posted October 15, 2015 03:06 PM            

As you may have read, yesterday was my birthday and i had come down with a migraine. i still have one but just took some heavy dose of medication for it which leaves me drowsy. my friend CP invited me over to his place for a get together and its a far travel. it was a nice time and towards the end i felt very tired from drinking and the meds.... he said he didnt want me to stay over and i ran out without a word. i was furious and highly upset. it took me 2 hours to get home and it was cold and i was woosy... he texts me today asking if i am mad at him and then sticks the knife in some more saying i never invited you to stay over.

can someone please exchange with me as i want to know why he -who supposedly wants to be with me and is falling in love with me- would treat me so coldly.
thankyou<3

posted October 15, 2015 03:44 PM            

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Originally posted by midnightcatqueen:
why he -who supposedly wants to be with me and is falling in love with me- would treat me so coldly.

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I will do your reading tomorrow. Take a rest and sleep.

posted October 16, 2015 02:53 AM            

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Originally posted by midnightcatqueen:
why he -who supposedly wants to be with me and is falling in love with me- would treat me so coldly.

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ISA --C The Ice Rune
PERTH - The Rune of Chance, Mystery and Science
Your love is growing he showed respect on this day. You were sick and drunk and he did not want to take advantage of this situation.

I am not familiar with Tarot, but I want to improve it:
4 of sw – 8 of pents – queen of cups
As you were sick on this day and you work together he treated you like a queen on this day, a very emotional queen.

posted October 16, 2015 03:46 PM            

i was kicked out at 1am in the cold, super drowsy and slightly tipsy and i had just ordered food and barely got to eat it. i think it was very rude of him to do that not at all respectful. there was a point in time where i would stay over and he would let me stay even when he was gone and gave me house keys all the time.

but for him to do this on my birthday means something and i dont know what because it doesnt sound like respect to me.

but what is your question for me geminikarat? thanks for the reading though!

i still need a more detailed reading.
can anyone else help and ill gladly exchange?

posted October 16, 2015 03:52 PM            

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Originally posted by midnightcatqueen:
Hmm, i don't know how well that resonates with us. we have been together plenty of times before like this and it was never a problem. hes not going to get away with anything i dont want and that nite i wanted him. even for just sleeping next to him as the nicest birthday gift.

i was kicked out at 1am in the cold, super drowsy and slightly tipsy and i had just ordered food and barely got to eat it. i think it was very rude of him to do that not at all respectful. there was a point in time where i would stay over and he would let me stay even when he was gone and gave me house keys all the time.

but for him to do this on my birthday means something and i dont know what because it doesnt sound like respect to me.

but what is your question for me geminikarat? thanks for the reading though!

i still need a more detailed reading.
can anyone else help and ill gladly exchange?

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I just have a question... when you were over at his house before and he gave you his keys... did you two work then? I'm wondering if it's because you two technically work together now that he feels uncomfortable having you at his house so he doesn't get fired from the project or something. That's the vibe I'm getting. Maybe he doesn't want to mess up his creative partnership if he did let you over, you know potential rumors, etc.

posted October 16, 2015 04:00 PM            

ill admit it was dumb of me to think i would stay over just because it was my birthday..
but i was just expecting he would recognize i felt physically ill and live so far away and wouldn't kick me out.

posted October 16, 2015 04:26 PM            

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Originally posted by midnightcatqueen:
well we still work together... its not like a real job or anything. we've always worked together since we started seeing each other.

ill admit it was dumb of me to think i would stay over just because it was my birthday..
but i was just expecting he would recognize i felt physically ill and live so far away and wouldn't kick me out.

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MidnightcatQueen,

Is this the same guy you asked me to do the reading about?

I'm not sure if the reading I did for you resonates if it is the same guy.

I'm not sure you want another reading but if you ever do let me know.

Sorry this happened to you. Happy belated Birthday too xx

posted October 16, 2015 04:26 PM            

The Empress - Love - Justice - The Hierophant - The Highest Priestess -The chariot - The hanged man

To be honest.. I pulled these cards an it's not making any sense to me. It seems that it's talking about you and that you want to find out the truth but the hanged man says that you need to look at this in a different way because to him it could be that he just thought that it wasn't a good idea but you not looking at it like that, you thinking of some other reason of why he done this.

So I'm gonna pull 3 more cards to see if i can figure this out.

