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posted September 22, 2015 05:57 AM            

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hey guys i am having a major relationship dilemma. im torn between wanting to be with two people. going back with my ex C of five years or MK who i have met a year ago but recently really started talking to last month who is from New Zealand. I never been really happy talking to someone like i have with MK and we have so much in common its amazing. with C we had many ups and downs throughout our five years together. it is like i want to give me and C another try but i feel it is a cycle. With MK yes it is would be a long distance relationship but it would take us time to get to really know each other before we meet in person. Anyone willing to help will have a big thank you to me <3<3

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posted September 22, 2015 06:31 AM            

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My motto is don't go back go forward. Forget the past and move on. Has C approached you to get back together? If he hasn't then why bother? If it didn't work the first time it probably won't work the second time. Don't go back to someone just because you don't want to be alone or its comfortable. You need to let go of the last and go forward. If you had issues they most likely will still come up.

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posted September 22, 2015 08:21 AM            

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Yes he has approached me and we had a very long talk about our relationship and right now I just feel way too torn

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