posted November 01, 2015 04:50 AM            

Queen of wands,your a beautiful attractive woman, even if you don't know it. Some guys might see you as too hot to handle.

3 of cups rx, I think you were in a love sitaution you just got out of that really hurt you.

posted November 01, 2015 12:05 PM            

I posed the question a little bit differently and would like a reading on the same question for myself.

How can beegrateful attract a mutually loving relationship?

What you already know: Ace of Cups/3 of Cups Reversed -- Hierophant/Ace of Wands Reversed -- Devil/8 of Cups Reversed

On many levels you feel ready to start a new relationship but you are held back by a lack of faith in your ability to succeed. You are very traditional, stable and committed when it comes to relationships and will make a good partner. It's possible you are too guarded with men in general. You will benefit from embracing your passion, finding your joy in life and letting your light shine. It is likely events from the past are screwing with your self image and limiting your ability to attract the right kind of guy, giving them the appropriate signals to pursue you. Dealing with your own inner demons, including walking away from enmeshments of the past even if they are only internal, will help to remove any blocks.

I think you have done a lot of work and are ready to embrace a true loving partnership but fear still hampers you. It's easier to isolate than to risk vulnerability. This kind of thinking can come across through unspoken communication. (2 of Cups/Hermit Reversed)

What you are unaware of: (10 of Pentacles/5 of Swords Reversed -- 2 of Wands/Knight of Pentacles -- 7 of Swords/King of Cups Reversed)

You have the ability to be a mature, loving and supportive partner though past partners may have challenged this reality, cheating you out of this truth. You need to own it! I see you as ready and waiting for your opportunity to partner, working on staying balanced in the meanwhile. It appears as though there is someone you know that is aware of this though he is taking his sweet time to make sure all is in order before making his move. It may be that your worry over the possibility of losing again, of being unsuccessful, inhibits progression here and keeps a loving, compassionate and faithful man from manifesting / taking action. I think it scares him. I think he is connected to the Knight of Pentacles and this extends his need for delay.

Do not be directionless. Know what you want and go after it. Let the dark side and the light side work together. (I think this goes back to the Devil above) You cannot reach your destination by osmosis, you must work toward your goal. Then your knight in shining armor will take action. (Chariot Reversed / Knight of Cups)

Let me know if any of this resonates for you. I hope it's true and wish you the best.

posted November 07, 2015 02:48 AM            

It is this revolving door because you fear rejection, so you close off energetically- not really allowing people to feel comfortable approaching you, but then because they don't approach you, you feel insecure.

The word I keep getting is "allow".