying union.
Him's Moon Sesquisquare Vivi327's Saturn
Orb 0°31' Separating
Many astrologers believe that a connection between the serious planet Saturn and a personal planet such as the Moon is important, enabling the relationship to be long lasting. However, this can also be a difficult connection. Him and Vivi327 can both suffer from feelings of discontent and insecurity within this union. They work hard to cover up their sense that some emotional warmth is lacking, but there are times when they despair of getting their needs met. Him feels this lack of emotional warmth keenly. It is difficult for him to relax and feel truly appreciated in this relationship. Vivi327 brings a certain coldness to the union, finding it difficult to generate emotional warmth. Vivi327 may feel that her attempts at intimacy are misunderstood and met with an overly-emotional reaction from Him. Much work needs to be done in order to understand each other. On a positive note this combination of planets can indicate a committed to resolve difficulties. Therefore Him and Vivi327 have the strong possibility of being able to stay in this relationship on a long-term basis and reap the rewards of a stable and secure union. A satisfying relationship can result from Him's and Vivi327's patience and persistence.
Him's Moon Square Vivi327's Neptune
Orb 0°21' Applying
Romance is a major theme in a union that involves the Moon and the planet Neptune. With this combination of planets Him and Vivi327 both feel that they are meant to be together. Perhaps they believe that it is a union of their souls. This is the height of romantic love. However, with romantic love there is always the possibility of disillusionment. Him and Vivi327 are likely to stumble across obstacles in this relationship because of unrealistic and overly idealistic expectations of each other. It is difficult for them to maintain the heights of love first attained at the beginning of the relationship. Misunderstandings can easily arise. After the first flush of love Him feels that his emotional needs are being ignored, that Vivi327 does not understand him. It is even possible that Him feels that Vivi327 is being deceptive in some manner. There is a danger that Vivi327 does feel the need to hide behind a facade, failing to be her true self. Perhaps Vivi327 feels that she cannot live up to Him's expectations. Despair within this relationship needs to be avoided by both Him and Vivi327 facing their feelings of loss in previous relationships. They need to face the problems honestly in order to avoid the breakdown of trust and ultimately the relationship. As a result Him and Vivi327 may be able to recapture their sense of belonging together which was so strong in the initial stages of their union.
Him's Moon Quincunx Vivi327's Pluto
Orb 0°20' Applying
This is an intense and powerful relationship. Him and Vivi327 feel a strong attraction to each other, one that seems to unconsciously draw them together. Him's and Vivi327's deep feelings for each other need to be nurtured in a loving manner in order for the union to be long lasting. However, this can be quite difficult for Him and Vivi327 to achieve. It's not that they don't love each other, because they do care very deeply. The problem is that at times their intense emotions seem to erupt from nowhere. In fact the feelings have been simmering under the surface ready to be expressed at any moment. The pressure builds up quickly between Him and Vivi327 and before they know it they are embroiled in an emotional drama. Of course this can vary, depending on how Him and Vivi327 handle intense feelings. Some individuals thrive on intensity, while others feel threatened and powerless. Him is likely to feel that his life has been transformed in some way by Vivi327. It's possible that Vivi327 has changed the way that Him feels about the world, making him conscious of things that have been bubbling under the surface for a long time. Life is not the same for Him once he encounters Vivi327. He may feel powerless, overwhelmed by Vivi327's volatile nature. The key is for Him is able to see through the explosive behaviour to the true heart of Vivi327 and to nurture Vivi327's goodness. As a result Vivi327 will deeply appreciate the emotional support offered by Him. If this does not occur then it is likely that Vivi327 will feel angry about the constant demands being placed on her by Him. Vivi327 will start to withdraw and become isolated, only initiating contact in the relationship when she feels at boiling point. The challenge for Vivi327 is to maintain a loving attitude and to give Him time to learn his emotional lessons. This is indeed a passionate personal union and one that needs to be loving, otherwise there is a danger of abuse. This combination can also signify a secret love affair in which intense feelings are indeed in the background. It can also depict an intense working relationship in which power struggles abound, but it is more likely to point to a personal union.
Him's Sun Quincunx Vivi327's Moon
Orb 1°31' Applying
'Opposites attract' could the theme for this combination of personal planets. There is an instant spark when Vivi327 and Him meet, whether they choose to enjoy a friendship or a more intimate relationship. The world seems more exciting when they are together. When together Vivi327 and Him are able to broaden their horizons in ways they had not thought possible. Each one seems to fill a void deep inside the other. In astrology it is considered important to have a combination of personal planets in order to enjoy a deep relationship, but this can be a difficult combination once the initial excitement has worn off. Friction easily arises and what was once attractive becomes irritating. The success of this relationship largely depends on each person's ability to accept the other person's differences. Him may eventually have difficulty understanding Vivi327's emotional nature. Him may feel impatient and frustrated by the limitations placed on him by Vivi327. Vivi327 may feel overwhelmed by Him's personality. The initial excitement of the association with someone so opposing in nature may be replaced by feelings of insecurity. It's important for both Vivi327 and Him to continue to appreciate each other's differences at all times and to realise that this relationship is potentially very rewarding if the difficulties can be faced and resolutions found.
