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chromaticmonk91
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posted August 23, 2015 12:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for chromaticmonk91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi,
Every couple of months I get more and more embarrassed about this, I've never had a girlfriend. I'm not sure how this is reflected in my chart. Maybe strong saturn?

I guess the best you can do is take responsibility for what you can control, so I've always stayed in good shape and tried to stay well kept and hygienic. I'm starting post grad artificial intelligence in September, so there's that to look forward to.

This is the only area of my life that I feel powerless, but I want to understand the patterns and configurations in my chart so I can understand patterns and configurations influencing me that I may have to overcome.

What do you think?
Thanks

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Spica
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posted August 23, 2015 01:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Spica     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Relationships/women/girlfriend in general is represented by Venus.

Your Venus is in Scorpio, which is in the sign of detriment, and it's making a square with Saturn, which restricts Venus. So what I see is that your Venus is very afflicted.

Venus in our childhood represents love and affection that we received form our parents, especially the mother. Venus represents what kind of values we were taught as children and also our ability to trust others, social life.

You were probably emotionally hurt in your childhood by your mother who could not show you love and affection unconditionally. She may have been harsh on you. Venus is femininity.

So because you have Venus in Scorpio square Saturn, you may perceive femininity as something impure, dark, corrupted and manipulative. But it's not your fault. In your childhood the female/mother figures in your life may have done something to influence that belief in you which is now ingrained.

To remove these beliefs (because that's all planets in our birth chart are and influence) you have to do shadow work. Shadow work is something that Teal Swan explains very well. Search "Teal Swan - Shadow Work" in YouTube. And by doing that your detrimental beliefs towards femininity will be removed and your Venus will be better. So this way your Venus can thrive and you can enjoy the pleasures that Venus has to offer in an individual's life.

This is the only way I believe in can "fix" a planet in your chart that's afflicted.

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chromaticmonk91
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posted August 23, 2015 09:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for chromaticmonk91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Spica:
Relationships/women/girlfriend in general is represented by Venus.

Your Venus is in Scorpio, which is in the sign of detriment, and it's making a square with Saturn, which restricts Venus. So what I see is that your Venus is very afflicted.

Venus in our childhood represents love and affection that we received form our parents, especially the mother. Venus represents what kind of values we were taught as children and also our ability to trust others, social life.

You were probably emotionally hurt in your childhood by your mother who could not show you love and affection unconditionally. She may have been harsh on you. Venus is femininity.

So because you have Venus in Scorpio square Saturn, you may perceive femininity as something impure, dark, corrupted and manipulative. But it's not your fault. In your childhood the female/mother figures in your life may have done something to influence that belief in you which is now ingrained.

To remove these beliefs (because that's all planets in our birth chart are and influence) you have to do shadow work. Shadow work is something that Teal Swan explains very well. Search "Teal Swan - Shadow Work" in YouTube. And by doing that your detrimental beliefs towards femininity will be removed and your Venus will be better. So this way your Venus can thrive and you can enjoy the pleasures that Venus has to offer in an individual's life.

This is the only way I believe in can "fix" a planet in your chart that's afflicted.



The venus placements especially venus saturn square unfortunately do describe my background. It didn't help that she is pisces sun and cancer moon and I am sagittarius sun aries moon, we communicate completely differently and there was a lot of tension.

However I am pretty independent now and over that, the premise behind shadow work is something that makes a lot of sense to me.

I don't understand how to overcome the tension and insecurities of venus square saturn.

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athenegoddess
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posted August 23, 2015 09:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for athenegoddess     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
One way to overcome negative aspects is acceptance.

If for some reason you aren't having any luck with relationships, just accept these conditions in your life. It may be there because of something from a past life as well that you need to balance in this life.

Once you learn the lesson of its constriction the pain will pass and karma will be balanced.

With NN in the 7th house you will for sure be married with someone but since it's in Capricorn I do not see that happening for quite some time when you are more mature and older.

But that will be a serious committed relationship, not a fling IDK if that's what you are seeking currently.

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chromaticmonk91
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posted August 23, 2015 11:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for chromaticmonk91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by athenegoddess:
One way to overcome negative aspects is acceptance.

If for some reason you aren't having any luck with relationships, just accept these conditions in your life. It may be there because of something from a past life as well that you need to balance in this life.