Justice - Judgement - The hanged man

posted October 16, 2015 04:28 PM            

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Originally posted by midnightcatqueen:
well we still work together... its not like a real job or anything. we've always worked together since we started seeing each other.

ill admit it was dumb of me to think i would stay over just because it was my birthday..
but i was just expecting he would recognize i felt physically ill and live so far away and wouldn't kick me out.

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Did he know you were feeling ill? Maybe he was just clueless that you were thinking, or feeling that way.

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“So whatever you wish that others would do to you, do also to them, for this is the Law and the Prophets."

Tarot Readings by Me

posted October 16, 2015 04:29 PM            

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Originally posted by ILovePoems:
Here's a reading, I'm pulling 7.

The Empress - Love - Justice - The Hierophant - The Highest Priestess -The chariot - The hanged man

To be honest.. I pulled these cards an it's not making any sense to me. It seems that it's talking about you and that you want to find out the truth but the hanged man says that you need to look at this in a different way because to him it could be that he just thought that it wasn't a good idea but you not looking at it like that, you thinking of some other reason of why he done this.

So I'm gonna pull 3 more cards to see if i can figure this out.

Justice - Judgement - The hanged man

With the justice here, I think he wanted to be fair an wanted to treat you fair. I think he had a "good" reason of why he done this to you. With the judgement here, I think he had to make a decision on if you should stay or go an I guess he didn't want you to stay, but he had to choose what was best for the both of you. Again with the decisions, I just think that CP was trying to do what was right. I think CP wanted you to stay but know that he had to make that sacrifice an just didn't let that happen. So it was not because he doesn't like you or that he was being cruel or rude an I know it seem that way but I think because he thought it wasn't a good idea.

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posted October 16, 2015 04:32 PM            

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Originally posted by Heartsong11:
MidnightcatQueen,

Is this the same guy you asked me to do the reading about?

I'm not sure if the reading I did for you resonates if it is the same guy.

I'm not sure you want another reading but if you ever do let me know.

Sorry this happened to you. Happy belated Birthday too xx

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If you mean MP then no...thats my mother i speak of. i dont know your reading did resonate but i dunno if id actually be happy having her in my life for i never have been.
Maybe things will look up if i do but i seriously highly doubt it.

thankyou so much!

posted October 16, 2015 04:36 PM            

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Originally posted by EmpressMendez:
Did he know you were feeling ill? Maybe he was just clueless that you were thinking, or feeling that way.

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Oh yeah he knew before I came over. I told him when I was there too. Told him how the meds were making me really groggy.

I just cant understand how someone knows about this and feels comfortable in knowing this person is feeling sick on their birthday and sends them home where its so far and so late at nite all by themselves like its nothing to be a woman going home dressed nicely. especially where i live.

posted October 16, 2015 04:40 PM            

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Originally posted by ILovePoems:
Here's a reading, I'm pulling 7.

The Empress - Love - Justice - The Hierophant - The Highest Priestess -The chariot - The hanged man

To be honest.. I pulled these cards an it's not making any sense to me. It seems that it's talking about you and that you want to find out the truth but the hanged man says that you need to look at this in a different way because to him it could be that he just thought that it wasn't a good idea but you not looking at it like that, you thinking of some other reason of why he done this.

So I'm gonna pull 3 more cards to see if i can figure this out.

Justice - Judgement - The hanged man

With the justice here, I think he wanted to be fair an wanted to treat you fair. I think he had a "good" reason of why he done this to you. With the judgement here, I think he had to make a decision on if you should stay or go an I guess he didn't want you to stay, but he had to choose what was best for the both of you. Again with the decisions, I just think that CP was trying to do what was right. I think CP wanted you to stay but know that he had to make that sacrifice an just didn't let that happen. So it was not because he doesn't like you or that he was being cruel or rude an I know it seem that way but I think because he thought it wasn't a good idea.

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And all i can think to that is.... id like to choke him. i guess id like to know what makes him think it was a good idea because there really is no good in that. id feel awful if a friend of mine was ill and send them home on their birthday.

thank you ilovepoems.
very thoughtful. <3

posted October 16, 2015 04:46 PM            

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Originally posted by midnightcatqueen:

Oh yeah he knew before I came over. I told him when I was there too. Told him how the meds were making me really groggy.

I just cant understand how someone knows about this and feels comfortable in knowing this person is feeling sick on their birthday and sends them home where its so far and so late at nite all by themselves like its nothing to be a woman going home dressed nicely. especially where i live.

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I agree with you - it was rude of him. I'm sorry that you had to go through that!

