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luckystar25 Newflake Posts: 20 From: Boston ma Registered: Oct 2015
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posted November 01, 2015 04:15 PM
Me and my friend were really close when we moved in, lately I've been getting bad vibes from her, she is almost acting superior and arrogant and last night was being very rude to me for no reason. I dont like the elephant in the room I want to talk to her aboutvthis What is her problem? How do I approach this situation? IP: Logged |
MinceyMouse Knowflake Posts: 2534 From: Registered: Jan 2014
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posted November 01, 2015 04:30 PM
Would you like to exchange with me?IP: Logged |
luckystar25 Newflake Posts: 20 From: Boston ma Registered: Oct 2015
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posted November 01, 2015 04:34 PM
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MinceyMouse Knowflake Posts: 2534 From: Registered: Jan 2014
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posted November 01, 2015 04:39 PM
my question is what type of response will I receive from Mr. SDF about my application to his team?IP: Logged |
luckystar25 Newflake Posts: 20 From: Boston ma Registered: Oct 2015
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posted November 01, 2015 04:48 PM
quote: Originally posted by MinceyMouse: my question is what type of response will I receive from Mr. SDF about my application to his team?
A very positive response and I feel you will be accepted. I also feel that they think you are more qualified than the position your going for and will offer you one better, I also see some sort of extra credit/advancement
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athenegoddess Knowflake Posts: 5234 From: Registered: Aug 2011
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posted November 01, 2015 04:52 PM
Do you have another Q?My Q is last night I had a dream about C writing me a message and it said something like I need to behave or else when he comes to LA next year he isn't going to do what he planned for me. Can you ask if that was him consciously doing that? IP: Logged |
MinceyMouse Knowflake Posts: 2534 From: Registered: Jan 2014
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posted November 01, 2015 04:53 PM
What is her problem?vii of pents, viii of pents, queen of cups, rx The first two cards indicate that there is no problem in her mind about you.. in fact, those cards are about harmony and generosity. I really don't think she has a problem with you at all. Yet with the last card, it shows that she's emotionally hurt by something. I would venture to guess that her hurt emotions and insecurity (probably because of an ex) is causing her to lash out at anyone around her.. turning her slightly malicious. All the cards also point out to being generally lonely and being left to her own devices.. go out with her, or get a meal together. She's really lonely and needs someone to talk to right now. How do you approach this situation? v of wands, iv of wands/rx, queen of pentacles You should have an open conversation outside the home.. a neutral place. There will be a bit of a disagreement, but as you've already realised, it does have to reach her. As for the location- the cards are explicit about it not being at home or it will lead to some unintended consequences (i.e. she walking out). When talking to her, also see things from her perspective, and be empathetic to it. Give advice only if she asks for it or risk offending her- and she trusts you to be honest. Hope this resonates.
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luckystar25 Newflake Posts: 20 From: Boston ma Registered: Oct 2015
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posted November 01, 2015 04:53 PM
Attend if you wouldn't mind answering the same question...I don't like this situation at all I need all the advice I can getIP: Logged |
MinceyMouse Knowflake Posts: 2534 From: Registered: Jan 2014
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posted November 01, 2015 04:54 PM
quote: Originally posted by luckystar25: A very positive response and I feel you will be accepted. I also feel that they think you are more qualified than the position your going for and will offer you one better, I also see some sort of extra credit/advancement
When do you think I'll hear from him? IP: Logged |
luckystar25 Newflake Posts: 20 From: Boston ma Registered: Oct 2015
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posted November 01, 2015 04:58 PM
quote: Originally posted by MinceyMouse: What is her problem?vii of pents, viii of pents, queen of cups, rx The first two cards indicate that there is no problem in her mind about you.. in fact, those cards are about harmony and generosity. I really don't think she has a problem with you at all. Yet with the last card, it shows that she's emotionally hurt by something. I would venture to guess that her hurt emotions and insecurity (probably because of an ex) is causing her to lash out at anyone around her.. turning her slightly malicious. All the cards also point out to being generally lonely and being left to her own devices.. go out with her, or get a meal together. She's really lonely and needs someone to talk to right now. How do you approach this situation? v of wands, iv of wands/rx, queen of pentacles You should have an open conversation outside the home.. a neutral place. There will be a bit of a disagreement, but as you've already realised, it does have to reach her. As for the location- the cards are explicit about it not being at home or it will lead to some unintended consequences (i.e. she walking out). When talking to her, also see things from her perspective, and be empathetic to it. Give advice only if she asks for it or risk offending her- and she trusts you to be honest. Hope this resonates.
Her boyfriend she met in may she married last month really quickly even tho there's nothing but arguments and drama caused by her mostly between them. Tbeyr attached at the hip. She also got custody back of her kid and tries to make him stay home and baby sit ... He argues... So she stays home yet sits there and tries to make me feel bad that I go out and says things like "I'd rather stay home that go out and party and be alone" umm you try to run to party but are forced to stay in, so why try to Make me feel bad?
