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Topic: Should I continue my friendship with her?
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NYCdodger
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posted November 27, 2015 01:36 PM
  
I really don't want to get into detail..ok i will anyway. But lets just say I know an acquaintance who is in a relationship, yet still wants to have sexual relations with me. She is a GREAT person and I have a lot of respect for her. We met about a month ago and she told me that she feels like I have entered her life for a good reason, and that she knew i would be in her life for a long time. But on that same night she told me that she "wanted" me sexually, but felt like (because of her rocky relationship with her boyfriend she's trying to fix) she couldn't have me. But of course we still stayed together most of the night, kissing, cuddling etc... After taking her home I began to feel a little awkward and now I'm not sure if i should continue associating myself with her, or if I should just leave her alone. The attraction between us is very "obvious", and i also think at same time she is meant to be a very great friend of mine. But at the same time, for some odd reason, I just feel uncomfortable. Not sure if its me, or her. IP: Logged |
MinceyMouse
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posted November 27, 2015 01:39 PM
Comfort and trust is extremely important when building a relationship, so best thing would be to leave it. Shuffling cards. wait 10-15 mins Page of swords, viii of cups/rx, king of cups Card one- use your mind, and be prudent about this person. Take the conservative approach. Cards two- if you go into a relationship with her, the love will not be balanced and there will be constant dissatisfaction in love. It feels like a roller coaster- constantly. Other parties will be involved too. Card three- you can always be a friend to her, but she will break you if you get into the rabbit hole with her. King of cups is a person who is easily hurt, but loves with all his/her heart. Be wise. The king is also on his own. IP: Logged |
NYCdodger
Knowflake Posts: 1373
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posted November 27, 2015 02:04 PM
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Originally posted by MinceyMouse:
Comfort and trust is extremely important when building a relationship, so best thing would be to leave it. Shuffling cards. wait 10-15 mins Page of swords, viii of cups/rx, king of cups Card one- use your mind, and be prudent about this person. Take the conservative approach. Cards two- if you go into a relationship with her, the love will not be balanced and there will be constant dissatisfaction in love. It feels like a roller coaster- constantly. Other parties will be involved too. Card three- you can always be a friend to her, but she will break you if you get into the rabbit hole with her. King of cups is a person who is easily hurt, but loves with all his/her heart. Be wise. The king is also on his own.
Do you mind explaining card 2 and 3 a little more? I don't seek to be in a relationship with her at all. I don't like getting involved with people who are involved with others. Sex is one thing, but trying to build something else is another. Let me explain. I don't just go around having sex with females in relationships. Im just saying I don't like being in "relationships" with women. I prefer getting to know people and simply being loyal to them. And thank you ! IP: Logged |
MinceyMouse
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posted November 27, 2015 02:30 PM
card 2 is you walking away from being a friend/boyfriend to her.  My deck depicts 8 cups which have been tipped over and their contents spilt. This shows being in a bad emotional state to me, and also means that there will be other 'cups' (people) involved all the time... only IF you chose to be with her (friend or relationship.. this distinction doesn't change the outcome). card 3 is you on your own.
Just that you are on your own here. It is in the future position, and she isn't there in the card. You can be a friend to her, but that means getting hurt. Hope this clarifies things better. IP: Logged |
NYCdodger
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posted November 27, 2015 02:45 PM
Ok. Im going to cut the ties. I wanted to make sense of it first which is why I asked.Its like, she's a great person to talk and open up to, but something was very OFF the other night. It made me just want to leave and take her home (even though when I asked her several times, she said she wanted to stay) Do you think you can explain why i felt the way i felt? Was it clairvoyance? And how would me even being just friends with her make me end up becoming hurt? I really hope I'm not bothering you with these questions..Thanks again! IP: Logged |
MinceyMouse
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posted November 27, 2015 02:54 PM
Not sure tbh. I can't do that sort of reading.I think the cards indicate that you wont be able to separate the sex and romantic feelings when it comes to her. There is no distinction in the cards, which surprised me. The king of cups is someone emotional and blurs the lines, so I assumed you will become the king of cups when involved with her. IP: Logged |
NYCdodger
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posted November 27, 2015 02:59 PM
Ok. I understand now  IP: Logged |
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