Him's Sun Opposition Vivi327's Venus
Orb 1°58' Applying
This combination of the Sun and the personal planet Venus in relationship astrology is a difficult one. It indicates that the two people have conflicting values when it comes to personal relationships, which creates problems for any long-term association. Him and Vivi327 feel a strong attraction to each other, but they cannot seem to communicate in a harmonious manner. Joint decisions about relationships are difficult. Him and Vivi327 argue about subjects such as the future of their relationship, family associations, money matters and creative pastimes. They just can't seem to agree. Him feels frustrated. On the one hand Him is drawn to Vivi327. On the other hand Him knows that he is losing his identity in this relationship, and is often floundering to express himself. Vivi327 is also frustrated. She feels overwhelmed by Him's powerful personality and is unable to get on with her creative pursuits. Neither Him nor Vivi327 really feels that they are benefiting from this union, and yet they feel drawn to try to resolve the problems. Depending on other connections in this relationship Him and Vivi327 may finally decide to end their association or they could resolve their differences. They may need to seek counsel on how to resolve their differences.
Him's Sun Trine Vivi327's Jupiter
Orb 3°05' Separating
The Sun and the favourable planet Jupiter are combining suggesting that this relationship is blessed with good fortune and happiness. It is an ideal combination for an intimate relationship such as marriage because it indicates shared philosophies on life and the ability to grow together. Together Him and Vivi327 land on their feet no matter how difficult a situation. They seem destined to be in the right place at the right time. Him and Vivi327 enjoy each other's company, feeling all of the benefits that come with this union. Their optimism and enthusiasm are infectious, and as a couple they are popular. In particular Him shines as a result of his association with Vivi327. Him feels able to embrace life and all it has to offer. He is aware that his union with Vivi327 is truly blessed and that it helps him to achieve his full potential. Vivi327 knows that her horizons are continually expanding through her association with Him. Vivi327 feels able to conquer the world. In fact it is likely that both Him and Vivi327 enjoy travelling, studying or teaching together. They enjoy sharing anything that expands their minds and contributes positively to their lives.
Him's Sun Sextile Vivi327's Saturn
Orb 1°07' Applying
Many astrologers believe that a connection between the serious planet Saturn and a personal planet such as the Sun is important, providing the cement for a long-lasting relationship. In other words a serious planet is needed for a serious, meaningful union such as marriage. It is certainly true that the combination of the Sun and Saturn is found in many, meaningful relationships. However, the harmful planet Saturn can also cause problems. The extent of the problems varies according to the astrological aspect. Certainly this combination indicates that Him and Vivi327 both view this as a serious association, whether it is a marriage, friendship or a working partnership. Both Him and Vivi327 are committed to their association. It is likely that they experienced a strong attraction in the initial stages of their relationship, and it is likely to be long lasting. When Him and Vivi327 first meet they each know they have discovered a potential serious relationship, one to which they can commit and build on over a lifetime. If they believe in reincarnation, then it is likely that they feel a karmic attraction, a moment of recognition when they first look into the other person's eyes. However, the very qualities, which they seriously considered as attractive in the initial stages of the relationship, can become the source of friction if they are not careful. In particular, Vivi327 needs to be wary of becoming too critical and judgmental. Initially Vivi327 found Him's personality traits to be worthy of a committed union. She admired Him's qualities as complementing her own. However, it is easy for Vivi327 to forget this attraction. As the relationship develops she feels threatened by the force of Him's personality and takes a superior attitude in defence. As a result Him feels threatened, disliking the authoritarian side of Vivi327. If Him is not careful his self-confidence is whittled away and the relationship becomes onerous. It is vital that both Him and Vivi327 work at developing a stable basis for communication and understanding in this relationship. If both Him and Vivi327 work at maintaining their own self-confidence as well as mutual respect then they have the makings for a very successful marriage or working relationship. If this is the case they both benefit from the stability offered by this union, growing in integrity in their own lives.
Him's Sun Square Vivi327's Uranus
Orb 0°52' Separating
This is a relationship full of verve and romance, particularly in the first throes of love. Him and Vivi327 are attracted to each other from the moment that they first meet and continue to experience excitement and joy in each other's company. Despite this sense of adventure, Him and Vivi327 may have trouble maintaining a committed, long-term relationship. This combination of the Sun and the planet Uranus suggest more an erratic and thrilling relationship, rather than a stable one. The initial enthusiasm can fade as Him and Vivi327 begin to experience the need to accommodate each other's needs and desires in this union. Him and Vivi327 are each determined to maintain their individuality, which can present problems for any union that requires compromise. Him and Vivi327 both want to do things their own way and become rebellious if the other person presents any obstacles. This is particularly true for Vivi327, who stresses her individuality and can be unwilling to adjust to the demands of a serious relationship. Vivi327 does not want to be overridden by what she perceives as Him's strong personality and may have problems showing a long-term commitment. Likewise Him believes that Vivi327 stands in the way of him expressing his true nature. On a more positive note this association brings something new and original into Him and Vivi327's lives and they both feel enlivened as a result. The long-term success of this union may depend on other connections between Him and Vivi327's astrology charts.
Him's Sun Semisquare Vivi327's Pluto
Orb 1°59' Applying
This combination of planets indicates a relationship that is life changing, whether it be a friendship, love union or work association. Both Him and Vivi327 feel a powerful attraction for each other in the initial stages of the relationship. It is as if they are both compelled to relate, perhaps even in response to strong opposition from outside sources. Once the exciting first stages of the union have passed, it is likely that both Him and Vivi327 become embroiled in a struggle for dominance. There is no longer an impetus for change and the challenge has become wearisome. Now Him and Vivi327's relationship resembles a battleground in which both try to change the other. It is possible that these battles become emotionally abusive, perhaps even violent. It is important for both Him and Vivi327 to avoid senseless battles from which neither emerges triumphant. Money may be at the root of the problems, or it could be that sexual matters are a key theme in this relationship. Either way it is likely that Him feels overwhelmed by this union to the point where he suffers from low self-esteem. There could be a tendency for Vivi327 to try to bully Him that may only make matters worse. Him is faced with the challenge of delving deep into his personal resources to find a sense of self-value. Vivi327 is a powerful force in this union and needs to learn how to use her power wisely.