Once you learn the lesson of its constriction the pain will pass and karma will be balanced.

With NN in the 7th house you will for sure be married with someone but since it's in Capricorn I do not see that happening for quite some time when you are more mature and older.

But that will be a serious committed relationship, not a fling IDK if that's what you are seeking currently.


I don't necessarily want flings at the moment, just the experience of being involved with women. In a ideal world I have lots of relationships before a marriage or serious commitment.

Your right, I've always known this on some level but thought I could shortcut my way to my desires.

I'm going to just practice acceptance and interacting with women without wanting something from them.

So for the karma to be balanced do I let go completely of yearning and pursuing indefinitely until people respond to me differently, or is it about finding satisfaction if not acceptance in living without interpersonal intimacy.

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posted August 24, 2015 08:30 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Soltze     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It occured to me that it could help if you tried to understand the qualities the Venus/Júpiter sextile and the Venus/Uranus sextile bring to your life. And work on it. Maybe somehow it can alleviate the problem.

I have Venus/Saturn opp so yeah I'm pretty familiar with that delay in finding someone.

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chromaticmonk91
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posted August 26, 2015 12:06 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for chromaticmonk91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Soltze:
It occured to me that it could help if you tried to understand the qualities the Venus/Júpiter sextile and the Venus/Uranus sextile bring to your life. And work on it. Maybe somehow it can alleviate the problem.

I have Venus/Saturn opp so yeah I'm pretty familiar with that delay in finding someone.


How do you deal with it. It's hard to relate to the other venus aspects since they describe how one is in relation to relationships.

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Sandra018
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posted August 26, 2015 07:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sandra018     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
its not easy...you just accept it..
i have venus opposite Pluto, nad my love life has been cripled..
i dont fight it any more..but it doesnt make me happy its this way either...

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posted August 27, 2015 09:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for slowpoke     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
From my vantage point, your natal aspects are:

S Trine M (at 117 deg.) and S Sextile MC (at 62 deg.)

M Sesquisquare MY (at 133 deg.), M Inconjunct P (at 150 deg. exact) and, M Sextile MC (at 55 deg.)


NN Sextile VE (at 58 deg.), NN Seimi-Sextile MR (at 28 deg.), NN Trine JP (at 116 deg.), NN Conjunct UR (at 2 deg.), NN Conjunct NP (at 5 deg.) and, NN Semi-Square MC (at 46 deg.)

MY Conjunct MR (at 4 deg.) and MY Sextile SA (at 56 deg.)

VE Semi-Sextile MR (at 30 deg. exact), VE Sextile JP (at 58 deg.), VE Sextile UR (at 60 deg. exact) and, VE Sextile NP (at 63 deg.)

MR Square JP (at 88 deg.) and MR Semi-Sextile UR (at 30 deg. exact)

JP Trine UR (at 118 deg.) and JP Trine NP (at 121 deg.)

SA is aspected by MY but does not make any aspects to slower planets

UR Conjunct NP (a universal aspect for people around your age at 3 deg.) and UR Semi-Square MC (at 44 deg.)

P Square MC (at 95 deg.)

MC Trine Asc (at 125 deg. rare)


The above elements are, what I call, your core group of Astrology representations. I do not address other elements.


Brief Summary of what your natal aspect group suggest:

You are a likeable person without a lot of sex appeal.

You are a logical thinker. But, you may come off a bit harsh and too aggressive towards others (MY 4 MR & MR 88 JP).
You have the ability to control how you project yourself in a more favorable way.

You have a certain degree of luck and universal flare about you. (Women like lucky people, include them as being part of your luckiness).


On the surface, you appear to be an okay kind of person. But, during the course of a year things do not pan out as you might like, why?
It is how the astrological influences interact with each other during the coarse of a year, that is the problem. And this problem is not exclusive to you; it pertains to anyone born on 1216.91. And the only way you can view those influence markers, is by viewing your Vertical SunCycle Calendar, which paints the picture of the ebb and flow of your potential life stresses and gains.

This means that the right women for you are going to have to fit into your life, like a piece of a puzzle.

