posted September 22, 2015 01:45 AM            

I would like some advice/help on what aspects to seek out (manifest) for a good relationship with a woman who

"fits me."
I've been getting pretty beat up emotionally for a few years and with my progressed moon now in Pisces it's

become quite difficult being alone.
...and I find too many single sociopaths out there.

I just don't seem to have enough astrology knowledge to figure this out despite my best efforts and endless

research.
Note: I'm open to other modalities as well, not only astrology.

My DOB: Feb 8, 1971 @ 4:10AM, Phoenix AZ USA
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I recognize I do have a difficult chart regarding relationships (obviously):
-5th house Saturn in Taurus
-Saturn square Sun
-1st house Venus in Cap...Sesquiquadrate my Saturn
-Pluto square Venus & Ascendant
-Mercury opposite Moon
-Something about my Uranus?

Also:
I believe Cancer Moon is a difficult placement for a man in the USA...it's not very masculine. I've learned to

channel that "needy" energy in a better way now, but I'll always be sensitive & intuitive, which I'm ok with.
I believe my 8th house Cancer moon is the most powerful, influential energy in my chart. I have to keep my

emotional space happy or my life gets way off balance (and so here I am ).
So I'm thinking a Scorpio Moon (maybe in 4th house?) might be a good start? My 11th house ("love received") is

in Scorpio...and I would sure enjoy being loved by Scorpio energy. Yes, might challenge my Sun, but it works

beautifully with my Moon. Just a thought.

My POF is at 17 deg Cancer in my 7th house. My life just works SO much better when I'm in a relationship.
Not to mention my 8th house Moon (trine Jupiter) wants a deep, committed connection.
Yes, I'm independent but please don't give me garbage about "I just want the good parts." I 'get' real

commitment, people get sick, life, etc. (the woman ends it almost always)

I've worked on overcoming my Saturn energy for several years...to express myself more 'childlike' and even my

sexuality, instead of being reserved...which I think has helped, but I seem to now just enter in & out of

relationships faster.
Now I'm also working on my Venus in Cap...trying so hard to be more expressive & social and not so stoic.
I've been doing a *LOT* of inner work towards awareness & how I show up, even getting my hormones balanced.
But...seems I keep doing more of the same, expecting different results.

I've typically gravitated to older women, and I'm now trying to focus on younger, per advice.

Honestly, I just don't know anymore.
I'm such a mixed bag, and women tell me I'm hard to read.
I'm not looking for perfect.
In truth, I've probably dated too many women who were just wrong in trying to not be overly picky.

posted September 22, 2015 09:37 AM            

The chart is no longer visible...I suggest you post the story and chart in Interpersonal Astrology in my Ideal Partner thread and I will take a look

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I seem to have loved you in numberless forms...

AstroMandala