Him's Mercury Quincunx Vivi327's Sun
Orb 1°51' Separating
The importance of communication in relationships cannot be emphasised enough. Without understanding of another person's point of view and the ability to communicate one's own thoughts and feelings a relationship can easily breakdown. This is a difficult combination for communications in a relationship. Vivi327 and Him have difficulty understanding each other's point of view. They cannot communicate their thoughts and feelings easily. Consequently Vivi327 and Him have trouble being together and a certain tension exists in the relationship. Vivi327 needs to be wary of having too much pride, of trying to override Him's views through sheer force of personality. Vivi327 takes a superior attitude to Him, which proves detrimental in the long run. Him feels misunderstood, knowing that his ideas are so different to Vivi327's. There is a danger that Him starts keeping his thoughts to himself thereby blocking any chance of communications improving. As long as both Vivi327 and Him continue to try to overcome these obstacles then their union has a chance for success. They may find it of benefit to take time out and write down their thoughts and feelings during times of stress rather than speaking on the spur of the moment.
Him's Mercury Sesquisquare Vivi327's Mercury
Orb 0°13' Applying
Communication plays a central role in the success of any relationship whether it be a love union, friendship or work association. This combination indicates a difficult liaison. It is a particularly tricky combination for personal relationships, which can thrive or fail on the basis of harmony or disharmony in communications. The combination can also create tension in friendships and work associations. The difficulties arise when Him and Vivi327 try to communicate their thoughts and opinions. Either Him and Vivi327 disagree on many subjects or they fail to communicate exactly what is on their minds. Either way the end result is tension and arguments. Criticism plays too prominent a role in this relationship. Both Him and Vivi327 feel irritable when together, but don't really understand the true cause of the friction. They feel compelled to communicate with each other; perhaps they have to work together on a joint project. However, harmony seems to elude this relationship. Him and Vivi327 need to find methods of communicating clearly and calmly in order for this association to succeed. Perhaps written communication could help take the heat out of communications, or involving a third person as an advocate could prove beneficial.
Him's Mercury Opposition Vivi327's Venus
Orb 7°13' Applying
A positive blend of the personal planets of Mercury and Venus is a desirable one for an intimate union, and certainly advantageous to any association that requires harmony and collaboration. Therefore it is unfortunate that this combination is a difficult one. This association of planets indicates incompatibility in a relationship. No matter how hard Him and Vivi327 try they find it hard to relax in each other's company. Disharmony seems to infiltrate their union at every turn. The problem is that Him and Vivi327 simply cannot find any common ground for agreement. Their opinions and values clash, which makes any shared activities fraught with tension. In particular Vivi327 feels that she is subjected to Him's unnecessary criticism. Vivi327 feels unappreciated and lonely, unable to share warm and loving moment required in her relationship. On the other hand Him believes that he cannot express his opinions freely without being misunderstood. Him loses confidence in his communication abilities and possibly withdraws his attention from the relationship. The extent of the difficulties in this relationship depends on other aspects of Him and Vivi327's association. The positive side is that Him and Vivi327 are attracted to each and can work towards improving their communication skills. In this way they may learn to value each other.
Him's Mercury Trine Vivi327's Jupiter
Orb 2°08' Applying
This is a positive combination of the planets Mercury and Jupiter and provides inspiration in any relationship whether it is a friendship, work association or more intimate union. Both Him and Vivi327 discover new worlds through their association. They enjoy broadening their minds through overseas travel or by learning about different cultures in books and study courses. Philosophy, metaphysics and religion are topics of conversation, which stimulate and expand their minds. It's also possible that Him and Vivi327 pursue activities connected with philanthropic or philosophical ideologies. In particular Him's mind is extended through his relationship with Vivi327. Him is willing to listen and accept the wisdom of Vivi327's ideas. In turn Him is able to provide ways in which Vivi327 can better communicate her ideas. Together they are able to grow and learn.
Him's Mercury Square Vivi327's Uranus
Orb 4°21' Applying
A lively and unpredictable relationship is the result of this combination of planets. Him and Vivi327 enjoy the meeting of two minds and the sense of freedom that they experience in each other's company. At first they both enjoy the tension that crackles between them, but this soon becomes irritating. The problem is that there is no peace to be experienced in this relationship. The constant tension of two people having different ideas is a challenge. What seemed like a meeting of two minds soon becomes a clashing of two minds. Another obstacle to a close bond is a lack of commitment. As the relationship develops Him and Vivi327 realise that it is difficult for them to predict the outcome of their union. In particular Him experiences discomfort because of Vivi327's unreliability. Even if Vivi327 is usually a reliable person, she seems unable to be constant in her association with Him. This is a difficult combination for a personal relationship, although it can work depending on other aspects of the relationship. It is difficult to find a balance in a friendship or work association.
Him's Venus Opposition Vivi327's Venus
Orb 1°36' Separating
A love relationship can both benefit and be adversely affected by this combination of the planets Venus. Ancient astrologers considered the planet Venus to have most beneficial effects and this can be seen clearly in relationship astrology. Both Him and Vivi327 are attracted to each other, seeing the very best of themselves reflected in the other person. On the whole they enjoy each other's company, making the most of their joint interests. Him and Vivi327 are likely to enjoy various pleasurable outings ranging from alfresco meals to visits to the theatre. However problems arise once the initial attraction wears off and they start to disagree on how their relationship should be approached e.g. the blend of freedom and closeness, intellect and emotion, personal time and social activities to name a few. Then it is more difficult for Him and Vivi327 to make the most of their relationship. Their success in overcoming these difficulties depends on other aspects of their relationship. This combination is more common in love relationship, but can also indicate a friendship.