I am going to give you a list of birthdates that pertain to any given year. These birthdates do not, by any means, suggest that people associated with them are compatible with you. They do, however and astrologically speaking, mean those people with these birthdates (both men and women and of any age) suit your comfort zone (with their natal Sun favorably positioned on your natal core of SunCycle aspects) better than most other individuals.
Find them and associate with them for awhile, most, you may not like. Don't be afraid to drop them and enjoy the others.


example: 101 = Jan. 01

101 thru 104

412 thru 417

1104 thru 1111

1212 thru 1222

1229 thru the new year 104


slowpoke

chromaticmonk91, This is your Vertical Calendar!

[URL=http://media.wix.com/ugd/e0ee68_1f5648cf68dc4607b5ca09d3bcea00ab.xls?dn=%22SD%2091.1216%20%20SCy.xls%22[/URL]

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SoaringLeaves
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posted August 27, 2015 10:33 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for SoaringLeaves     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Has anyone mentioned that t-Pluto is in your H7? That may be the reason you're having troubles finding a partner. No one can anticipate for sure how Pluto's influence would manifest, but in my personal experience, Pluto took away everything (ego & money) that prevented me from following the path I believe I was meant to walk. On the positive side, Pluto usually gives something else in return (or rebuilds that area of your life with different materials, so to speak). Try to understand what you gain by being single for the time being. Once Pluto is in H8, you should have quite some fun.

I have to run but I hope this helps!

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chromaticmonk91
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posted August 28, 2015 02:31 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for chromaticmonk91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by slowpoke:
From my vantage point, your natal aspects are:

S Trine M (at 117 deg.) and S Sextile MC (at 62 deg.)

M Sesquisquare MY (at 133 deg.), M Inconjunct P (at 150 deg. exact) and, M Sextile MC (at 55 deg.)


NN Sextile VE (at 58 deg.), NN Seimi-Sextile MR (at 28 deg.), NN Trine JP (at 116 deg.), NN Conjunct UR (at 2 deg.), NN Conjunct NP (at 5 deg.) and, NN Semi-Square MC (at 46 deg.)

MY Conjunct MR (at 4 deg.) and MY Sextile SA (at 56 deg.)

VE Semi-Sextile MR (at 30 deg. exact), VE Sextile JP (at 58 deg.), VE Sextile UR (at 60 deg. exact) and, VE Sextile NP (at 63 deg.)

MR Square JP (at 88 deg.) and MR Semi-Sextile UR (at 30 deg. exact)

JP Trine UR (at 118 deg.) and JP Trine NP (at 121 deg.)

SA is aspected by MY but does not make any aspects to slower planets

UR Conjunct NP (a universal aspect for people around your age at 3 deg.) and UR Semi-Square MC (at 44 deg.)

P Square MC (at 95 deg.)

MC Trine Asc (at 125 deg. rare)


The above elements are, what I call, your core group of Astrology representations. I do not address other elements.


Brief Summary of what your natal aspect group suggest:

You are a likeable person without a lot of sex appeal.

You are a logical thinker. But, you may come off a bit harsh and too aggressive towards others (MY 4 MR & MR 88 JP).
You have the ability to control how you project yourself in a more favorable way.

You have a certain degree of luck and universal flare about you. (Women like lucky people, include them as being part of your luckiness).


On the surface, you appear to be an okay kind of person. But, during the course of a year things do not pan out as you might like, why?
It is how the astrological influences interact with each other during the coarse of a year, that is the problem. And this problem is not exclusive to you; it pertains to anyone born on 1216.91. And the only way you can view those influence markers, is by viewing your Vertical SunCycle Calendar, which paints the picture of the ebb and flow of your potential life stresses and gains.

This means that the right women for you are going to have to fit into your life, like a piece of a puzzle.

I am going to give you a list of birthdates that pertain to any given year. These birthdates do not, by any means, suggest that people associated with them are compatible with you. They do, however and astrologically speaking, mean those people with these birthdates (both men and women and of any age) suit your comfort zone (with their natal Sun favorably positioned on your natal core of SunCycle aspects) better than most other individuals.
Find them and associate with them for awhile, most, you may not like. Don't be afraid to drop them and enjoy the others.


example: 101 = Jan. 01

101 thru 104

412 thru 417

1104 thru 1111

1212 thru 1222

1229 thru the new year 104


slowpoke

chromaticmonk91, This is your Vertical Calendar!

[URL=http://media.wix.com/ugd/e0ee68_1f5648cf68dc4607b5ca09d3bcea00ab.xls?dn=%22SD%2091.1216%20%20SCy.xls%22[/URL]


Wow, very helpful detailed breakdown.

