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Topic: About my mum's care
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Astro keen Knowflake Posts: 3703 From: UK Registered: Nov 2012
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posted August 23, 2015 01:54 AM
Could anyone help please.My mum is very unwell and frail. She needs pain killers which knock her out so she cannot eat and drink. Invasive methods, such as a feeding tube would be too harsh, require hospitalisation and cause further problems. Am I making the right decisions? Will she recover from this phase? I pray for her to go in peace and comfort, if this is the end. IP: Logged |
intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 2696 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
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posted August 23, 2015 02:04 AM
Here I do feel anything too harsh could bring her to be more frail and it would be too hard for her to handle. I do feel she doesnt have the energy to give it one more ooph sorry to say I feel like she is giving you these moments as a gift to be near her. But I do feel like she isnt quite strong enough for anything more unfortunatley. So sorry IP: Logged |
Astro keen Knowflake Posts: 3703 From: UK Registered: Nov 2012
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posted August 23, 2015 02:47 AM
Thank you, Intuitive. Bless you.I know this is a difficult question, but is this stage going to be prolonged? I know of people who go very slowly. I am sending her healing so that she does not suffer and praying for her. Is that having an effect? IP: Logged |
ImpassionedParis unregistered
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posted August 23, 2015 02:54 AM
I'm really sorry to hear about your mom's present condition, and I wish you and your family the best. I hope you don't mind my being a beginner, but I felt compelled to pull cards for you. I asked, "will Astro keen's mom physically survive and recover from her present/current ailments?" I got: stars-ring-lily I'm not great at interpreting, maybe someone else can correct my interpretation, but my take on these cards is that there is hope (stars) and that she is a fighter who is committed to overcoming her illnesses (ring=commitment), but that it could take a while (lily). Lily can also mean longevity and old age, and it is in the outcome position. I hope everything turns out well. I don't know how bad her present condition is, or if it's even realistic that she survives and recovers, but I do hope that she does.
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intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 2696 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
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posted August 23, 2015 03:20 AM
Oh yes! The healingbis giving her a lot of peace and comfort It gives her pain releaf.To me she ferls like she will give you a longer time. I do feel like she wants to be as long as she can. She isnt giving up just yet IP: Logged |
Astro keen Knowflake Posts: 3703 From: UK Registered: Nov 2012
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posted August 23, 2015 12:38 PM
Thank you both for these messages, particularly as today has been a trying day. IP: Logged |
Astro keen Knowflake Posts: 3703 From: UK Registered: Nov 2012
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posted August 23, 2015 07:34 PM
Intuitivefish, I remembered your words as I sat late into the night holding my mum's hand. I noticed that an arthritic pain in my wrist, which had been bothering me recently, had disappeared. Perhaps, it was she who had healed me - as part of her gift.IP, you got lovely cards. Lily can also mean peace and rest. It could be indicating that as an outcome. She cannot communicate anymore. What does she want me to do for her? IP: Logged |
Astro keen Knowflake Posts: 3703 From: UK Registered: Nov 2012
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posted August 27, 2015 03:23 PM
My mum passed away peacefully on the 25th. She looked so beautiful and composed that we gazed in hushed silence. It was a privilege to be in her presence.IP: Logged |
ILovePoems Knowflake Posts: 1578 From: Registered: Feb 2015
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posted August 27, 2015 03:25 PM
Astro I'm so sorry. she's looking over you right now an we are here for you if you need anything.IP: Logged |
VacantGazer Knowflake Posts: 1997 From: Pluto eyes in the sky Registered: Dec 2014
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posted August 27, 2015 03:38 PM
Astro, I'm so sorry to hear about your Mum My best wishes to you and your family. IP: Logged |
SereneDaze Knowflake Posts: 1286 From: Registered: Mar 2014
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posted August 27, 2015 03:44 PM
Bless your mother's soul IP: Logged |
FairyDust75 Knowflake Posts: 2297 From: USA Registered: Dec 2013
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posted August 27, 2015 03:49 PM
Astro I'm so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this time.IP: Logged |
intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 2696 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
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posted August 27, 2015 03:51 PM
so sorry blessings to you and your mother and your family <3 IP: Logged |
Vivi327 Knowflake Posts: 1135 From: Registered: Jul 2014
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posted August 27, 2015 03:57 PM
My condolences to you and your family astro. May she rest in peace. You are in my thoughts and prayers. IP: Logged |
ImpassionedParis unregistered
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posted August 27, 2015 05:05 PM
I'm so sorry. IP: Logged |
Astro keen Knowflake Posts: 3703 From: UK Registered: Nov 2012
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posted August 28, 2015 09:48 AM
Thank you all for your kind words. I know she is in a very good place now. I could sense how peaceful she was at the end.IP: Logged |