Him's Venus Sextile Vivi327's Saturn
Orb 2°26' Separating
The planet Saturn is an important ingredient in any committed relationship. This sombre planet can take away some of the short-term excitement of any union, but on a positive note it adds commitment and security needed for a long-term association. In other words Him and Vivi327 take this relationship seriously. They are devoted to each other and joyful in making promises that they are both able to keep. From the start of their association they enjoy taking their time getting to know each other, experiencing stability and understanding that grows slowly over time. They genuinely love each other and want to work towards a strong partnership. At times Him would like more fun and spontaneity, but he appreciates Vivi327's wisdom in slowing things down in order to build a lasting union. Mutual respect is a central theme to this union. There is also a strong feeling of fate in this relationship. Him and Vivi327 may tell a story of how destiny meant for them to be together. While this combination of planets indicates a serious personal relationship, it can also be a positive influence on a partnership formed for the purpose of an artistic or creative project requiring both inspiration and hard work.
Him's Venus Square Vivi327's Uranus
Orb 4°27' Separating
This combination of planets indicates an instant and vital magnetism. It is the type of attraction in which Him and Vivi327 take one look at each other across a crowded room and feel the sparks. Romance is alight and the relationship develops at a rapid rate. Friends are amazed as the couple's union becomes more and more intense. However, it is likely that Him and Vivi327 have trouble maintaining the excitement in the long term. As the relationship develops the attraction turns to irritation as the passion wears off. In particular Him feels that his love is being rejected as other interests and pursuits distract Vivi327. At times it is difficult for Vivi327 to maintain her involvement in this relationship without becoming distracted by other creative interests. These may be scientific, astrological, environmental, technological or political. If other aspects of this relationship do indicate a strong bond, it is likely that Him and Vivi327 experience friction in areas such as finances, personal hobbies, home comforts and friendships. The challenge for both Him and Vivi327 is to find a balance between freedom and intimacy that suits both of them. If this can't be achieved then it is likely that the relationship fails.
Him's Mars Square Vivi327's Mercury
Orb 4°57' Applying
A feisty relationship is the result of this combination of the planets Mercury and Mars. When Vivi327 and Him are together the sparks fly. The nature of these sparks depends on other aspects of the relationship. On the one hand Vivi327 and Him may be positively stimulated by each other's company, enjoying lively conversations and energetic activities. Both Vivi327 and Him learn much from each other and may enjoy facing challenges together which in turn help them to move forward in their own lives. However, it is more likely that this combination indicates a combustive reaction when Vivi327 and Him are together. The relationship is likely to be fraught with misunderstandings and angry reactions. In particular Him is aggressive, perhaps even trying to bully Vivi327 to do things his way. Him honestly believes that he knows what is right for Vivi327 and energetically sets about trying to achieve his goals. However, Vivi327 resents these tactics and becomes critical of everything that Him does. There seems to be no middle ground and tempers are frayed. Vivi327 is usually able to have the last word, but Him knows how to act in a way that is guaranteed to escalate any argument. Of course there is always the possibility that both Vivi327 and Him enjoy the drama of this relationship. However, if this is not the case then the lesson is to learn to respect each other's differences and to channel all of the energy created by this partnership into positive activities and lively discussions.
Him's Mars Trine Vivi327's Venus
Orb 3°03' Separating
This is the ideal combination for a love union because it creates a strong sexual attraction and compatibility. Vivi327 and Him are likely to fall in love at first sight enjoying a passionate union, the type of love affair featured in romance novels. The durability of the relationship depends on other connections between Vivi327 and Him. However, if the love union is long term, both Vivi327 and Him can rely on the sexual attraction to help them through troubled times. Vivi327 and Him enjoy spending time together, in particular welcoming pleasure trips, romantic outings and artistic activities. They may also find pleasure in a joint creative project. Him is likely to be the more assertive partner, both in bed and out of bed. Him enjoys taking the lead and Vivi327 is happy to acquiesce. While this combination is ideal for marriage or love affairs, it can also be a creative connection for friendships or work associations that involve working on an artistic project. However, it is important that both individuals remain focused on the creative project at hand unless a sexual flirtation is welcomed and appropriate.
Him's Mars Trine Vivi327's Saturn
Orb 3°53' Separating
Commitment is a central theme to this relationship. Him and Vivi327 are striving to build something concrete whether it be a future together or work project. Together they have the strength and wisdom to achieve a shared ambition. This is not a flighty association. Both Him and Vivi327 are aiming for a long-term and stable partnership. For this reason the union is likely to involve a contract, perhaps a business or marriage contract. There may also be a strong sense of destiny linked with this union. Him contributes the drive and initiative and Vivi327 possesses the stability and practical aptitude. Him wants to move forward, inspiring Vivi327 to overcome obstacles that stand in their path. Him is full of enthusiasm, whereas Vivi327 is more cautious. At times Him pushes Vivi327 forward. At others Vivi327 restrains Him, proving that there is wisdom in a slow but sure path. Together they achieve success in their joint enterprises in the long term.
Him's Jupiter Trine Vivi327's Mercury
Orb 1°07' Separating
This is a positive combination of the planets Mercury and Jupiter and provides inspiration in any relationship whether it is a friendship, work association or more intimate union. Both Vivi327 and Him discover new worlds through their association. They enjoy broadening their minds through overseas travel or by learning about different cultures in books and study courses. Philosophy, metaphysics and religion are topics of conversation, which stimulate and expand their minds. It's also possible that Vivi327 and Him pursue activities connected with philanthropic or philosophical ideologies. In particular Vivi327's mind is extended through her relationship with Him. Vivi327 is willing to listen and accept the wisdom of Him's ideas. In turn Vivi327 is able to provide ways in which Him can better communicate his ideas. Together they are able to grow and learn.