Why is the MC trine ASC rare, can't seem to find information on it and what it describes? and my North node seems a bit complicated.

At my age it seems being likeable without having sex appeal is a bit discouraging. I am tall and lean, but I've never felt people are physically attracted to me.

My conversation style is definitely very fire, and I think it catches people of guard because I have a quiet demeanour.

I'm not aware of any luck in my life specific to me, but I guess it's good to be aware and observe possible universal influences.

I will go through the vertical Sun cycle slowly, looks like a lot to take in.

Thanks

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chromaticmonk91
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posted August 28, 2015 02:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for chromaticmonk91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by SoaringLeaves:
Has anyone mentioned that t-Pluto is in your H7? That may be the reason you're having troubles finding a partner. No one can anticipate for sure how Pluto's influence would manifest, but in my personal experience, Pluto took away everything (ego & money) that prevented me from following the path I believe I was meant to walk. On the positive side, Pluto usually gives something else in return (or rebuilds that area of your life with different materials, so to speak). Try to understand what you gain by being single for the time being. Once Pluto is in H8, you should have quite some fun.

I have to run but I hope this helps!


I've never been with anyone, so I'm not clear on how pluto and 7th house transits are operating in my chart. Thanks.

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posted August 28, 2015 03:51 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for slowpoke     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Astrologically speaking, the MC trine ASC (rare) gives you that universal make-up. I've seen it with real wealthy people. Bill Gates has it, although yours is not as strong as his. He has what I call a three point "GT!!!", where his natal SA is in wide trine his Asc and MC. You have a two point "GT!!" this means that transiting planets have to pass by a certain area on your calendar to activate the three point GT!!!

There is one other thing any two point and three point GT's. The two point GT!! is activated only once during the year, whereas the three point GT!!! is activated three times a year.

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posted August 30, 2015 02:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for slowpoke     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey chromaticmonk91,

If you have any questions for me, it may be best if you address them here on this page of yours. Because it is easier for me to check here. Also, I will continue to send you any heads up information here. Of which I do have some. Would like me to post it here?


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chromaticmonk91
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posted August 30, 2015 03:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for chromaticmonk91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by slowpoke:
Hey chromaticmonk91,

If you have any questions for me, it may be best if you address them here on this page of yours. Because it is easier for me to check here. Also, I will continue to send you any heads up information here. Of which I do have some. Would like me to post it here

slowpoke


Thanks. I would much appreciate more information here. Another question I have, is do I have any strong indicators of talents in the arts or sciences, what stands out in terms of career?

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posted August 30, 2015 05:50 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for slowpoke     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Let me collect my thoughts, chromaticmonk91.


While you wait, perhaps viewing this page will give you some more insight about the calendar.

[url=http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum11/HTML/016785.html[/url]


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posted September 02, 2015 10:13 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for slowpoke     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey chromaticmonk91,


Sorry to be so long in responding.

I was about to give you a list of compatible birth dates when you asked me what stood out, to me about your astrology makeup.

So, because of your lack of knowledge about astrology, I decided to hold back on that list and give it a deeper look into their results.

I should be done with my research in about a day or two, barring any pressing personal home issues.


I'm hoping to give you something worth a life time of usage.

slowpoke

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chromaticmonk91
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posted September 05, 2015 01:53 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for chromaticmonk91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by slowpoke:
Hey chromaticmonk91,


Sorry to be so long in responding.

I was about to give you a list of compatible birth dates when you asked me what stood out, to me about your astrology makeup.

So, because of your lack of knowledge about astrology, I decided to hold back on that list and give it a deeper look into their results.

I should be done with my research in about a day or two, barring any pressing personal home issues.


I'm hoping to give you something worth a life time of usage.

slowpoke


Thanks, look forward to reading and learning from your knowledge.

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posted September 09, 2015 01:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for slowpoke     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The bottom line, chromaticmonk91,

You can do almost everything you set your mind out to do; this includes the arts or sciences. But, what stands out to me and according to your vertical calendar, timing issues may hold you back. So, you may need the support of a certain group of people who may also want to take the lead. This means they could be your lover, your friend, your neighbor, your boss, your agent, or even a person off of the street. If you are fortunate enough to find a few of the right ones, the sky is conditionally the limit of what you may want and can get. Your new list of ColorVision Synastry Aspect dates may be the key to your goals!

