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IntuitiveJ
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posted August 31, 2015 01:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for IntuitiveJ     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Curious from anyone who would like to weigh in on this topic!
I'll ask it in two parts...

1. How do you feel about getting several readings on the same topic (but not asking the same exact question) but each reader coming up with a different answer? Edited to add...there is no "trusted" reader for the purpose of this question, just a few random reccomendations and the topic was the same but the question asked different.

2. A reading that is contradictory within itself. Meaning, someone asks about a relationship thats established, the reader states that the two are meant to be companions (already wrong as they are an established longish term couple) and then goes on to say the purpose is for healing and there is a great connection with long term potential but... its only a slight possibility, very unlikely and very far into the future.

Thoughts? Please feel free to share!

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posted August 31, 2015 02:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for WastedLove     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hmm that's something I think about often too. So far I consider myself lucky that all of my paid readings resonated with each other and the predictions and outcomes were all similar. I'm waiting for readings from Donna Maxine and Yona and I'm praying that they don't say the complete opposite of the others lol.

But I guess I'd just go with my gut feeling if I had contradictory readings..

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posted August 31, 2015 02:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ILovePoems     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Since I cant really answer the questions because I kinda don't understand it, I will say this though. I've been getting readings for a year now an I asked alot of readers about the same thing an almost the same thing an each readers tells me different things. Some say positive an some say negative. Its to the point that I can't even trust the readings much because most of the readers say something different. Now some say the same but its still a little different. I'm actually going through that right now as well. I'm asking alot readers mostly the same questions an I keep getting different answers. An when I do get different answers I start to panic an ask other readers the same questions to see what they get it. Now I'm not buying any more readings, that's in the past but I'm still afraid because I don't know who is right.

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posted August 31, 2015 02:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for IntuitiveJ     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Getting too many readings asking the same question is surely a way to confuse yourself! I was kind of leaning more toward asking questions about the same topic (but different questions) and none of the answers really being similar.

It's quite confusing!

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posted August 31, 2015 02:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ILovePoems     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yeah. I just seem to worry an ask the question again. I shouldn't do that though. :/ I just felt that I should say that lol

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posted August 31, 2015 02:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for IntuitiveJ     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by ILovePoems:
Yeah. I just seem to worry an ask the question again. I shouldn't do that though. :/ I just felt that I should say that lol

Try to take time to let the situation play out. Easier said then done I know!
But re asking a million times won't speed anything up and it'll drain your wallet.
I've been there & it wasn't fun. If you'd ever like me to read for you on a topic you haven't been read on very much just ask
I'm not around much but I do check in

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posted August 31, 2015 03:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for gypsywander     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Also not to mention that asking tends to change the out come of the situation.

For example if you worry about the outcome of a love relationship or the outcome of a job interview and you project fear of losing it into the situation too many times, you may just end up losing it.. whereas its better to to think that you may not get it because if it's in your higher power, you will end up getting it.

I do not believe in a future. Which is strange to say as a psychic reader, but we are the co-creators of our future. As a society the thought of a future is so engrained in our brains that we're forced to think that way. That's why in the Buddhist path, they teach to be in the Present because that's the only type of existence. There isn't a past... nor a future, but the present and the present becomes tomorrow's present and today becomes yesterday's present.

Asking too many questions on the same thing changes the situation and direction of it. That's why you get different answers each time. You ask, and the universe is like, "OH she knows time to change". You cannot outwit the universe and it will b!tchslap you with karma if you try (i've tried and DO NOT recommend).

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posted August 31, 2015 03:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for VacantGazer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
These are just my thoughts

1. Even if you're asking a different question I think the energies surrounding that topic is still affected, because it's still about the same topic. Asking how does A feel about B, then asking if A will re-unite with B is still affecting the energies between A and B, despite being different questions, just as example. So I think asking many many questions on that very same topic regardless of whether or not it's the same question still affects the energies there and perhaps muddles it a little bit, and perhaps many readings on them - especially in a short period of time, affects the energies, so could affect accuracies of the readings. There are readers that can cut through that but still. As to whether it affects the original outcome - I think what ever is MEANT to be will be.

2. "great connection with long term potential but... its only a slight possibility, very unlikely and very far into the future." This is just my personal view, but a reader should never say this to someone - if the couple are established and happy, it is like making a decision for them. After hearing this someone might decide to break it off or would simply sit and worry about it. If they do see a break up then fair enough but to tell someone in a happy relationship that they wont last in addition to - "very far into the future" - energies could change completley by then. Readings are based on energies at the current time of the reading, how things might go if you continue your current path. But as to your question I think it also relates to how the signals/symbols are interpreted too.

These are just my opinions, please fell free to correct.

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posted August 31, 2015 03:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for FairyDust75     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I completely disagree. What is meant to be is meant to be no matter how many times you ask or how many different people you ask. And I don't believe thinking negatively will cause the end of a situation either. If thoughts had so much power then I would be able to move my remote control closer to me instead of me having to get up to get it. Yes it is good to think positively but I don't think if you have fear that you will lose out on something. Fear is a natural emotion to have as well as worry.

