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posted August 15, 2015 09:24 PM            

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Hi happy,

I am giving you feedback as promised. What I was dreading has happened. JG has asked me for an affair. Of course I turned him down flat. Is it even possible to be friends with him WITH OUT benefits as I really don't want to quit my volunteer position. Does he like me or does he just want something sexual? If you could answer, that would be wonderful as my volunteer position is very important to me. Poochy

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posted August 16, 2015 01:40 AM            

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Bumping up for you

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posted August 16, 2015 11:47 AM            

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Bumping

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posted August 16, 2015 12:14 PM            

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Hi poochy, thanks for the feedback.

Do you have feelings for him (or feel flattered)? Because, when shuffled, Money+Widow+Marriage ( her back to marriage) fell out. I think if you stay, it will start to feel flattering and it might also magnify the flaws in your marriage to some extent. Now, I had this situation too, and it's normal, that when someone else courts you, and your partner happens to annoy you atm, you start thinking about the other person.
I see you feeling a bit lonelier in your marriage, but it might be just at times, only moments, I also saw you empowered and richer (it's also a boost for one's ego, no?)

I drew: Love+Fortune+Message
And then for his feelings Illness

I guess he will tell you he is love sick because of you, but it won't be disturbing you as far as I see.
So, I wouldn't leave but juggle with what is there, take some ego boost from it and continue just as usual.
Set boundaries and you should be fine.

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posted August 16, 2015 01:21 PM            

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Hi happy,

Thanks for getting back to me. Yes, I will admit that I find all the attention that I am getting from him flattering. And...you are right in that this is something that is missing from MK, my husband, as he is very tight lipped.

JG is on a holidays right now so I have time on my side to think about what I'm going to say. Thank you, happy for all of your readings. You are so kind Poochy

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posted August 16, 2015 04:54 PM            

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My pleasure

Just enjoy the attention It's nice!

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