The condition is that, you would have to keep the Vertical SunCycle Calendar as a close reference. Because, it suggest a few periods of time during the coarse of any year, that you would need your wisdom, to see potential hassles that you will easily anticipate, plan for and, navigate around without getting overly upset. The very best time to ask for a raise or anything else is around the first of the year. The second best time is when you hit the VE conjunction.

I am impressed with the substance of your calendar. Through no fault of your own, it is by no means a reflection of an easy life. But, it does say, you may be a person worth watching!


I am giving you an expanded version of the vertical calendar you already have. It will show you the potential time of your universal aspects. There is, also on the calendar, a break down of when your friends need to speak for you and when they need to be quiet and let you speak for yourself.

I have also, researched four decades of dates, using Synastry Aspecting. And by matching your birth date to many birthdates I have found over 600 dates, some of them may have good value for you. Some are - according to Astrology, also, suited to you as potential love interest, I have identified them for you. I have, also, included about 70 ColorVision Synastry Charts of the dates I have located on your behalf. I have done this so you can see how valuable aspects may appear on your Synastry Aspecting Chart.

If you want, this data can be good for life. Just stash it away somewhere and retrieve it when you like.

[URL=http://media.wix.com/ugd/e0ee68_4d4699daf9704f0c8c49ab467ecc2525.xls?dn=%22SD%2091.1216%20%20SCy%20w%20X%201616%20hrs.%20England%20v.05.xls%22[/URL]

May the force be with you, chromaticmonk91.

http://media.wix.com/ugd/e0ee68_437d7853c78640329b389f15568ef608.xls?dn=%22SD%2091.1216%20%20%20Synastry%20Result%20Book.xls%22


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posted September 09, 2015 02:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for chromaticmonk91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by slowpoke:
The bottom line, chromaticmonk91,

You can do almost everything you set your mind out to do; this includes the arts or sciences. But, what stands out to me and according to your vertical calendar, timing issues may hold you back. So, you may need the support of a certain group of people who may also want to take the lead. This means they could be your lover, your friend, your neighbor, your boss, your agent, or even a person off of the street. If you are fortunate enough to find a few of the right ones, the sky is conditionally the limit of what you may want and can get. Your new list of ColorVision Synastry Aspect dates may be the key to your goals!

The condition is that, you would have to keep the Vertical SunCycle Calendar as a close reference. Because, it suggest a few periods of time during the coarse of any year, that you would need your wisdom, to see potential hassles that you will easily anticipate, plan for and, navigate around without getting overly upset. The very best time to ask for a raise or anything else is around the first of the year. The second best time is when you hit the VE conjunction.

I am impressed with the substance of your calendar. Through no fault of your own, it is by no means a reflection of an easy life. But, it does say, you may be a person worth watching!


I am giving you an expanded version of the vertical calendar you already have. It will show you the potential time of your universal aspects. There is, also on the calendar, a break down of when your friends need to speak for you and when they need to be quiet and let you speak for yourself.

I have also, researched four decades of dates, using Synastry Aspecting. And by matching your birth date to many birthdates I have found over 600 dates, some of them may have good value for you. Some are - according to Astrology, also, suited to you as potential love interest, I have identified them for you. I have, also, included about 70 ColorVision Synastry Charts of the dates I have located on your behalf. I have done this so you can see how valuable aspects may appear on your Synastry Aspecting Chart.

If you want, this data can be good for life. Just stash it away somewhere and retrieve it when you like.

May the force be with you, chromaticmonk91.

[URL=http://media.wix.com/ugd/e0ee68_437d7853c78640329b389f15568ef608.xls?dn=%22SD%2091.1216%20%20%20Synastry%20Result%20Book.xls%22]http://media.wix.com/ugd/e0ee68_437d7853c786403 29b389f15568ef608.xls?dn=%22SD%2091.1216%20%20%20Synastry%20Result%20Book.xls%22


slowpoke


Thanks for your effort. I've managed to open it. This is a bit over my head, I've never encountered this type of thing, so I guess I've got a lot of learning to do to fully understanding this. Would it be possible to have a further verbal breakdown of some key areas for me to be aware of, as I fully wrap my head around the graph.