Now back to IntuitiveJ, that's pretty interesting that you've been getting so many variations. Is it possible the readers are all of a different skill level and maybe they each are seeing a different piece that somehow will fit together? I would say go with what's in your heart and mind. Even if it contradicts what a reader said. What do you feel to be true?

I wanted to clarify I was disagreeing with Gypsywanderer. This is merely my opinion and how I view things though. Not looking to argue

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posted August 31, 2015 03:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for furrybunny     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
lols fairy at remote


i believe negative thinking do affect the situation but only bc it affects ur actions. ie. he doesnt like me and then subconsciously my actions towards him will be closed off and distant vs if u realize there will be a possibility of a relationship you are more likely to be warm and open and take more action.

but i do notice a pattern. ive been testing readers when i have money to spare. i usually have 2-3 reader pick up the same situation then the 4th reader will say something different. which spurs me to contact more readers. contradictions are bound to happen. especially if you ask about it 24.7. then it just creates this energy that affects future readings.
i usually dont ask the same question but another question regarding the same situation. the more i disagree with a reading the more it spawns me to do the opposite and well now i can say few readers were wrong. they might've been right if i had done nothing but we will never know lols.

#2 happened to me a few times. i think those readers are awful. trying to say one of 2 will happen so they can be right either way. like no **** i know that myself. i just stay clear from those readers. i notice alot of readers on keen do that back when i was in high school. prob took adv of my age.

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posted August 31, 2015 03:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ILovePoems     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Now reading all these.. I feel like the reading wont happen.

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posted August 31, 2015 03:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for IntuitiveJ     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Really great answers- thank you all
I was a serious reading "addict" for a long time. I was able to pull away & in turn my life turned around & what I always wanted did happen! Except not with the person I was obsessed with it happening with.
Fast forward- I've hit a bumpy patch in life & figured why not try a few readers & ask for some clarity?
Square one ladies & gents! I'm more confused then ever.
Time to let the future & stuff play out.
I believe people are gifted yes. But for me- it's prob best to just not get readings.
Never letting myself slip back into the mode I was in a year or so ago...
It was a very tough addiction to break.

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posted August 31, 2015 03:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for gypsywander     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by IntuitiveJ:
Really great answers- thank you all
I was a serious reading "addict" for a long time. I was able to pull away & in turn my life turned around & what I always wanted did happen! Except not with the person I was obsessed with it happening with.
Fast forward- I've hit a bumpy patch in life & figured why not try a few readers & ask for some clarity?
Square one ladies & gents! I'm more confused then ever.
Time to let the future & stuff play out.
I believe people are gifted yes. But for me- it's prob best to just not get readings.
Never letting myself slip back into the mode I was in a year or so ago...
It was a very tough addiction to break.

I've found best to acknowledge why you feel the need to ask a reading, is it feeling lost, is it because of anxiety, or a deeper personal issue? Sometimes it just means that you have an addictive personality which isn't a bad thing but knowing how to manage it will surely improve your life.

I've found acknowledging this addictive energy and channeling it into other things in your life helps tones. I've channeled it into work, cleaning, work, creative projects, work, shopping..., etc. .. work lol did I say work?

I am a creative, so 'being addicted' to work isn't necessarily a bad thing as long as you know your boundaries and don'transfer from being a taroholic to a workaholic!

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posted August 31, 2015 03:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for IntuitiveJ     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
VacantGazer
Couldn't agree with you more.
I felt like messaging the reader with a "whaaaat" but decided against it.
I'm trying to forget all about it as well as the glowing reviews I read saying what a fantastic reader she was.

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posted August 31, 2015 03:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for VacantGazer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
ILP - what does your gut feeling on the situation tell you to do? Go with your gut feelings

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posted August 31, 2015 03:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ILovePoems     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Now I'm scared you guys. I asked alot an now I don't know what is the real answers.

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posted August 31, 2015 03:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ILovePoems     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

Be patient, something might happen. But I keep getting "be patient". But everyone saying the situation an answers changes when you ask to much an I did ask too much. some of the answers were good an some were negative..

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posted August 31, 2015 03:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for IntuitiveJ     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Gypsy-
Yes! I do have an addictive personality. When things are smooth my mind is at ease and it's all good. When I hit bumps? Esp in personal relationships? That's when the addict in me kicks in wanting answers.
I need to refocus & channel it else where.
I also have been hurt in the past so I carry those bruises and fear it happening again. Trust issues.
You're right.