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luckystar25 Newflake Posts: 20 From: Boston ma Registered: Oct 2015
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posted November 01, 2015 04:59 PM
quote: Originally posted by MinceyMouse: When do you think I'll hear from him?
Tomorrow IP: Logged |
MinceyMouse Knowflake Posts: 2534 From: Registered: Jan 2014
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posted November 01, 2015 05:00 PM
It's basically how some people operate.. which is unfortunate. It's a 'I'm miserable, and I want to spread my misery' type of feeling which is all too common. IP: Logged |
luckystar25 Newflake Posts: 20 From: Boston ma Registered: Oct 2015
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posted November 01, 2015 05:01 PM
quote: Originally posted by athenegoddess: Do you have another Q?My Q is last night I had a dream about C writing me a message and it said something like I need to behave or else when he comes to LA next year he isn't going to do what he planned for me. Can you ask if that was him consciously doing that?
I feel it was your guides coming to you as him due to the fact that you trust the connection you have with him/value him
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luckystar25 Newflake Posts: 20 From: Boston ma Registered: Oct 2015
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posted November 01, 2015 05:02 PM
quote: Originally posted by MinceyMouse: It's basically how some people operate.. which is unfortunate. It's a 'I'm miserable, and I want to spread my misery' type of feeling which is all too common.
How do I deal with this?
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athenegoddess Knowflake Posts: 5234 From: Registered: Aug 2011
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posted November 01, 2015 05:03 PM
I think she is wanting maybe to move on from you. I think that its possible she no longer wants to live with you. For some reason she wants a new start. But you can talk to her and things will get better if you reach out.IP: Logged |
athenegoddess Knowflake Posts: 5234 From: Registered: Aug 2011
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posted November 01, 2015 05:04 PM
quote: Originally posted by luckystar25: I feel it was your guides coming to you as him due to the fact that you trust the connection you have with him/value him
It wasn't my guides.
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MinceyMouse Knowflake Posts: 2534 From: Registered: Jan 2014
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posted November 01, 2015 05:09 PM
You talk to her outside the house. Even if she says she's busy, just say you want to and tell her she can't treat you that way every time she's feeling low. That was what the cards said.
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luckystar25 Newflake Posts: 20 From: Boston ma Registered: Oct 2015
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posted November 01, 2015 05:11 PM
quote: Originally posted by MinceyMouse: You talk to her outside the house. Even if she says she's busy, just say you want to and tell her she can't treat you that way every time she's feeling low. That was what the cards said.
Thank you
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luckystar25 Newflake Posts: 20 From: Boston ma Registered: Oct 2015
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posted November 01, 2015 05:18 PM
Mincey mouse one more? I feel stuck in my love life, iv decided to focus within and on me and now its just nonexsistant... Help looIP: Logged |
luckystar25 Newflake Posts: 20 From: Boston ma Registered: Oct 2015
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posted November 01, 2015 05:23 PM
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MinceyMouse Knowflake Posts: 2534 From: Registered: Jan 2014
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posted November 01, 2015 05:28 PM
I'm in that same situation tbh. Sure- my question is what B thinks and feels for me after what I did last night. IP: Logged |
MinceyMouse Knowflake Posts: 2534 From: Registered: Jan 2014
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posted November 01, 2015 05:34 PM
What should you do to get a love life?the emperor, rx - viii of swords, rx- iv of pent, rx Give in to your feelings and throw caution to the wind and take risks. Pessimism is also taking a toll on you, so check your negative thoughts and realise most of what unfolds in your mind is not the reality. Also, be less arrogant.. (sorry! the emp, rx and the iv of pents, rx are both cards of arrogance).. so being a bit more humble with the opposite sex could help you. That's all the advice I can get from my cards.. Hope it resonates.
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luckystar25 Newflake Posts: 20 From: Boston ma Registered: Oct 2015
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posted November 01, 2015 05:49 PM
quote: Originally posted by MinceyMouse: I'm in that same situation tbh. Sure- my question is what B thinks and feels for me after what I did last night.
He seems magnatized to you, I wanted to say hynotized but more like infatuated and nothing but positive and sensual feelings for you.. As I said iv been focusing within .. But I was wondering what R's current feelings for me are? IP: Logged |
MinceyMouse Knowflake Posts: 2534 From: Registered: Jan 2014
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posted November 01, 2015 06:03 PM
iii of wands, queen of pents/rx, the sunLoads of infatuation, but not ready for commitment. Just something very casual and friends based. The sun in my deck almost always means a commitment phobe. IP: Logged |
luckystar25 Newflake Posts: 20 From: Boston ma Registered: Oct 2015
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posted November 01, 2015 06:05 PM
quote: Originally posted by MinceyMouse: iii of wands, queen of pents/rx, the sunLoads of infatuation, but not ready for commitment. Just something very casual and friends based. The sun in my deck almost always means a commitment phobe.
Yup you are 100% right!!! He's a manwhore...I stopped even waiting around and always thinking about him. I can't wait around... So I've focused within and hope for a good man
His commitment phobia will never change right
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