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Astro keen
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posted August 23, 2015 01:54 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Astro keen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Could anyone help please.

My mum is very unwell and frail. She needs pain killers which knock her out so she cannot eat and drink. Invasive methods, such as a feeding tube would be too harsh, require hospitalisation and cause further problems.

Am I making the right decisions? Will she recover from this phase? I pray for her to go in peace and comfort, if this is the end.

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intuitivefish
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posted August 23, 2015 02:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for intuitivefish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Here I do feel anything too harsh could bring her to be more frail and it would be too hard for her to handle.
I do feel she doesnt have the energy to give it one more ooph sorry to say

I feel like she is giving you these moments as a gift to be near her.
But I do feel like she isnt quite strong enough for anything more unfortunatley.

So sorry

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Astro keen
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posted August 23, 2015 02:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Astro keen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you, Intuitive. Bless you.

I know this is a difficult question, but is this stage going to be prolonged? I know of people who go very slowly.

I am sending her healing so that she does not suffer and praying for her. Is that having an effect?

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ImpassionedParis
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posted August 23, 2015 02:54 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm really sorry to hear about your mom's present condition, and I wish you and your family the best.

I hope you don't mind my being a beginner, but I felt compelled to pull cards for you. I asked, "will Astro keen's mom physically survive and recover from her present/current ailments?"
I got: stars-ring-lily

I'm not great at interpreting, maybe someone else can correct my interpretation, but my take on these cards is that there is hope (stars) and that she is a fighter who is committed to overcoming her illnesses (ring=commitment), but that it could take a while (lily). Lily can also mean longevity and old age, and it is in the outcome position.

I hope everything turns out well. I don't know how bad her present condition is, or if it's even realistic that she survives and recovers, but I do hope that she does.

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intuitivefish
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posted August 23, 2015 03:20 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for intuitivefish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oh yes! The healingbis giving her a lot of peace and comfort
It gives her pain releaf.

To me she ferls like she will give you a longer time. I do feel like she wants to be as long as she can. She isnt giving up just yet

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Astro keen
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posted August 23, 2015 12:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Astro keen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you both for these messages, particularly as today has been a trying day.

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Astro keen
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posted August 23, 2015 07:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Astro keen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Intuitivefish,
I remembered your words as I sat late into the night holding my mum's hand. I noticed that an arthritic pain in my wrist, which had been bothering me recently, had disappeared. Perhaps, it was she who had healed me - as part of her gift.

IP, you got lovely cards. Lily can also mean peace and rest. It could be indicating that as an outcome.

She cannot communicate anymore. What does she want me to do for her?

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Astro keen
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posted August 27, 2015 03:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Astro keen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My mum passed away peacefully on the 25th. She looked so beautiful and composed that we gazed in hushed silence. It was a privilege to be in her presence.

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ILovePoems
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posted August 27, 2015 03:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ILovePoems     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Astro I'm so sorry. she's looking over you right now an we are here for you if you need anything.

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VacantGazer
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posted August 27, 2015 03:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for VacantGazer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Astro, I'm so sorry to hear about your Mum My best wishes to you and your family.

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SereneDaze
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posted August 27, 2015 03:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SereneDaze     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Bless your mother's soul

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FairyDust75
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posted August 27, 2015 03:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for FairyDust75     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Astro I'm so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this time.

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intuitivefish
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posted August 27, 2015 03:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for intuitivefish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
so sorry

blessings to you and your mother and your family
<3

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Vivi327
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posted August 27, 2015 03:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Vivi327     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My condolences to you and your family astro. May she rest in peace. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

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ImpassionedParis
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posted August 27, 2015 05:05 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm so sorry.

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Astro keen
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posted August 28, 2015 09:48 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Astro keen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you all for your kind words. I know she is in a very good place now. I could sense how peaceful she was at the end.

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