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Topic: Why can't I forget her? Sad all the time..
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FayeMaye Knowflake Posts: 202 From: Sweden Registered: Nov 2014
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posted September 19, 2015 05:24 AM
Hi, me and my bff has drifted apart and we really don't talk anymore. If she doesn't make an effort to keep me in her life why should I? We met on the internet in the beginning of 2012, and have been bestfriends since then. I mean because we don't live near each other we can't really "hang out" often, but we used to skype all the time. I mean sure the older we get, the more busy we get but I mean once in a while.. I just can't forget about her, it's never been like this with anyone else. When I think of her I just cry, and I get angry cause I don't know why I care so damn much. Will we ever be friends again, or was this **** doomed from the beginning? I don't really know what I'm asking, It's just sucks to really bond with someone and then poof the relationship never existed in the first place.... we probably have bad synastry Thanks for every respond, means a lot <3
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furrybunny Knowflake Posts: 560 From: NYC Registered: Dec 2014
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posted September 19, 2015 03:34 PM
aww i hope you get through it and that it isnt serious i had 2 falling outs this summer with my besties as well.. one dumped me over some stupid dream she had... my person exp.. lots of people come and go in your life.. u just learn and move on! IP: Logged |
3l3n Knowflake Posts: 451 From: Registered: Nov 2014
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posted September 20, 2015 09:19 AM
It doesn't look as though you have a bad synastry between you,on the contrary. but by the look of things, it seems as if she has and is going through some difficult transits.tr.Uranus on her Venus square with t.Pluto must have not been easy for her these past years. also tChiron going back and forth over her Sun opposite Moon might have her closing up and doing a little revaluating and healing herself from painful events that might have taken place. Tr. Saturn will also be triggering her Mars/Moon/Sun square. You can try and lend some helpful words and advice through this difficult time. If she does not respond.. I think she will in time, after she has thought through her troubles and pains maybe IP: Logged |
FayeMaye Knowflake Posts: 202 From: Sweden Registered: Nov 2014
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posted September 20, 2015 11:16 AM
quote: Originally posted by furrybunny: aww i hope you get through it and that it isnt serious i had 2 falling outs this summer with my besties as well.. one dumped me over some stupid dream she had... my person exp.. lots of people come and go in your life.. u just learn and move on!
Thank you, eating ice cream and watching a good movie helps keeping your mind of things. Oh, I'm so sorry, hope you feel better soon too<3 IP: Logged |
FayeMaye Knowflake Posts: 202 From: Sweden Registered: Nov 2014
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posted September 20, 2015 11:19 AM
quote: Originally posted by 3l3n: It doesn't look as though you have a bad synastry between you,on the contrary. but by the look of things, it seems as if she has and is going through some difficult transits.tr.Uranus on her Venus square with t.Pluto must have not been easy for her these past years. also tChiron going back and forth over her Sun opposite Moon might have her closing up and doing a little revaluating and healing herself from painful events that might have taken place. Tr. Saturn will also be triggering her Mars/Moon/Sun square. You can try and lend some helpful words and advice through this difficult time. If she does not respond.. I think she will in time, after she has thought through her troubles and pains maybe
Thank you so much for the respond, she really doesn't like to talk about "emotional" stuff. But I will try to make her see that I am here for her <3 IP: Logged |
3l3n Knowflake Posts: 451 From: Registered: Nov 2014
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posted September 20, 2015 11:57 AM
Also Moon in Virgo is not as easy to "comfort" so, be gentle. especially with your Chiron & Pluto squared to it.Saturn will also conjuct your planets too so, be patient and stay calm IP: Logged |