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BNY10
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posted August 06, 2015 09:43 PM
  
Hi, anyone want to exchange?I think this guy named Joshua is really nasty looking. He is very unattractive. But he thinks I am attracted to him, and his persistence annoys me because I am not attracted to him. No girl is ever attracted to him. He is very different (try to put it nicely). Oh, and then he makes it a point to call me ugly. Or if he thinks that I think he complimented me, he will try to bring my self-esteem by putting me down. Or if someone else compliments me and gives me attention, he gets really disgusting about it. He'll say "oh, it's because you were make-up."
Is it because he doesn't get any attention from females? It always sounds like jealousy. I am reminded of the way high school girls say when they get super jealous. Btw, he doesn't get any attention from females. At least I am telling the truth and following my heart. I want to know why he wants to date me when he keeps saying I am ugly? And what does he think of his own looks. Does he know he is very, very unattractive. Thanks. IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted August 07, 2015 11:03 PM
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ILovePoems
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posted August 07, 2015 11:07 PM
Lol the whole time I read this I got jealousy. This guy is just jealous. He doesn't have any confidence in his self at all so he just tries to bring you down too. I also know that when guys make fun of girls, 9/10 they like them. But that's just what I get. IP: Logged |
BNY10
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posted August 07, 2015 11:57 PM
Yea, he's very jealous. If he doesn't have any confidence, then why not work on improving it? There is another reason, I think, he is trying to beat down my self-esteem. He thinks that if he destroys my confidence, then I will lower my standard and pick him. The thing is, it's not just physical attractiveness I care about. I want a man that respects me and loves me and shows it as such. He can only focus on the physical part. All he seems to hear is the "I am not attracted to you," so he insults my looks and tries to do things where I look ugly to people. I also tell him "I do not like you as a person; you're personality is evil, cruel, and you are are not fit to be a husband or boyfriend, so go focus on yourself so you can move on to a healthy relationship where you can RESPECT AND LOVE that person. But the perv keeps focusing on the physical. It's getting really annoying.IP: Logged |
vesta
Knowflake Posts: 3110
From: Stars
Registered: May 2009
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posted August 08, 2015 05:19 AM
BNY10,
Looking at this post makes me think of the reading I did for you. With the romance cards where I talked about children
Yes you do have a relationship with someone who is like a child. I may have gone the wrong way with reading it as I did not understand your situation. But the cards were not wrong. Though it is not romantic it is still a relationship in your life be it positive or negative. You have already met the partner you seek - was referring to the fact that you already know this person.
The playfulness card and the engagement card though I read it different could have just be indicating that this person is very childish and tries to engage you with his playful, childish ways. It could have been that the spiritual path card was about karma and he is pushing at you. They come in all shapes and sizes ! Lol
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happyleo
Knowflake Posts: 294
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Registered: Sep 2014
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posted August 08, 2015 06:11 AM
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Originally posted by BNY10:
Hi, anyone want to exchange?I think this guy named Joshua is really nasty looking. He is very unattractive. But he thinks I am attracted to him, and his persistence annoys me because I am not attracted to him. No girl is ever attracted to him. He is very different (try to put it nicely). Oh, and then he makes it a point to call me ugly. Or if he thinks that I think he complimented me, he will try to bring my self-esteem by putting me down. Or if someone else compliments me and gives me attention, he gets really disgusting about it. He'll say "oh, it's because you were make-up."
Is it because he doesn't get any attention from females? It always sounds like jealousy. I am reminded of the way high school girls say when they get super jealous. Btw, he doesn't get any attention from females. At least I am telling the truth and following my heart. I want to know why he wants to date me when he keeps saying I am ugly? And what does he think of his own looks. Does he know he is very, very unattractive. Thanks.
What a b*st*rd! I got someone like this in my circle, except he tries to make me feel like my time is running out, always followed by telling me that he has a lot of money/resources lol. Even on my birthday he made a point to tell me "well, you got older now... I am worried about your future"...
Glad he is so transparent to you!
You should tell this freak that he would also benefit from some decent amounts of make up and it's such a shame he can't wear any. IP: Logged |
ILovePoems
Knowflake Posts: 1378
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posted August 08, 2015 08:14 AM
I think the answer is simple. He doesn't know how to improve his confidence. You said he doesn't get any attention from girls so he tries to get your attention. But the word jealousy is very strong here. I think you can help him. I feel that you can but I dont think you want to because of the way he acts towards you.IP: Logged |
BNY10
Knowflake Posts: 223
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Registered: Aug 2013
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posted August 08, 2015 01:37 PM
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Originally posted by vesta:
BNY10,
Looking at this post makes me think of the reading I did for you. With the romance cards where I talked about children
Yes you do have a relationship with someone who is like a child. I may have gone the wrong way with reading it as I did not understand your situation. But the cards were not wrong. Though it is not romantic it is still a relationship in your life be it positive or negative. You have already met the partner you seek - was referring to the fact that you already know this person.
The playfulness card and the engagement card though I read it different could have just be indicating that this person is very childish and tries to engage you with his playful, childish ways. It could have been that the spiritual path card was about karma and he is pushing at you. They come in all shapes and sizes ! Lol
Vesta, Some might say he acts childish, but too me he lacks the innocence and purity behind his actions and words that most all children have. To me he is a guy who refuses to mature up and take responsibility for his actions. He is someone who expects more respect than the respect he is willing to give. I do not see any positive coming from me allowing him into my life. He is very selfish and refuses to acknowledge the effects of his words and actions. He doesn't have a playful, childish vibe. He doesn't have a good heart that many kids have. He is wicked. Happleo, Yea, he talks about money too. I want to make my own money! I don't need his. He doesn't wear any make-up, but he does hide his face with hats and glasses. Ilovepoems, I refuse to help him. I want him to fix all the problems he created. I hate him. IP: Logged |
happyleo
Knowflake Posts: 294
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posted August 08, 2015 01:50 PM
I actually thought today I am going to respond with something like "Well, be happy you will never have to put up with such an old woman like me" instead of just ignoring that.
Or "Brilliant, spread your bad self esteem!"
Hopefully he will shut up then. IP: Logged |
SereneDaze
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posted August 08, 2015 01:55 PM
Reading through your post, I immediately get such a bad vibe surrounding him. You are right when you say he doesn't have a good heart. He seems to bully others to feel better about himself, which is what he's doing to you. He feels he cant have what he truly deserves which is why he tries to wreck your self esteem, hoping you'll succumb to him. Stay away from him, cut him out from your life, this person is very toxic. Wishing you the best in getting through this.IP: Logged |
ILovePoems
Knowflake Posts: 1378
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posted August 08, 2015 02:00 PM
Do not ever say you hate someone. Yes he done wrong but don't say that word. Its not good. I know you don't want to help but maybe you will one day.  IP: Logged |
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