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Topic: Can someone read for me please?
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FairyDust75
Knowflake Posts: 2248
From: USA
Registered: Dec 2013
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posted August 12, 2015 03:27 PM
  
Well E and I had an argument today. I don't want to get into the whole thing, it's just too much. I would like to know if he and I will make up and if things will be ok or not. I won't bother him I'm leaving him alone right now. But what can I expect now? Thanks to anyone who can help. I will gladly give you a pendulum reading in exchange.IP: Logged |
SoaringLeaves
Knowflake Posts: 179
From: Pluto's heart
Registered: Jun 2015
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posted August 12, 2015 04:39 PM
Hi Fairy!OK, so I did a grand tableau for you to understand what's going on. Here is what I got, but please save somewhere the picture because my Photobucket account is already pretty full. I'll delete it in a couple of days.  First of all, you are at the very end of the the tableau, so if you keep approaching the problems and acting the way you have done it until now, there isn't much of a future, or at least not the future you are hoping for. You need to change something in your life, if you want to see a different result. The cards that are to your left represent the past: MAN, ROADS, BIRDS, CLOUDS, CHILD, SUN, MICE. A man brings worries from lengthy discussions. Everything regarding him is an argument about the options he has and what path to take; every topic branches in two others. Something happened in the past that opened the possibility for a little harmony and happiness, but soon the joy lessened again. All the vertical cards are the present, and since everything is above you, you cannot control their outcome: HEART, SNAKE, GARDEN. Either you are going out with a female friend in a public place, forget about him and have some fun, or... you and this man are arguing about him showing too much attention to another woman in public. Either way, I strongly believe you must change something, because your relationship looks stuck. Sorry.  I wish you the best of luck!
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FairyDust75
Knowflake Posts: 2248
From: USA
Registered: Dec 2013
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posted August 12, 2015 06:54 PM
Thank you for your reply I truly appreciate the time this took. But I think I'm confused. Our argument was him telling me I was smothering him. He was very upset today about some stuff and I geniunly was trying to show care and concern. He wasn't wanting that but wanted some time alone. I truly wasn't trying to be pushy but he felt I was and wasn't listening to what he wanted about being alone. It reay doesn't have to do with another woman at all. He's never paid any other woman attention whenever we've been out. I know we need to communicate a bit better but I do hope this doesn't signify the end of things. I'm hoping he will speak to me soon and we can resolve this. When stuff has come up between us we have talked about it and resolved it. IP: Logged |
Haplesschild*
Knowflake Posts: 1656
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Registered: Nov 2012
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posted August 12, 2015 09:05 PM
When a guy wants space, give him so much he'd think he's an astronaut.Trying to help the situation when he's in this sort of mood would work against you. Just back off for the next week at least. I don't knw why he thought you were smothering him or what you actually did, but regardless of whether you have been or not, he perceives it this way...So take a big step back. Let him come to you. Sorry obv not a reading, just advice. IP: Logged |
SoaringLeaves
Knowflake Posts: 179
From: Pluto's heart
Registered: Jun 2015
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posted August 12, 2015 09:38 PM
I'm sorry that it's not what you wanted to hear, Fairy, but please listen to Haplesschild, because she is right. If he tells you that he needs space, he definitely means it. I know that it is difficult when you love someone, but respect his request--if he cares about you, he will come back to you when his head chills. I don't think pressing him more will do any good.Big hug! We are with you on this one! IP: Logged |
FairyDust75
Knowflake Posts: 2248
From: USA
Registered: Dec 2013
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posted August 12, 2015 09:41 PM
I agree totally. I won't contact him. I will let him come to me first. I just hope he does. And I'm anxious about how things will go after. I would like to resolve things and I hope he would like to as well. IP: Logged |
Vivi327
Knowflake Posts: 1057
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Registered: Jul 2014
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posted August 12, 2015 10:20 PM
If I may chime in, fairy I feel like you worry so much, worrying is understandable and I know you are just worried that this person will leave or won't remain in your life but sometimes people(men) feel that energy and it makes them feel like you are clingy. I know from experience that when you feel this way things do not go smoothly. Worry is just another form of negative thinking, it stems from negative thoughts, instead just tell your self that every thing will be ok and believe it.
I suggest you stay in the moment and with all your power, shift your focus on anything that gets you down. "The truth is always positive, that is the ultimate truth. If things aren't going the way you want , than its not the ultimate true outcome"
Just remember, everything starts with energy, which is predicated by how you feel and what you believe. IP: Logged |
FairyDust75
Knowflake Posts: 2248
From: USA
Registered: Dec 2013
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posted August 12, 2015 10:49 PM
Thanks Vivi. I'm trying to be positive but it's very difficult. He is very mad at me. I'm hoping for a positive outcome but I just don't know what will happen. IP: Logged |
FairyDust75
Knowflake Posts: 2248
From: USA
Registered: Dec 2013
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posted August 13, 2015 07:26 AM
Just wanted to bump up and see if anyone has any other insight for me. I haven't heard back from him and was wondering if he would contact me or just anything. I'm very sad IP: Logged |
FairyDust75
Knowflake Posts: 2248
From: USA
Registered: Dec 2013
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posted August 13, 2015 11:09 AM
Wanted to update. We spoke and resolved everything and he has asked to see me today so we can spend some time together. Thank you all for the help and guidance! IP: Logged |
Haplesschild*
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Registered: Nov 2012
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posted August 13, 2015 05:50 PM
Glad to hear things have worked out. 
Hope you have a great day with him and try to be alittle mysterious. IP: Logged |
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