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posted September 14, 2015 10:30 PM            

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A "friend-quaintence" of my boyfriend and I, J., has been acting strange. Normally he returns our calls within minutes, but a week has gone by with no word back from him after my bf left 2 messages. My boyfriend feared something awful had happened to him to the point that I looked him up on Facebook (which I never go on) and he's posted several times lately about everyday things. Both of us felt a little betrayed. Also, I draw cartoons as a hobby, and he drew a cartoon with almost the same characters and type of writing that I use but presented it in a very indirect way, almost like a veiled message....I thought it was funny at first but now I'm sort of creeped out. But maybe I'm imagining things and the cartoon is a coincidence and not meant for me at all? Anyone care to draw a couple cards about this? Will probably edit this post later....

Leave a question and I'll be happy to reply with a reading. Thank you

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posted September 15, 2015 06:03 AM            

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I drew for your question eight of swords-four of pentacles-five of swords.

Hmm... these is a tricky one. Do you have been any incidents with money (like situations he coud feel that he paid for more than his share)? Or do you have much more money to use that he has? This cards would point that his behaviour would be due feeling that you have resources he hasn't and making him jealous or simply just he having some financial problems which make him wanting to shut down from friends. Let me know does this resonate?

If you want you can answer for me will my economical situation change for the better or worse for the rest of the year?

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posted September 15, 2015 11:01 PM            

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Thanks for your reading Jinni. I think you're totally correct thinking J's strange attitude is financial in origin. It took me awhile to figure out why, because he is much more affluent than us, at least on paper. My bf had done some work for J and had called him about payment, so initially I thought J could have been displeased with my bf's prior work from your reading. However, recently I had joked with J about how my bf is no perfectionist, and J had replied very favorably about my bf's work, so I ruled that out. But what you said about J being jealous could be it. J busts his butt running his own business, and he talks about how he works too hard (plus he looks exhausted to me sometimes). His chart is crazy, with almost every planet in a stellium that is square saturn and opposite uranus...yikes! Meanwhile, my bf does work here and there but hardly to the point of having a "real" job, nor does he have kids to support like J. I think J is jealous, and in fact, sometimes *I* am jealous and resentful of my bf too!! So anyway, thank you for your insights. Oh, and it was funny, but I called J today and he answered immediately and rushed over to us to pay my bf. Bf is now ticked off that J responded to me and basically ignored him!

As far as your financial situation goes, I drew the strength card for your past, seven of wands for the present and the world for the future. When I asked about what you can do to help your financial situation, the card that appeared was the Queen of Cups.
So the strength card followed by seven of wands definitely suggests that you are fighting valiantly to stay in control of your finances, and that it may be more difficult now than in the past. The world card suggests a positive future though, like what you are fighting hard for now will come to fruition later. It could also mean a change of residence too, if that is relevant. The Queen of Cups suggests that relying on your intuition could help you out, as well as maintaining a focused, calm attitude about things. Have faith that things will work out okay and don't forget to give thanks for what you do have. Also possibly a female mentor who could guide you through this period with good advice.
Hope this helps!!

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posted September 16, 2015 04:45 AM            

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I'm glad to hear that things are more on the normal side with your friend now It's always stressful if you have no clue what's going on. People can be weird :P

Thank you for your reading. It does resonate and relocation is one option. I'm sort of crossroads now doing some projects instead of having one steady job so things are changing all the time. I sort of enjoy it though, it makes me feel free

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posted September 16, 2015 10:56 PM            

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Nice, I've been thinking about "phasing out" my steady job one of these days too. Perhaps the Queen of Cups is pointing to your success in creative/helping/healing endeavors? Best of luck to you!

Wow, my bf has been overreacting to this incident and has just declared his friendship with J dead. His exact words were "just another a-hole who thinks he's better than me." I really think he's projecting his own fears because J was never disrespectful except in not calling him back in a timely manner. When I suggested that things might be going on in J's life that we don't understand and have nothing to do with us, he snapped at me for taking J's side. I can't understand why he would let one thing like this destroy a friendship and his business relationship with his best customer. Okay, I had to vent here a little bit...

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posted September 17, 2015 06:49 AM            

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Tough situation :/ Is your boyfriend tenperamentical? Maybe he will forgot this incident when little time will pass? I'm just thinking that maybe J couldn't pay what he owed at the time your boyfriend called and that's why didn't pick up. Or simply was going to call back but forgot. I sometimes read messages and I think that I will answer later, but then stuff will happen and I just forgot. Anyway I dearly hope that your situation will work out the best possible way.

I am actually doing something bit creative now as I write some stuff for netsites. I cannot choose what I'm writing about but I have freedom to choose how I execute articles. English is not my first language in case you wonder how I can be a writer with grammar like this

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posted September 17, 2015 10:32 PM            

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I could tell you aren't a native English speaker, but your grammar isn't bad...plus you spelled "grammar" right! Most native English speakers mess that one up lol!

Yes, my bf is extremely moody. This morning he brought up the incident again, mentioning that J couldn't pay in cash b/c his wife controls it (and basically how awful their relationship is & how he only married her because he got her pregnant!). That puts a whole new spin on the cards. He feels trapped by his greedy 4 of Pents wife who makes him feel like he's betraying her if he spends $ on his leisure time pursuits! At least my bf has calmed down about the whole thing and is not taking it so personally. Anyway, thanks again for reading my blather!!

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