Him's Jupiter Square Vivi327's Mars
Orb 2°22' Applying
Vivi327 and Him have difficulty maintaining equilibrium in this relationship. They both eagerly approach joint tasks. There is no lack of enthusiasm, only a lack of harmony. Problems arise at the start of any joint project because Vivi327 and Him fail to agree on common goals. Once they have managed to agree on the goals, then they both have their own ideas about what is the best process of achieving those goals. They often seem to be heading in opposite directions. In fact they put their own independent desires first, rather than considering what is best for the bigger picture. Vivi327 has a tendency to force Him to do things her way. At times Vivi327 can be quite aggressive in her communication. Him believes that he knows best. The result is tension and arguments. The challenge is for both Vivi327 and Him to learn to co-operate, each using their own talents while respecting the skills of the other person.
Him's Jupiter Sesquisquare Vivi327's Jupiter
Orb 0°47' Applying
This association can bring joy to both Him and Vivi327, depending on the nature of other aspects of their relationship. If other aspects are positive then Him and Vivi327 are likely to enjoy each other's company, giving and taking. Although they may hold opposite beliefs or find pleasure in different ways, they are tolerant of each other's differences. In fact they enjoy the stimulation of each other's differences. Ancient astrologers consider the planet Jupiter to be of beneficial affect in each person's life. Hence the mostly positive influence of this combination on Him and Vivi327's relationship. There is a chance that other tensions in their union adversely affect this beneficial influence. If this is the case then Him and Vivi327 are more likely to have differences of opinion over values, beliefs and pastimes. These differences can be a source of tension rather than a source of joy.
Him's Jupiter Trine Vivi327's Neptune
Orb 5°53' Applying
This is a union of empathy and understanding, particularly in the areas of spiritual and religious beliefs. Both Him and Vivi327 understand and share each other's aspirations and dreams. At times their intuitive understanding of each other is so keen that they almost seem telepathically linked. It is possible that both Him and Vivi327 share a spiritual or religious conviction and belong to the same group or church. This may be a central force in their association. It is also possible that they take part in a philanthropic pursuit such as mission work in a foreign country or working for the same charitable organisation. Whatever the outlet for their beliefs, both Him and Vivi327 appreciate and enjoy each other's values, thus enabling them to better pursue a more altruistic path in life. Him and Vivi327 brighten each other's lives through their shared beliefs.
Him's Jupiter Conjunction Vivi327's Ascendant
Orb 5°53' Separating
It is significant in relationship astrology when one person's planet makes contact with the Ascendant in another person's chart. In this case Him's Jupiter is combining with Vivi327's Ascendant indicating that this is a significant relationship. Him and Vivi327 feel strongly drawn to each other, experiencing a sense of completeness in each other's company. Him is enthusiastic about his relationship with Vivi327. He enjoys exploring new territories with Vivi327, perhaps even teaching Vivi327 new experiences. He appreciates the benefits that this union brings into his life. In turn Vivi327 has a greater sense of well-being through her association with Him. She appreciates Him's love of adventure and his attitude to this union. Together they share a mutual respect and affection. While this combination is most likely to indicate an intimate love union, it can also augur well for friendships, family relationship, teacher-student and work associations.
Him's Saturn Quincunx Vivi327's Moon
Orb 0°57' Separating
Many astrologers believe that a connection between the serious planet Saturn and a personal planet such as the Moon is important, enabling the relationship to be long lasting. However, this can also be a difficult connection. Vivi327 and Him can both suffer from feelings of discontent and insecurity within this union. They work hard to cover up their sense that some emotional warmth is lacking, but there are times when they despair of getting their needs met. Vivi327 feels this lack of emotional warmth keenly. It is difficult for her to relax and feel truly appreciated in this relationship. Him brings a certain coldness to the union, finding it difficult to generate emotional warmth. Him may feel that his attempts at intimacy are misunderstood and met with an overly-emotional reaction from Vivi327. Much work needs to be done in order to understand each other. On a positive note this combination of planets can indicate a committed to resolve difficulties. Therefore Vivi327 and Him have the strong possibility of being able to stay in this relationship on a long-term basis and reap the rewards of a stable and secure union. A satisfying relationship can result from Vivi327's and Him's patience and persistence.
Him's Saturn Opposition Vivi327's Venus
Orb 0°30' Separating
The planet Saturn is an important ingredient in any committed relationship. On a positive note this planet indicates the commitment and security needed for a long-term association. However, in this case the path to love is rocky and there are likely to be obstacles which require hard work if this relationship is to be lasting. On the one hand both Vivi327 and Him love each other and want to form a successful and loving bond. However, on the other hand they have to strive hard to overcome their misunderstandings of each other. Vivi327 wants fun and pleasure. She has a lot of love to give, but has difficulty finding avenues through which to communicate her feelings to Him. Vivi327 believes that Him may be blocking any progress in their relationship, inadvertently spoiling the fun. At times Vivi327 fears that she will be stifled as the relationship continues. Him does take this relationship seriously, perhaps a little too seriously. He has difficulty overcoming his concerns about how the relationship should progress. Him may be a little too rigid in his beliefs, fearing true intimacy. The challenge for both Vivi327 and Him is to face their fears and find a path forward. With hard work and determination they can build a secure partnership based on mutual respect and love. While this combination of planets can indicate a serious personal relationship, it can also depict a partnership formed for the purpose of an artistic or creative project requiring both inspiration and hard work.