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“So whatever you wish that others would do to you, do also to them, for this is the Law and the Prophets."

Tarot Readings by Me

posted October 16, 2015 04:54 PM            

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Originally posted by EmpressMendez:
I agree with you - it was rude of him. I'm sorry that you had to go through that!

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Thankyou! I glad someone understands! im just done thinking my birthdays are worth celebrating if i get treated this way. i think my bdays are bad luck personally.

posted October 16, 2015 04:56 PM            

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Originally posted by ILovePoems:
Wow I feel smarter xD I never actually went on like that before.

But anyway I hope I helped a little because it seemed that he care about you.. but in that way it didn't seem like it but he was just being honest with himself an just treating you both fair.

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yeah i know he cares but its done in a zig zag way and it drives me up the wall. hes such a leo/virgo... grrr.

do you have a question for me as i promised an exchange in return for these readings.

posted October 16, 2015 05:06 PM            

will we both become a couple still?

posted October 16, 2015 05:18 PM            

With you two, I get that there will be a new beginning. Leave the past behind because there will be a transformation that will be even better than before. I even think that this will be positive for the both of you. The 10 of cups talks about love, hope, and dreams. I think you two will get what you want. I think this card focuses on relationships and family, but it's mostly about having happiness. I also think that things will run smoothly in a relationship. And the judgement, it could mean that you two will have wonderful things coming your way. Things will improve for the both of you. This is short but I think it at least answer one of your questions.

posted October 16, 2015 05:30 PM            

Cards: The World, 6 of Cups
Queen of Pentacles, Page of Cups
3 of Swords, Knight of Swords

Hmmm, The Queen is the center card and represents the objective truth of the situation - not your side or his side, but reality. I think the Queen represents you and might be suggesting that you are closing yourself off to his perspective. Pentacles for me are deep, serious, and slow - you mentioned you felt very hurt by what he did and I think this card is showing that you are unwilling to see his perspective because you feel that, logically, if he cared about you he wouldn't treat you that way - end of story. You are digging your heels in, so to speak, because you feel very justified in your anger/feelings. You are not ready or willing to open yourself up to CP's or any other alternate view of things.

I pulled the World to represent how he feels. I would go out on a limb here and say that I don't think he realizes he hurt you as much as he did. This card suggests that he has very positive feelings toward you - there is a sense of fulfillment and gratification that he gets from your relationship and possibly sees you as someone he wants to have a long-term relationship with. I don't think his actions had any malice behind them.

6 of Cups as your feelings. I think you're feeling a little bittersweet about things right now - you might be focusing on how good things were in the past and, because you are hurt, are in a sense longing for the times when things were easier between you both. You are focusing and comparing this situation to his actions in the past rather than looking at the present moment or circumstances.

3 of Swords is what you need to understand about the situation - the insight you need. This card is reinforcing the abandoned/hurt feelings you have right now, but is also warning you that you might be causing more pain to yourself or even to others involved. I see this card as asking you to accept that you are hurt, but not to become too absorbed in your feelings that you can't let go and learn from this. I think it's also asking you to look at how you might have contributed to your own pain - sometimes if we obsess or assume things about others we just fall more deeply into our sorrow instead of recognizing how we are making the situation worse with these negative thoughts.

Your advice card is the Knight of Swords - I would take this to mean that you need to move forward rationally and with a clear head. I think the Knight is telling you that you need to initiate a conversation with CP relatively soon while this is still fresh, but be sure to be straight forward and not let your emotions fuel the conversation. Be objective and be direct with him so he understands where you are coming from and also try to push your emotions aside so you can see his side of the story.

I pulled a final outcome card based on the advice card given and it was the Page of Cups - so it is positive depending on your expectations of this relationship. Your relationship will return to the light, casual romance it was (which is what I believe you want based on the 6 of Cups), though it might take time to blossom into a more mature, substantial romance. Perhaps one or both of you are not really ready to take this to a more serious level right now - the desire and emotions might be there, but maybe the experience is not.

posted October 17, 2015 12:46 PM            

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Originally posted by ILovePoems:
Death - 10 of cups - Judgement

With you two, I get that there will be a new beginning. Leave the past behind because there will be a transformation that will be even better than before. I even think that this will be positive for the both of you. The 10 of cups talks about love, hope, and dreams. I think you two will get what you want. I think this card focuses on relationships and family, but it's mostly about having happiness. I also think that things will run smoothly in a relationship. And the judgement, it could mean that you two will have wonderful things coming your way. Things will improve for the both of you. This is short but I think it at least answer one of your questions.