Thanks

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posted September 09, 2015 02:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for slowpoke     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am not very good with making the links here. There are two items that should be downloaded. One, is of the highlighted link kind, the other is the black printed text of http. Be sure to get both.

The most important data you have in your hand, without knowing any of the Astrology stuff, is the list of birth dates. You can apply them to your efforts of finding love right away. And if you wanted to find a business partner, this is an excellent source to work from.

This list gives you something more to look for, in search of love. Your objective is to find people who have one of the listed dates as a birthdate. And befriend them. When you meet the people, you may be able to tell if you are attracted to them in short order.

Keep a log of people you know and meet along with their birthdates and contact information. Even if you meet people who meet the list, but you don't like them or they are of the wrong sex, keep their data in your log too. If you, by chance join a dating club, try to get into one that shares birthdates. In some churches here, they share birthdates within their young adult groups.

There is an old saying here; in order to be happy and productive, surround yourself with positive people. This your link to that group.

You do not have to know any of the other stuff I have spoken of.


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posted September 09, 2015 03:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for chromaticmonk91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by slowpoke:
I am not very good with making the links here. There are two items that should be downloaded. One, is of the highlighted link kind, the other is the black printed text of http. Be sure to get both.

The most important data you have in your hand, without knowing any of the Astrology stuff, is the list of birth dates. You can apply them to your efforts of finding love right away. And if you wanted to find a business partner, this is an excellent source to work from.

This list gives you something more to look for, in search of love. Your objective is to find people who have one of the listed dates as a birthdate. And befriend them. When you meet the people, you may be able to tell if you are attracted to them in short order.

Keep a log of people you know and meet along with their birthdates and contact information. Even if you meet people who meet the list, but you don't like them or they are of the wrong sex, keep their data in your log too. If you, by chance join a dating club, try to get into one that shares birthdates. In some churches here, they share birthdates within their young adult groups.

There is an old saying here; in order to be happy and productive, surround yourself with positive people. This your link to that group.

You do not have to know any of the other stuff I have spoken of.


slowpoke


Thanks for your efforts again. But I'll be completely honest and say I am lost, don't know what I am looking at, what to look for. I appreciate it however and will try to understand. List of birth dates, are the ones in orange the good matches, basically fire and air signs?

I'm definitely a beginner when it comes to astrological knowledge and methods, so sorry if I have been a waste of your time and knowledge.

Black printed text of http?

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Hi chromaticmonk91,

I will not be able to reply again until October.

You are not and have not been a waste of time.

Your original statement was something about not having a girlfriend. And you asked if it is your Saturn or something.

I am trying to help you find a girlfriend.
If I were to ask you, chromaticmonk91, I know this girl I would like you to meet, would you like to meet her? And oh, by the way, her birth date is January 30, 1991 (0130.91). Would you want to meet her?

How about if I were to say, I am trying to help you find a girlfriend, chromaticmonk91. But, I do not know anyone personally for you to meet. However, as an astrologer, I can see that women with the following birth dates may suit you well. Are you interested? If so, here is the list.

1020.82 (Oct. 20, 1982)
1021.82
1022.82
1023.82
1111.82
1112.82
1113.82
1116.82
1117.82
1118.82
1119.82
1224.82
1225.82

0328.83
0329.83
0331.83
0401.83
0420.83
0421.83
0516.83
0517.83
0518.83
0519.83
0929.83
0930.83
1002.83
1003.83
1029.83
1030.83

0105.84
0106.84
0107.84
0202.84
0203.84
0216.84
0320.84
0321.84
0322.84
0323.84
0324.84
0325.84
0326.84
0327.84
0328.84
0329.84
0401.84
0410.84
0411.84
0414.84
0415.84
0418.84
0419.84
0420.84
0421.84
0428.84
0429.84
0511.84
0512.84
0514.84
0524.84
0525.84
0526.84
0608.84
0609.84
0610.84
0620.84
0622.84
0623.84
0626.84
0628.84
0629.84
0630.84
0701.84
0702.84
0704.84
0705.84
0706.84
0709.84
0710.84
1026.84
1027.84

0429.85
1211.85
1231.85

0102.86
0103.86
0104.86
0720.86
0727.86

0406.87
0407.87
0408.87
0409.87
1120.87
1121.87
1209.87
1210.87
1211.87
1214.87
1215.87
1216.87
1217.87
1218.87
1219.87
1220.87
1221.87
1227.87
1228.87
1231.87

