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posted October 24, 2015 09:13 AM            

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I had several readings about Brandon, someone who I was talking to and getting to know and I knew he had some crazy things going on in his life. And he was honest about not wanting a relationship, which everyone was able to pick up on. I had a reading with AV last Thursday evening to see if I would see Brandon Friday like planned since he was supposed to come over for the weekend. She saw it happening. My question is, does anyone ever pick up on this sort of thing? I got a call at 2 am Friday that he hung himself, his 14 year old son wasn't there and his mom found him. He didn't make it and I have been crying off and on all week about this. I'm close friends with his sister as well. Now I understand if someone wants to do it, there's no stopping them. I'm sad more than anything that NO ONE close to him saw anything or suspected anything. I'm trying to find my closure to all of this and to be able to help his sister heal as well but it's hard to do. Thanks for letting me vent....

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posted October 24, 2015 09:26 AM            

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I honestly wouldn't hold AV accountable for such a thing. The only one to be held accountable is Brandon. It may have been something he decided to do in that moment. We all have choices in life and some things are not predictable. It seems he was a deeply troubled person and if he gave no hint of wanting to take his own life to you or anyway else that was close to him how would you expect a tarot card reader to pick up on it. Please remember, a reading is merely a guide but shouldn't be taken as the definite concrete truth. As all things, life is unpredictable. I am very sorry for your loss and I'm sure this is not an easy thing to take. But I think maybe you are looking to blame someone for not seeing it. You can't do that. The only one to blame in a sense is Brandon. Suicide is never the solution and the ones left behind are the ones left with the pain and struggle. I will keep you in my thoughts and pray for you. Again, I'm sorry for your loss.

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posted October 24, 2015 11:22 AM            

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I don't recall saying AV was accountable for any of it... so not exactly sure where you got that ffrom. AV is a fantastic reader and 1 I will go back to without hesitation because she is accurate. Just merely voicing something that had crossed my mind. Yes Brandon is the only one responsible for his choices.

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posted October 24, 2015 11:31 AM            

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If someone commits suicide we don't "blame" them, or "hold them accountable", period. Blame shouldn't even be a word used in this instance. Second, I don't think Dustib was upset AV didn't see it, they are simply asking why it didn't show up in the cards they received their reading. Third, Dustib, I am so so sorry for your loss. It really is tragic and I hope you're able to mourn and heal properly. Like FairyDust pointed out the cards are a guide and we can only see so much. How they're read is dependent on the mind and intuition of every reader individually. Most readers (as an unspoken code) won't predict death in the cards either.

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posted October 24, 2015 03:03 PM            

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I am sorry I think I may have misread what you meant in your original post. I really am sorry for your loss and I'm sure you must be very confused and upset as to his actions. Perhaps AV didn't pick it up because it was blocked from her. Have you thought about calling her to tell her what happened?

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posted October 24, 2015 05:23 PM            

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I have emailed her and she was as shocked as I was with the news. She did pick up on everything he had going on and his depression. I have felt like he didn't mean to end his life but that could be wishful thinking. I just hope he's at peace now

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posted October 24, 2015 09:00 PM            

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Terrible thing...ahh, such tragedy.
how does your transits look like now? Any Node to Mars transits?

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posted October 25, 2015 12:56 PM            

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Orange...no idea what that even means.

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