posted September 02, 2015 08:27 PM            

I hung out with a guy tonight. We have a good rapport and I thought he was attracted to me. He was very friendly throughout. I'm not sure how he feels. He cut the night short after dinner saying he had to wake up early.

posted September 03, 2015 08:48 PM            

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Originally posted by Haplesschild*:
Hard to say. Did he listen and smile a lot?
I think the best indication of interest.is whether he will continue to set up dates in the coming weeks. If he's communicative and consistent and sees you at least once a week or so, then there is interest.

Wait n see what happens in the next 2 weeks

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He did both of those things, but he was a little distant. His Venus falls in my 12th house and somehow he has a pull on me. I thought he was enameled with me before I asked if he wanted to hang out. Now I feel dazzled by him, but he is pulling away. I'm not use to this 12th house synastry. :/

My Venus falls in his fifth, but he is wary. I'm not sure what I did.

posted September 03, 2015 08:53 PM            

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Originally posted by happyleo:
Is he into you
desire
judge+tought+loss
clarification: widower
hmmm, i think he still needs time to decide, like he is pushing the whole thing out of his mind for the time being
the widower makes me think he wants to do the responsible thing with that and if you don't relax about such situations he will think you are too immature for him
it seems still open and he wants to think about it later

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This brings a lot of insight because he's very mature for his age although I am slightly older than him. I am playful. He just watches me. I have his undivided attention when I speak. He likes the way I think, but he is pulling away.

Thank you for your reply. I will take it into consideration, especially because he most likely is doing this.