0102.88
0103.88
0104.88
0107.88
0115.88

0103.89
0104.89
0105.89
0106.89
0107.89
0113.89
0612.89
0613.89
0614.89
0707.89
0708.89
0709.89
0711.89
1030.89
1031.89
1101.89
1119.89
1120.89
1122.89
1123.89
1124.89
1126.89
1127.89
1128.89
1129.89
1130.89
1201.89
1202.89
1203.89
1208.89
1211.89
1212.89
1213.89
1214.89
1215.89
1216.89
1217.89
1220.89
1221.89
1222.89
1225.89
1226.89
1227.89

0112.91
0113.91
0130.91 (Jan. 30, 1991)
0522.91
0523.91
0524.91
0618.91
0710.91
0711.91
1013.91

0421.93
0518.93
0619.93
0620.93
0621.93
0622.93
0623.93
1014.93
1015.93
1017.93
1018.93
1019.93
1020.93
1021.93
1022.93
1028.93
1029.93
1101.93
1103.93
1104.93
1105.93
1106.93
1107.93
1117.93
1118.93
1208.93
1209.93
1212.93
1213.93
1231.93

0101.94
0103.94
0104.94
0105.94
0107.94
0108.94
0109.94
0124.94
1024.94
1025.94
1026.94
1027.94
1028.94
1029.94
1031.94
1101.94
1102.94
1103.94
1214.94

0331.95
0401.95
0406.95
0407.95
0409.95
0410.95
0411.95
0414.95
0415.95
0525.95
0527.95
0925.95
0926.95
0929.95
0930.95
1001.95
1018.95
1019.95
1021.95
1022.95
1023.95
1025.95
1026.95
1029.95
1117.95
1118.95
1119.95
1120.95
1121.95
1122.95
1123.95
1124.95
1210.95
1211.95
1212.95
1213.95
1216.95
1217.95
1219.95

slowpoke


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posted September 13, 2015 07:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for chromaticmonk91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by slowpoke:
Hi chromaticmonk91,

I will not be able to reply again until October.

You are not and have not been a waste of time.

Your original statement was something about not having a girlfriend. And you asked if it is your Saturn or something.

I am trying to help you find a girlfriend.
If I were to ask you, chromaticmonk91, I know this girl I would like you to meet, would you like to meet her? And oh, by the way, her birth date is January 30, 1991 (0130.91). Would you want to meet her?

How about if I were to say, I am trying to help you find a girlfriend, chromaticmonk91. But, I do not know anyone personally for you to meet. However, as an astrologer, I can see that women with the following birth dates may suit you well. Are you interested? If so, here is the list.

1020.82 (Oct. 20, 1982)
1021.82
1022.82
1023.82
1111.82
1112.82
1113.82
1116.82
1117.82
1118.82
1119.82
1224.82
1225.82

0328.83
0329.83
0331.83
0401.83
0420.83
0421.83
0516.83
0517.83
0518.83
0519.83
0929.83
0930.83
1002.83
1003.83
1029.83
1030.83

0105.84
0106.84
0107.84
0202.84
0203.84
0216.84
0320.84
0321.84
0322.84
0323.84
0324.84
0325.84
0326.84
0327.84
0328.84
0329.84
0401.84
0410.84
0411.84
0414.84
0415.84
0418.84
0419.84
0420.84
0421.84
0428.84
0429.84
0511.84
0512.84
0514.84
0524.84
0525.84
0526.84
0608.84
0609.84
0610.84
0620.84
0622.84
0623.84
0626.84
0628.84
0629.84
0630.84
0701.84
0702.84
0704.84
0705.84
0706.84
0709.84
0710.84
1026.84
1027.84

0429.85
1211.85
1231.85

0102.86
0103.86
0104.86
0720.86
0727.86

0406.87
0407.87
0408.87
0409.87
1120.87
1121.87
1209.87
1210.87
1211.87
1214.87
1215.87
1216.87
1217.87
1218.87
1219.87
1220.87
1221.87
1227.87
1228.87
1231.87