Him's Saturn Trine Vivi327's Jupiter
Orb 5°34' Separating
A strong bond is formed as a result of this combination of the planets Jupiter and Saturn, in which both Vivi327 and Him learn a great deal from each other. In many ways Vivi327 and Him take an opposing approach to their relationship. Vivi327 is more adventurous, keen to explore new territories. She takes a somewhat philosophical approach to this relationship. On the other hand Him is cautious, often taking a slower and more practical outlook. Fortunately they enjoy these opposing qualities, finding equilibrium in their relationship. Him finds his day enlivened by Vivi327's personality. In turn Vivi327 enjoys having a stable and patient companion to bounce her ideas off. Him learns much from Vivi327's wisdom, gaining a greater understanding of his own nature. Together Vivi327 and Him can achieve much success in either their personal lives or a joint project.
Him's Saturn Sextile Vivi327's Saturn
Orb 1°21' Separating
The role of the planet Saturn is important in relationships, particularly partnerships that require a long-term commitment. Both Him and Vivi327's ability to work through difficulties in a positive and compassionate manner play an important part in any combination of relationship planets that include the planet Saturn. This serious planet can represent either stability and security that enhances individual's lives, or restrictions and constraint that eventually erodes confidence. It can indicate a sharing or conflict of values. In this case it is likely that Him and Vivi327 share common values and enjoy a committed relationship that embraces the positive traits of fellowship and co-operation. They both take this union seriously and respect each other enough to continue to work through any difficult moments. They may also believe that they were meant for each other, perhaps experiencing a moment of recognition when they first meet.
Him's Saturn Square Vivi327's Uranus
Orb 3°21' Separating
This is a difficult combination of planets in relationship astrology indicating an imbalance between commitment and freedom. On the one hand Him and Vivi327 feel drawn to each other, seeing qualities in each other that they feel they lack themselves. Him and Vivi327 believe that they will learn from being together. On the other hand; however, tension soon results as they fail to reconcile their differences. Him is likely to take a more serious approach to this union, feeling the need for a strong bond. However, Vivi327 is hard to pin down, preferring the freedom of non-commitment. Vivi327 wants to initiate change and growth even though Him is likely to resist. It is possible that Him becomes frustrated and tries to control Vivi327's behaviour. Him may even resort to criticism which ultimately only undermines Vivi327's creative impulses and self-confidence. If this happens Vivi327 is likely to rebel and leave the relationship. Both Him and Vivi327 need to strive for a balance between commitment to each other and independence.
Him's Saturn Semisquare Vivi327's Pluto
Orb 0°29' Separating
The combination of the planets Saturn and Pluto indicates that this is an important and challenging relationship, although not necessarily an intimate one. Him and Vivi327 have difficulty relating to each other, both approaching the association from different angles. Him tends to communicate with Vivi327 in a serious and cautious manner, hoping to run a stable course. However, Vivi327 feels restricted by this method of relating and wants to break out. Resentment can build up on both sides causing friction that is difficult to resolve.
Him's Uranus Square Vivi327's Moon
Orb 1°47' Separating
The saying 'expect the unexpected' could be applied to this combination of Vivi327's and Him's planets. There is an element of excitement and adventure when Vivi327 and Him get together, but there is also an element of insecurity. Both Vivi327 and Him enjoy the thrill of being in each other's company exploring new territories together, but many relationships start with the thrill and ardour of romance only to have it fade later. This is the problem to be faced by Vivi327 and Him. Unless they have other connections between more permanent or personal planets in their charts, Vivi327 and Him are in danger of a growing discontent. There is a lack of stability that feeds both Vivi327's and Him's insecurities. Vivi327 becomes needy and Him becomes distant and emotionally withdrawn. The problem is that Vivi327 feels that she cannot rely on Him. What was once an adventure no longer seems so exciting. As a result Him's impulsive nature becomes a source of discomfort for Vivi327. On the other hand Him thinks that his creativity is being stifled by Vivi327's emotional needs. This belief may cause Him to rebel, finding it difficult to commit to Vivi327. This relationship, if a personal one, is likely to require a lot of freedom and an unorthodox approach in order for it to last. While this is a difficult combination for a personal union, it can be a positive one for less personal relationships such as friendships or a working project which requires creative and innovative ideas.
Him's Uranus Trine Vivi327's Venus
Orb 1°20' Separating
This combination of planets indicates an instant and vital magnetism. It is the type of attraction in which Vivi327 and Him take one look at each other across a crowded room and feel the sparks. Romance is alight and the relationship develops at a rapid rate. Friends are amazed as the couple's union becomes more and more intense. In the short term this relationship provides fun, excitement and stimulation for both Vivi327 and Him. The long-term scenario depends on other aspects of their relationship and the ability of both Vivi327 and Him to respect each other's need for autonomy. It is all too easy for the initial flame to burn out of control. For this reason this combination of planets can be more prominent in relationships that contain the intrigue of a love affair, rather than the stability of a long-term union. Vivi327 feels particularly struck by Cupid's arrow, ignited by the very presence of Him. She wants her love to be strong enough to keep the spark of excitement in the relationship. However, Him is hard to pin down and is likely to become bored once the initial excitement starts to fade unless he is given plenty of room to be independent. It may be difficult for Him to make a commitment to this relationship unless he is given the freedom to inspire Vivi327 without feeling tied down to promises. A strong bond can be achieved if Vivi327 and Him can find the right balance between intimacy and personal freedom. If this is achieved then they can both enjoy a long-term relationship full of joy and romance.
