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TR2009
Newflake

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From: Annapolis, MD,USA
Registered: Aug 2013

posted October 13, 2015 02:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for TR2009     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
We work in the same place but different departments, after 2 months he told me he has had his eye on me, 3 weeks ago we exchanged numbers and he said he was going to call. A couple days pass he doesn't call, I txt him and it takes him hours to txt back and he asked to see me and I said yes but he never text me back. The day we were supposed to hang out he doesn't txt or call till 10 pm saying he was doing a favor for a neighbor and was tired which I understood. But within 10mins of talking on the phone he asked if I was a virgin and when was the last time I had sex. I told him I dont have sex without a relationship and he automatically said oh your my lady than and I said you havent taken me out or anything. A week ago when I was on break he came in and sat with me for 5mins and when he left he put his arm around my back, kissed me on the cheek and told me to call him, I called him 2 days later he didn't answer an never called me back. It s been a week and he never calls me or text me I always have to text him first and he never text back.
He came over to my department and we talked and he stares at me allot but when we were done talking he said he would txt me but nothing from him yet.
Before we exchanged numbers he seemed very interested in getting to know me, he would say he wanted to take me out and that he liked me. But it seems he doesn't think about me unless I'm standing in front of him or wanting to go out outside of work.
Am I just a work flirting friend?


Im a Libra by the way

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gypsywander
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From: USA
Registered: Jul 2015

posted October 13, 2015 05:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for gypsywander     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Don't get involved with this man. He seems unstable and is trying to get with you. The way he comes off seems very stalkerish and almost domineering/controlling... unless that's what you want.

The vibe that I got initially was that if you eventually do agree to do a relationship with him, and then eventually sex, he'll dump you after.

Stay as friends. Work relationships are very hard to deal with and most people don't want to mix the two. The fact that he said "I have my eye on you" gave me the creeps.

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Kryptic
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From: Venus
Registered: Jun 2014

posted October 13, 2015 07:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kryptic     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sounds as if he is playing with you.

Some guys love to "fish" and put out the right lure/bait but once they've caught you either hurt you or let you go.

Scorpio men can be very good players but if all you want is a passionate and intense good time without ties of any sort then....go for it.

Keep in mind that you exchange energy with people when you have sex and you can become attached even if your not meaning to.

Also ind out his moon, mars and venus, if he has any air sign (especially Gemini) and depending what house in these planets, be wary/cautious of involvement.

My gut also feels what the lady above me has said......

Also she gave good advice not to mix work and relationships.

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Kryptic
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From: Venus
Registered: Jun 2014

posted October 13, 2015 07:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kryptic     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Also if I were you I would judge him on his actions....

He hasn't phoned you...and takes his sweet time to text....I'd immediately think he has someone already and maybe your an "option" on the side to him that he isn't sure about yet.

The fact he has also never taken you out speaks volumes....and only showing you minute amounts of attention at work. Sounds as if he's trying to manipulate your feeling a little there and some men are very experienced with this especially when you are young, naive and inexperienced.

As for "I have my eye on you" sounds as if he just wants another notch on his bed/belt. Yes it's nice to have attention but you have to be a bit discriminating and analyse a bit or you can get a whole lot of hurt coming your way....sometimes the hurt scorpio male in a relationship will hurt other females intentionally as in some are vindictive, be very careful with the scorpion he can be sweet and deep (when positive) but watch for the sting.....

I would personally if I were interested in a Scorpio, take the reigns and call the shots. I'd let him know I expect him to take me out and do the right thing. If he has nothing to hide he would agree....if he were put off then he is hiding something.

If your interested in him show some courage...ask him on a date let him pick the place and make sure he pays

Good Luck in whatever you decide to do.

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TR2009
Newflake

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From: Annapolis, MD,USA
Registered: Aug 2013

posted October 13, 2015 08:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for TR2009     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
We work in the same place but in different departments. He would walk past mine when he went out or a smoke an that's when he started to notice me. He comes over to my department to talk when he goes on break or whenever he has a free moment, whenever he does he always says he loves my perfume. If any of that info is helpful. I have a little bit of a good feeling about him but him asking about sex so soon I thought was a Scorpio thing being so sexual. I have seen him twice since we talked on the phone an he hasn't said anything sexual outside of just compliments like calling me beautiful and leaning in to smell my perfume.

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TR2009
Newflake

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From: Annapolis, MD,USA
Registered: Aug 2013

posted October 13, 2015 08:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for TR2009     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by gypsywander:
Don't get involved with this man. He seems unstable and is trying to get with you. The way he comes off seems very stalkerish and almost domineering/controlling... unless that's what you want.

The vibe that I got initially was that if you eventually do agree to do a relationship with him, and then eventually sex, he'll dump you after.

Stay as friends. Work relationships are very hard to deal with and most people don't want to mix the two. The fact that he said "I have my eye on you" gave me the creeps.



I pretty sure he said that because he would talk pass me, stare an I would just smile. It took him months to approach me when I was leaving the building.

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