posted September 17, 2015 05:42 AM            

Boyfriend sent roses to me, which I received yesterday. I got them and messaged him expressing my excitement (he's never really done anything like this before). Had dinner with a friend and it went really late so since he lives in town, I called to ask if i could stay over instead. He must've woken up to pick up the phone because he was quite ****** and kept on asking me why I was calling. Said no, I couldn't stay over.

Anyway, we haven't talked at all today. He didn't even respond to my messages regarding the flowers yesterday afternoon. Was planning to have dinner with him tomorrow night with other people, but he messaged me around 9pm today saying he was going to hang out with his guy friend tmrw instead (Fri), that he was free sat afternoon. He didn't say sorry, or anything. It made me a little annoyed too because I had to switch plans with a friend bc i had plans to have dinner with him.
I also thought it was quite last minute and felt abit disappointed. So I ended up asking him what's up, if something's bothering him...So far, he's read my messages, but it's been nearly an hour and he hasn't replied.

So my questions are, is B ****** off at me? =/ Why is he behaving like this.

Please leave your questions too.

posted September 18, 2015 11:25 AM            

Two of Cups RX
The Star
Seven of Cups
Four of Cups was facing the wrong side in my deck

Has communication been strained in your partnership lately? Do you feel like you have to walk around on eggshells around him? Don't! He wants you to be honest with your feelings. He knows he's been short with you, hence the flowers were a gesture of adoration and goodwill in order to erase some of his crummy behavior. You responded in kind - as you should have. But he's slipping back into being thoughtless. Don't let him get away with this - call him out and express how this makes you feel small. It's confusing to do something so sweet and then to act so dour afterwards on his part.

One of you is going through some kind of psychological transformation right now. Maybe it's him, maybe it's you - but there will be an undertone of serenity in the future once you guys can resolve these snags in your relationship

Both of you need to analyze your motivations in this relationship and see if your goals align. If they do, then that's a good sign to move forward and prosper. If they don't, then you both may need to seek what could make you happy in another place - not necessarily break up, but create more time for separate hobbies, friends, classes, etc to inject a sense of renewal into the relationship

posted September 21, 2015 07:07 PM            

Death, Wheel of fortune rev, King of Pentacles, 3 of pentacles, 6 of wands, 9 of cups rev.

posted September 22, 2015 10:03 AM            

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Originally posted by Haplesschild*:
I got great cards for you

Death, Wheel of fortune rev, King of Pentacles, 3 of pentacles, 6 of wands, 9 of cups rev.

KJM feelings for you may have started off subtly, but they've proven to stabilise and intensify over time. Unlike cup cards, pentacles suggest a more consistent and more inward energy. He may not be terribly expressive showing his feelings (most likely alittle shy at times about it), but it's clear to me he wants something real with you. There's an inner, slow burning passion and more of a want for creating the right foundation. He is wanting to come together, have it be something meaningful, so he's not rushing it. He is used to being more in control, but with you, he feels that there are other forces acting between you two. He feels that you can make things better, build up his confidence, but it's one step at a time. The process will be a more gradual and slow one, but once he makes up his mind that this is what he wants 100% and gets over any minor fears, you'll be in for something positive and rewarding.

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Wow, this is an amazing reading! Not just the cards you pulled, but the way you articulated it is really beautiful and resonated with me. This is extremely chronological to how everything has played out so far - I confess I was neutral to the point of mild disinterest in the beginning but there's something about him that's gotten under my skin over time. I can tell simply that by existing and being myself alone is just something that he's drawn to, which is kind of weird for me (in a good way!).