Him's Uranus Conjunction Vivi327's Saturn
Orb 2°10' Separating
The planet Saturn is a vital ingredient in relationship astrology. It is the planet that represents stability and commitment and is seen by astrologers as the necessary glue that holds a relationship together on a long-term basis. Of course not everyone is seeking long-term commitment, but for those who are Saturn is a welcome sign. In this case Vivi327 and Him are approaching their union from different angles and this can be both beneficial and detrimental. On the one hand Vivi327 and Him feel drawn to each other, recognising that they each have different traits to bring to this union. Vivi327 is probably the more serious of the pair, providing stability and commitment, whereas Him is more likely to provide the impetus for growth and change. If Vivi327 becomes too stuck in her ways then Him is able to spark a change of attitude. Together they strike a happy balance between responsibility and diversity.
Him's Uranus Semisquare Vivi327's Neptune
Orb 1°17' Separating
Although not a major contributor to this relationship, the combination of the planets Uranus and Neptune can cause conflict. The problem is that Him is looking for intellectual stimulation in this partnership, whereas Vivi327 is seeking romance. Him is keen to experience a certain amount of freedom in order to explore his individual pursuits. However, Vivi327 yearns for romance and sharing in common interests. Their values differ and it is hard to meet in the middle.
Him's Neptune Sextile Vivi327's Moon
Orb 1°48' Separating
Romance is a major theme in a union which involves the Moon and the planet Neptune. With this combination of planets Vivi327 and Him both feel that they are meant to be together. Perhaps they believe that it is a union of their souls. This is the height of romantic love. Vivi327 and Him intuitively understand each other and as a result their relationship proceeds from the start in a gentle and loving manner. They may simply enjoy relaxing in each other's company or together Vivi327 and Him may enjoy creative and harmonious pastimes which enhance their union bringing joy and fulfilment. They could work jointly on an artistic, musical or spiritual project, or simply share an inspirational hobby. Either way, they are drawn to each other in a way that is not logical. At times they may even feel as though they have a psychic connection. Vivi327 feels inspired by Him to the point of longing to be in Him's company. Him intuitively understands Vivi327's emotional needs and relates to Vivi327 in a caring manner. This is a harmonious relationship. Problems can occur if Vivi327 becomes overly dependent on Him. However, on the whole it augurs well for a personal relationship which thrives on mutual love and understanding.
Him's Neptune Trine Vivi327's Mercury
Orb 6°38' Applying
This is an inspirational relationship whether it be a romance, friendship or a creative working partnership. Both Vivi327 and Him feel excited by this union. Their imaginations are enlivened. In particular Vivi327's ideas are encouraged by Him's creative input, enabling her to better express herself. It's possible that they work together on a creative project. Communication has an easy flow, more intuitive than concrete. Vivi327 and Him establish an empathetic bond which enables them both to exchange their thoughts and feelings with ease. If involved in a romantic liaison then Vivi327 and Him are likely to feel very much in love, viewing their union through rose-coloured glasses. Whatever the nature of the relationship, it is likely that Vivi327 and Him share an interest in the arts, a spiritual path or a philanthropic activity.
Him's Neptune Square Vivi327's Venus
Orb 1°21' Separating
This association of the planets Venus and Neptune indicates idyllic love. Vivi327 and Him meet and fall deeply in love, fully appreciating each other's unique qualities. Romance abounds. Together Vivi327 and Him feel that they have found true love such as only Romeo and Juliet and Daphnis and Chloe experienced. However, there are problems associated with this combination of planets. Vivi327 and Him find that the initial idyllic love can start to prove illusory in the long term. As the relationship develops it becomes more difficult for them to escape from the demands of the mundane world into a world of romance. They become disillusioned. They would rather stay lost in a sea of blissful love than be reminded of the responsibilities of their separate lives. Both Vivi327 and Him are vulnerable in this state of pretence. They need to be wary of circumstances or people who prey on their impressionable state. In particular they need to avoid any spiritual groups, drugs and artistic enterprises that may be deceptive in their nature. Once Vivi327 and Him have learned to face their relationship honestly and with discrimination then they can enjoy a creative and loving partnership as well as artistic and spiritual pursuits.
Him's Neptune Conjunction Vivi327's Uranus
Orb 4°12' Separating
This combination of the planets Uranus and Neptune is not a major contribution to this relationship. However, it is likely that life can be approached in a new and imaginative fashion for Vivi327 and Him as a result of this union. Together they stimulate growth and change in each other. Vivi327 is particularly interested in keeping this association fresh and alive. She finds Him's ideas and opinions intellectually stimulating, prompting her own creative ideas and shared activities. Him's imagination is more to the fore in this relationship. He is able to express a more intuitive side of himself. Together Vivi327 and Him share insights and this encourages their ingenuity.
Him's Neptune Semisquare Vivi327's Pluto
Orb 1°20' Separating
The combination of the planets Neptune and Pluto is not a significant one in relationship astrology. It indicates a conflict in values, which can erode the foundations of a relationship. However, many other combinations of planets will make a more significant contribution to this union between Him and Vivi327.
Him's Neptune Trine Vivi327's Ascendant
Orb 1°52' Applying
It is significant in relationship astrology when one person's planet makes contact with the Ascendant in another person's chart. In this case Him's Neptune is combining with Vivi327's Ascendant indicating that this is a significant relationship. Him and Vivi327 feel strongly drawn to each other. Romance is in the air. Both Him and Vivi327 are in love and floating on air, as the saying goes. They enjoy the first throes of romantic love and have a knack for re-creating romance. It is possible that this relationship could falter under the demands of daily practicalities. This combination can indicate an association based on mutual spiritual, artistic or philanthropic interests, but it is most likely in a romantic union.