0102.88
0103.88
0104.88
0107.88
0115.88

0103.89
0104.89
0105.89
0106.89
0107.89
0113.89
0612.89
0613.89
0614.89
0707.89
0708.89
0709.89
0711.89
1030.89
1031.89
1101.89
1119.89
1120.89
1122.89
1123.89
1124.89
1126.89
1127.89
1128.89
1129.89
1130.89
1201.89
1202.89
1203.89
1208.89
1211.89
1212.89
1213.89
1214.89
1215.89
1216.89
1217.89
1220.89
1221.89
1222.89
1225.89
1226.89
1227.89

0112.91
0113.91
0130.91 (Jan. 30, 1991)
0522.91
0523.91
0524.91
0618.91
0710.91
0711.91
1013.91

0421.93
0518.93
0619.93
0620.93
0621.93
0622.93
0623.93
1014.93
1015.93
1017.93
1018.93
1019.93
1020.93
1021.93
1022.93
1028.93
1029.93
1101.93
1103.93
1104.93
1105.93
1106.93
1107.93
1117.93
1118.93
1208.93
1209.93
1212.93
1213.93
1231.93

0101.94
0103.94
0104.94
0105.94
0107.94
0108.94
0109.94
0124.94
1024.94
1025.94
1026.94
1027.94
1028.94
1029.94
1031.94
1101.94
1102.94
1103.94
1214.94

0331.95
0401.95
0406.95
0407.95
0409.95
0410.95
0411.95
0414.95
0415.95
0525.95
0527.95
0925.95
0926.95
0929.95
0930.95
1001.95
1018.95
1019.95
1021.95
1022.95
1023.95
1025.95
1026.95
1029.95
1117.95
1118.95
1119.95
1120.95
1121.95
1122.95
1123.95
1124.95
1210.95
1211.95
1212.95
1213.95
1216.95
1217.95
1219.95

slowpoke


Thanks, your so kind. It's interesting that are very few compatible dates born the same years as me and none the year before and after me. Is there any particular astrological reason for that? Is there a particular stand out compatibility with 01.30.91?. I start grad school next year, I'm commuting and paying my own way, so looking for a girlfriend isn't really a priority, unless something unexpected happens.

Does the midheaven trine ascendent aspect manifest as some particular attribute, or is it more about those points of a chart being triggered by another planetary influence.

I'm still going slowly through the calendar, making sure I understand. Apologies if I came across as grumpy.

Hopefully I will be more knowledgable by the time you can reply again. Thanks again.

Regards

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Oct. 20, 2015

Hi chromaticmonk91,

All of the dates that I have given you, have their own individual significances with the essence of you. But they have little value, unless you were to interact with people associated with the dates.

Astrologically speaking, I have found it to be more common than not, where strong compatible people have varying age gaps between them - twenty year compatibility age gaps (in both directions) are very common. This is because favorable aspect combinations come and go in cycles on a yearly basis. So it is possible, as you have notice, not to have birthdates closer to you because you are to much alike with slow planet aspects. Most astrologers do not see this, because, they do not have the capability - yet, to work with astrology variables in volume as I do.

I think my method is sound and has substance, but, there is one major flaw in using it. Trying to find a select bunch of people based solely on one's birthday list is almost impossible. And it is even more daunting, if one tries to identify them by social events one person at a time. Viewing, data base, material is the best way to match a name to the date, but this can be problematic as well, if too much private information is also included in the data base.

Meeting people purely by chance is much more fun and interesting. How people jell together after they get used to each other is where the true challenges will begin. I have found that many people in my age generation, have been married three or four times. Perhaps using a method like mine might help them improve their results.


"Does the midheaven trine ascendent aspect manifest as some particular attribute, or is it more about those points of a chart being triggered by another planetary influence."

The midheaven (MC) trine ascendent (Asc) aspect means that you have the personal charm and ability to present and promote your ambitions, to other people in an agreeable way. Because, midheaven in this position, is also sextile the seventh house cusp (public, partnerships and, buyers). Which suggest a potential to have a meeting of the minds with others. In addition to this information, the ascendent, in this position with midheaven, is sextile the fourth house cusp (domestic issues, home and other real estate, stocks and bonds). A favorable fourth house suggest wealth building with real estate. This process may be helped with the influence represented by the MC trine Asc aspect.

The activation point of the midheaven trine ascendent aspect is when the Sun (on an annual basis) or other planets come into range of either one or both the midheaven and ascendent.


Slowpoke

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