No exchange until I think of a question. xD

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gah...i still cant see what makes him think he was treating me fair.

thank you again ilovepoems!

posted October 17, 2015 12:48 PM            

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Originally posted by FmVenusWLove:
Hey Midnight,
Happy belated I've been practicing with the Tarot for a little over a month now. I'm interested in trying to read for strangers, so I hope you don't mind but I took a stab at your question. I modified a general 5-card spread to try to more closely reflect the situation and pulled an outcome card just to see what possibilities lie ahead.

Cards: The World, 6 of Cups
Queen of Pentacles, Page of Cups
3 of Swords, Knight of Swords

Hmmm, The Queen is the center card and represents the objective truth of the situation - not your side or his side, but reality. I think the Queen represents you and might be suggesting that you are closing yourself off to his perspective. Pentacles for me are deep, serious, and slow - you mentioned you felt very hurt by what he did and I think this card is showing that you are unwilling to see his perspective because you feel that, logically, if he cared about you he wouldn't treat you that way - end of story. You are digging your heels in, so to speak, because you feel very justified in your anger/feelings. You are not ready or willing to open yourself up to CP's or any other alternate view of things.

I pulled the World to represent how he feels. I would go out on a limb here and say that I don't think he realizes he hurt you as much as he did. This card suggests that he has very positive feelings toward you - there is a sense of fulfillment and gratification that he gets from your relationship and possibly sees you as someone he wants to have a long-term relationship with. I don't think his actions had any malice behind them.

6 of Cups as your feelings. I think you're feeling a little bittersweet about things right now - you might be focusing on how good things were in the past and, because you are hurt, are in a sense longing for the times when things were easier between you both. You are focusing and comparing this situation to his actions in the past rather than looking at the present moment or circumstances.

3 of Swords is what you need to understand about the situation - the insight you need. This card is reinforcing the abandoned/hurt feelings you have right now, but is also warning you that you might be causing more pain to yourself or even to others involved. I see this card as asking you to accept that you are hurt, but not to become too absorbed in your feelings that you can't let go and learn from this. I think it's also asking you to look at how you might have contributed to your own pain - sometimes if we obsess or assume things about others we just fall more deeply into our sorrow instead of recognizing how we are making the situation worse with these negative thoughts.

Your advice card is the Knight of Swords - I would take this to mean that you need to move forward rationally and with a clear head. I think the Knight is telling you that you need to initiate a conversation with CP relatively soon while this is still fresh, but be sure to be straight forward and not let your emotions fuel the conversation. Be objective and be direct with him so he understands where you are coming from and also try to push your emotions aside so you can see his side of the story.

I pulled a final outcome card based on the advice card given and it was the Page of Cups - so it is positive depending on your expectations of this relationship. Your relationship will return to the light, casual romance it was (which is what I believe you want based on the 6 of Cups), though it might take time to blossom into a more mature, substantial romance. Perhaps one or both of you are not really ready to take this to a more serious level right now - the desire and emotions might be there, but maybe the experience is not.

Let me know if any of this resonates. I really hope things work out for you

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sigh, you took my breath away!
for a beginner you are really good.
that reading really resonates and i will have to chat with him... im afraid of pouring out my feelings and telling him how much i want him. he is still fronting on his feelings for me so much its so painful to watch... and i dont want to be rejected again.

but thank you so so much!

what is your question for me as an exchange?

posted October 17, 2015 01:44 PM            

Yea I understand. The beginning can be tough/even awkward because it's a guessing game as to whether or not you are on the same page - and boys are usually confusing, haha.

I think as long as you approach him rationally and with a cool head (Knight of Swords) the conversation will be beneficial. If anything, at least you'll know where you both stand.

posted October 17, 2015 05:54 PM            

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Originally posted by FmVenusWLove:
@midnightcatqueen Aw, thank you! I'm so glad it resonated with you.

Yea I understand. The beginning can be tough/even awkward because it's a guessing game as to whether or not you are on the same page - and boys are usually confusing, haha.

I think as long as you approach him rationally and with a cool head (Knight of Swords) the conversation will be beneficial. If anything, at least you'll know where you both stand.

Good luck!! No need for an exchange - I don't have any pressing questions at the moment I'm also still waiting for the second part of your reading to unfold - I'll update you soon

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Thank you hun! <3