Him's Pluto Trine Vivi327's Moon
Orb 1°52' Separating
This is an intense and powerful relationship. Vivi327 and Him feel a strong attraction to each other, one that seems to constantly draw them together. Sexual attraction may be powerful. Vivi327's and Him's deep feelings for each other need to be nurtured in a loving manner in order for the union to be long lasting. This relationship can be a positive or a negative experience, depending on how Vivi327 and Him handle intense feelings. Some individuals thrive on intensity, while others feel threatened and powerless. Vivi327 is likely to feel that Him has transformed her life in some way. It's possible that Him has changed the way that Vivi327 feels about the world, making her conscious of things that have been bubbling under the surface for a long time. Life is not the same for Vivi327 once she encounters Him. Vivi327 is able to see through the explosive behaviour to the true heart of Him and to nurture Him's goodness in ways that he has not previously encountered. As a result Him deeply appreciates the emotional support offered by Vivi327. This is indeed a passionate union.
Him's Pluto Opposition Vivi327's Mercury
Orb 6°35' Applying
This is a potentially explosive combination of the planets Mercury and Pluto, with communication playing a key role. The problem is that this combination indicates a battle of two minds. Both Vivi327 and Him discover that they trigger forceful emotions and thoughts in each other. At times the intensity becomes overwhelming and they don't know what to do. It is vital that both Vivi327 and Him communicate honestly, keeping all emotions and thoughts out in the open as much as is possible. Otherwise their relationship is likely to become volcanic, possibly even abusive as they battle to make themselves understood. They both find it near impossible to simply let matters slide, feeling that they must tackle each other head on. This works well if both Vivi327 and Him are able to enjoy penetrating and honest discussions. However, if they don't then one of them, probably Vivi327, is likely to suffer. Positively this relationship is transformative. Negatively it is abusive. The nature of the union depends on Vivi327 and Him's personalities and other aspects of their association.
Him's Pluto Quincunx Vivi327's Venus
Orb 1°24' Separating
This is a powerful combination of planets indicating a strong bond, whether in a friendship, love union or work association. Vivi327 and Him experience a compelling attraction to each other, one that easily becomes passionate and intense. Depending on the nature of the relationship, Vivi327 and Him could easily end up in bed together. Positively they are transformed by this relationship, becoming more influential and powerful in their own lives, even if initially they have to overcome moments of feeling powerless. However, they also experience intense emotional battles as the passionate nature of the union becomes difficult to control. If Vivi327 and Him are in a romantic liaison, these emotional struggles can overflow into the bedroom adversely affecting sexual relations. It is also possible that this combination of planets indicates a love affair that is intense and fraught with emotional problems. While both Vivi327 and Him experience the tension, Vivi327 feels more overwhelmed. She may even feel bullied by the strong personality of Him. Vivi327 finds it difficult to live her life effectively while in this relationship. Him struggles to understand Vivi327 and becomes impatient, wanting her to be more assertive. Him doesn't realise how domineering he appears to be. The challenge for both Vivi327 and Him is to direct their passion in a positive direction, possibly a shared artistic or creative pursuit.
Him's Pluto Sextile Vivi327's Ascendant
Orb 1°49' Applying
Sparks fly when one person's Pluto connects with another person's Ascendant. This is a powerful combination indicating a dynamic relationship. Both Him and Vivi327 are intensely attracted to each other and stand to learn much about themselves and relationships under the influence of this combination. Him has a particularly powerful role to play in Vivi327's life, shattering year-long habits and introducing an element of excitement. While Vivi327 might initially feel uprooted and insecure as a result of the changes in her life, she comes to appreciate a sense of rejuvenation that comes with throwing out the old and welcoming the new. The success of this relationship depends on other aspects strengthening the long-term bond between Him and Vivi327.
Him's Ascendant Sextile Vivi327's Jupiter
Orb 2°59' Applying
It is significant in relationship astrology when one person's planet makes contact with the Ascendant in another person's chart. In this case Vivi327's Jupiter is combining with Him's Ascendant indicating that this is a significant relationship. Vivi327 and Him feel strongly drawn to each other, experiencing a sense of completeness in each other's company. Vivi327 is enthusiastic about her relationship with Him. She enjoys exploring new territories with Him, perhaps even teaching Him new experiences. She appreciates the benefits that this union brings into her life. In turn Him has a greater sense of well-being through his association with Vivi327. He appreciates Vivi327's love of adventure and her attitude to this union. Together they share a mutual respect and affection. While this combination is most likely to indicate an intimate love union, it can also augur well for friendships, family relationship, teacher-student and work associations.
Him's Ascendant Conjunction Vivi327's Saturn
Orb 7°12' Applying
The planet Saturn is a vital ingredient in relationship astrology. It is the planet that represents stability and commitment and is seen by astrologers as the necessary glue that holds a relationship together on a long-term basis. Of course not everyone is seeking long-term commitment, but for those who are Saturn is a welcome sign. This is particularly true of connections between one person's Saturn and another person's Sun, Moon, Ascendant or Nodes. In this case Vivi327's Saturn is combining with Him's Ascendant indicating that this is a significant relationship. Vivi327 and Him feel strongly drawn to each other, perhaps experiencing a sense that their relationship was written in the stars. In other words they may feel as though they were destined to meet and form a union. This is a significant relationship.
Him's Ascendant Conjunction Vivi327's Pluto
Orb 6°55' Separating
Sparks fly when one person's Pluto connects with another person's Ascendant. This is a powerful combination indicating a dynamic relationship. Both Vivi327 and Him are intensely attracted to each other and stand to learn much about themselves and relationships under the influence of this combination. Vivi327 has a particularly powerful role to play in Him's life, shattering year-long habits and introducing an element of excitement. While Him might initially feel uprooted and insecure as a result of the changes in his life, he comes to appreciate a sense of rejuvenation that comes with throwing out the old and welcoming the new. The success of this relationship depends on other aspects strengthening the long-term bond between Vivi327 and Him.
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