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posted August 30, 2015 03:16 PM            

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wanted to open a new thread, we can continue exchanging here if you want.
hope you are doing ok

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posted August 30, 2015 03:56 PM            

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Hi
Thanks for opening this! Well SHOCKINGLY, I don't have any pressing questions at the moment so I don't want to waste your energy. Give me a day or so...I'm sure something will come up LOL

Do you have a question off hand I can answer for you?

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posted August 30, 2015 04:00 PM            

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haha same

have a good day I am off to rest my brain

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posted August 30, 2015 04:40 PM            

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Sounds good!

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posted August 31, 2015 07:18 PM            

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posted September 01, 2015 02:27 AM            

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Hi
sorry I only saw this, was too tiered yesterday.

What I am getting here is I feel like she is wanting way too much attention to say yes to anything. I feel like she wants you to dance around her and make the effort.
I feel like she is jealous over something in your life? like she felt you shurt HER out and now thinks you need to make all the effort to get the friendship back on track.

I still dont feel it falling apart completley. I do see better times come but I feel you both will need to be honest with eachothe.
There cant be any "blame game" while taking to eachother.
But I feeel like being honest that you are feeling hurt by some actions of hers.

I dont think you are looking too much into this or making too much of it but I do see she isnt carrying the relationship equally.

try to be compassonate withe her and whatever you chose to tell her, do it with love.
I feel whatever you tell her as being her fault it will backfire and make her withdraw more.

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posted September 01, 2015 02:30 AM            

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I do have a q

whats A going through now? He feels to be a bit distant at the moment?
will there be a change in this towards me soon?

thank you

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posted September 01, 2015 08:30 AM            

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Thanks so much for looking into this. I'm sensitive now as I feel I'm going through a major transformation with my friendships as well. I'm glad you said I'm not misreading the situation as I had one other reader pull cards and she indicated that the friendship is definitely one-sided and she's being self-centered and not giving equally to the friendship. I'm wondering if the jealousy might have to do with the friendship between myself and her husband as I feel there might be a mutual attraction going on, which I try to downplay significantly. The idea that I shut her out though IMO is completely false and I'm not really sure how in the world she might think that but oh well. Well I appreciate all the insight as I do feel she needed to be made aware of her lack of effort. But I understand, this will needed to be talked over in a calmer way once things cool down a bit.

Ok what's going on with A right now: moon-tree-dog
These are romantic soulmate/karmic cards. I think he might be processing these feelings of his. I don't think it's anything to be worried about. I believe you said once that him withdrawing is kind of typical of him? The moon is a deeply romantic card and the tree is about growth so I think his feelings are growing and he's processing.
Will there be a change towards you: scythe-woman-mountain
Well given the above spread is positive, this spread says he'll slowly come around but it's going to take time

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posted September 01, 2015 11:02 AM            

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Thank you on your reading.

Yes I would say it could be around a man the jealousy.
I feel like she thinks you are better some way or views you as if its easier for you.
Its more to do also with her thiniking she deserves more effort from people. She is being a princess

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posted September 01, 2015 01:02 PM            

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Got it...thanks IF. Let me know how things go when A comes around (which I'm sure he will!)

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posted September 01, 2015 02:02 PM            

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you also !

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posted September 06, 2015 02:46 AM            

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He hasnt still come around :/

Not sure what to think over all this.

Would like to ask if you are up for it.

What do you see coming next for me and him?
If we will continue things

Thank you

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posted September 06, 2015 07:54 AM            

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Hmmm, ok let me pull some cards and see what I can find out.

I do have a question for you as well: I am supposed to go to a black tie gala on October 3rd (oh wait, I told you about it) anyway, can you tell me if I will see DL there that night? Will he be there?

BRB....

Ok what's next between you and A?
Garden-coffin-dog-bear-mice
Well this definitely shows anxiety and stress over the online communication. The communication will end but it looks like temporarily (garden-coffin). Dog-bear is showing an overbearring friend, so I'm thinking he might be feeling a little pressured and so is stepping back. This is what is causing the stress. However, the good news is the dog is the central card here so things will get better between you two...at least friendship-wise, the relationship will stay in tact.