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posted August 31, 2015 04:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for furrybunny     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by IntuitiveJ:
Really great answers- thank you all
I was a serious reading "addict" for a long time. I was able to pull away & in turn my life turned around & what I always wanted did happen! Except not with the person I was obsessed with it happening with.
Fast forward- I've hit a bumpy patch in life & figured why not try a few readers & ask for some clarity?
Square one ladies & gents! I'm more confused then ever.
Time to let the future & stuff play out.
I believe people are gifted yes. But for me- it's prob best to just not get readings.
Never letting myself slip back into the mode I was in a year or so ago...
It was a very tough addiction to break.


i went through exact same thing as you! lolols

my parents canceled my cards bc i spent on readers nonstop back in highschool and first year of college like u said i was so confused and was soooo addicted till one experience actually made me realize it was a waste of time and money. it was such an eyeopener. after that i just went cold turkey. best decsion.


so ilovepoems i think ur going through same thing as i did few years ago. :/ my only adv is to stop asking. i can 100% relate to ur situation.. but once you let things work itself out, (without help of readers) things always seem to turn out well.


makes me wonder if some readers like sabotaging someone's happiness to get you to come back for more. my mom mentioned something happening to a lady her friend knew. she really hates psychics. she's crazy superstitious. but shes so much happier then i am and she never even had a reading.

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posted August 31, 2015 04:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for gypsywander     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Gypsy-
Yes! I do have an addictive personality. When things are smooth my mind is at ease and it's all good. When I hit bumps? Esp in personal relationships? That's when the addict in me kicks in wanting answers.
I need to refocus & channel it else where.
I also have been hurt in the past so I carry those bruises and fear it happening again. Trust issues.
You're right.

Don't worry, I suffer from that too. You're not a lone.

When you feel the need to ask, instead of going to tarot find another activity to channel it in. Rewire your brain, saying "No, Tarot is bad for me now, this is my new worry activity, etc". it helped me cut down.

Also taking a break from forums like these help a lot

but also knowing that a situation may not change no matter how many questions you ask about it and it's just best to put the cards away and enjoy it. Sometimes asking causes anxiety which can make one ill... and when that happens you should think, "Why am I doing this to myself?!"

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posted August 31, 2015 04:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeeLoo2014     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I strongly recommend LL It's the best place to ask a question from several readers.

Every time I asked a question to several people here, all give the same answer, at least the cards point to the same message. Out of 6 readings, only one says a different message. To me, it never happened to get contradictory readings on the same topic. By this I mean the majority sends the same message.

I recommend a max. of 6 opinions on the same question. The maximum maximum.

I also have to be honest and say that sometimes people ask so many times and get confused with many opinions because they are not ready to accept the message in the first readings. The first 6 readings should give you the message, and I think trying this here will show you this phenomenon.

IJ, I think your 2nd question shows the reader maybe didn't pick on the current situation correctly. But I said it before, IMO, it's best to give readers the current situation yourself, such as "we've been together for x years, we are in a relationship, how does it evolve?". When you tell the reader what you know, it helps them, either they know it or not, to focus on what you don't know and want to find out, it's a psychological effect (if an honest reader). Plus, they don't fill your reading with things you already know. The more precise the info and the questions, the more precise the answers (if a good reader).

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posted August 31, 2015 04:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for furrybunny     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
well i believe telling a reader too much info will not benefit the person much but the reader themselves. but im talking about readers on keen and bitwine - large corps or street stall psychics. many of them are shady imo. always asking for couple hundred for cleansing even if they were accurate with tarot. i got scammed for 1k in highschool lolols so dumb

but on LL it makes more sense which i have done and didnt mind doing because i had more info on the reader. through feedback and their style of reading.


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posted August 31, 2015 04:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ILovePoems     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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i went through exact same thing as you! lolols

my parents canceled my cards bc i spent on readers nonstop back in highschool and first year of college like u said i was so confused and was soooo addicted till one experience actually made me realize it was a waste of time and money. it was such an eyeopener. after that i just went cold turkey. best decsion.


so ilovepoems i think ur going through same thing as i did few years ago. :/ my only adv is to stop asking. i can 100% relate to ur situation.. but once you let things work itself out, (without help of readers) things always seem to turn out well.


makes me wonder if some readers like sabotaging someone's happiness to get you to come back for more. my mom mentioned something happening to a lady her friend knew. she really hates psychics. she's crazy superstitious. but shes so much happier then i am and she never even had a reading.

and yeh staying away from forums like this helps alot. many on here are praticing so i would take it with a grain of salt.


So even if I asked over a couple of times the situation wont change? I hope it didnt..

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posted August 31, 2015 04:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeeLoo2014     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Furry, that's true, the shady ones will do that. I was mostly talking about readers already identified as genuine and honest.

And here, there are no personal interests when doing an exchange or a reading, so there's no danger for that; I noticed here how everyone sends the same message, it's an amazing fact, and I tried those collective message threads for instance, and it does work, compiling several readings here should give you the answer.

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posted August 31, 2015 04:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for furrybunny     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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So even if I asked over a couple of times the situation wont change? I hope it didnt..


hmm i think ppl's situations are all different. and im no expert so offering u my opinion will just make you more confuse. :/ but what i do suggest is stop asking for at least a month.

but long story short. asked about a guy in highschool - first few readings - he just enjoys dating around/ no relationship.
that ****** me off and made me sad lolols so i asked a couple more - everyones like oh he likes you just wait for 3 months or something.. itll happen.. then a few weeks later saw him with another girl and he pretended like i didnt exist lolols

so like leeloo said i find first few readers are usually accurate then it becomes a hot mess - mostly me being one lols.

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