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posted September 06, 2015 09:13 AM            

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for now it seems to me you will see him there. But I do feel there could come to last minute changes.
Feel free to ask me again when its neerer to event

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posted September 06, 2015 09:41 AM            

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Ok will do...Hope my reading resonated for you...

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posted September 06, 2015 09:50 AM            

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Yes it has thank you

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posted September 14, 2015 10:36 AM            

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me again

I got a Q if you got some time.

Wnat do you get for me and A for this week?
he is still being his solitude self..
I am kind of feeling like its all over for me and him?

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posted September 14, 2015 04:44 PM            

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Oh no, what do you mean it's over? Has he left yet?
Have you communicated at all?

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posted September 14, 2015 06:08 PM            

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Its my thoughts fears ...
No communication

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posted September 15, 2015 03:14 AM            

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Hi.
Do you get anything on this at all?

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posted September 15, 2015 07:59 AM            

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Ok sure I'm going to look into this - give me just a bit and I'll be back.

I do have a question: I'd like to know what's up with "gym guy?" I haven't seen him in a good 2 weeks, if not more. I've been going to the gym regularly but he hasn't been around. I'm just wondering if I missed the window to get to get to know him. Thx!

Ok, why hasn't A communicated with you:
Sun-moon-Lily-bear-ship
So I'm going to be very honest with you and tell you what these cards are saying to me but I highly recommend to get a second reading just to make sure. The Lily is the central card about the theme of the spread and the first three cards say he's involved in a passionate, emotional, sexual relationship...most likely with another another woman (bear). So it looks like the ship can be indicating just his trip or the fact that he's moving on from you with the ship being the last card, instead of it coming before the others.
How does A currently feel about you:
Sun-mice-roads
To me this looks like he is burned out, he doesn't feel good about things between you two and is using this time to make a decision about you or using this time to take another path (roads.)

I know this may not be what you wanted to hear but this is the first thing that came to me when I read these cards. These spreads are indicating things might be ending for you two. I'm just trying to be honest; but I HIGHLY suggest you get a second reading to verify. I could be totally off here. I've been wrong before.
I pulled one additional spread for you asking if you and A will get back together in the future: man-flowers-clouds
Pulled cross on clouds
With the clouds at the end of the spread, it is uncertain what the outcome will be between you two but the cross as a clarifier shows what is meant to happen is fated, for better or worse. I believe this is definitely about clearing karma together 💙

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posted September 15, 2015 11:48 AM            

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Sorry took me longer, I just got home from work.

thank you on the reading.
Yes as far as I know he went off on his trip to help his mother while she is in recovery.

Woth your gym guy, first what came to me was that he went in another time or changed a location, I feel like he still goes. I just keep feeling you have just been missing eachother at the times you both go. I dont feel you missed your window to get to know him. I feel like you will bump into him fearly soon though.

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posted September 15, 2015 12:06 PM            

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Ok here's the thing, as far as the first spread goes, Lily stands for healing as well as sex. And both the moon and the bear can represent the mother. SO this spread may simply indicate that he is very passionate/determined to take this trip to help his mother heal. Does it seem he is very close with her?

Applying this to the second spread, it looks like the sun-mice-roads could just be him worrying over a bunch of different stuff because he has too much going on right now..multiple things you, his mom etc.

Given what you just told me aboutcme you know he is traveling to help his sick mom, I think this interpretation fits the spreads better. Also, the flowers are in the last spread as to whether you rekindle things with him...that is a positive card so I do not believe all is lost here😊

**the difference between Leno and tarot is that Leno can be quite LITERAL!!!!

I do have one additional question if it's ok: do you get any indication I'm fated to have a relationship with this guy? Like do you see anything between us in the future?

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posted September 15, 2015 12:12 PM            

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yes she means everything to him and he wouldnt go abroad if it werent for her as his parents are divorced.
The last text he sent me was " I got lots of **** now, will text you "
so it makes sense.

I will reply in 20-30 min so I finish a chore

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posted September 15, 2015 12:15 PM            

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Ok yes....now the spread is starting to make sense!! I believe these spreads are literally pointing to him dealing with his mother...I don't think this has to do with you in particular. Ok thx

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