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athenegoddess
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posted December 01, 2015 07:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for athenegoddess     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Anyone want to exchange right now?


My Q is he ever going to stop?

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posted December 01, 2015 07:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Orange     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
are u talking about your ex? what is he doing? Messing your life by being passive- aggressive?

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posted December 01, 2015 07:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for athenegoddess     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
He never was my bf. Yes he is being passive aggressive.

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posted December 01, 2015 07:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Orange     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
who is he? tell me, girl

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posted December 01, 2015 07:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for athenegoddess     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
A guy I met at a spiritual event in 2013. He owns the business I went there and ever since he has been literally stalking me/remote viewing me spiritually and will not go away.

I can show you his pic too if you want to see if you can pick up anything.

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posted December 01, 2015 07:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Orange     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
stalking spiritually? Maybe because your mind has invited him

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posted December 01, 2015 07:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for athenegoddess     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I didn't. He enters my mind and tries to overpower me and will not leave me no matter what I do or say.


He astral projects his mind into my life. He attached astral cords to me in my third eye and my sacral chakra so I am forced to feel his sexual arousals constantly and he watches me naked in the shower uninvited and its basically rape what he is doing.

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posted December 01, 2015 07:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Orange     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hhmmm

wish I can draw cards for that question but somehow I cannot connect with that guy. It's like he is blocked up or something

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posted December 01, 2015 07:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for athenegoddess     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yeah most likely as he watches everything I am typing right now.

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posted December 01, 2015 07:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Orange     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I cannot even get myself to draw a card

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posted December 01, 2015 07:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for athenegoddess     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Why is it useless?


Can you even see what I can do to stop this? I try praying and asking for protection.

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posted December 01, 2015 07:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Orange     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
what can you do to stop this:

I got

woman- heart - house

you need the help of a woman, either in your house or in his house. Do you have a grandma that loved you? Or another woman at home?
If not, than maybe a woman , even a lover, that is in his house/of worship.

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posted December 01, 2015 07:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for athenegoddess     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Nobody believes me in his house of worship. They believe he isn't capable of this so nobody can help me there.


I did have one aunt who died when I was 7. Other than that nobody else.

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posted December 01, 2015 07:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Orange     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i dont know who the woman is that showed up in your reading and which can help you. But there is a heart next to her and a house. Maybe you will find out later.

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posted December 01, 2015 07:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for athenegoddess     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ok. Thanks!

Do you have a Q?

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posted December 01, 2015 07:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Orange     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
yes

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posted December 01, 2015 07:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for FmVenusWLove     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Athenegoddess,
I hope you don't mind, but I pulled some cards for you. I'm a little confused with what I got though. Did something happen between you and this man before he started to spiritually attack you? Did you have a friendship or some kind of friendly interaction before all of this started or did it start the moment you met?

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posted December 01, 2015 07:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for athenegoddess     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Orange, Yes. Give me 20 min.


FromVenus.. I don't mind at all.


Yes it was friendly at first. But things got ugly when I started to notice he was doing this and I confronted him on it and he denied it.

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posted December 01, 2015 08:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for athenegoddess     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Orange,

I used all Major Cards because I felt this was a serious question with consequences suited for the Major Arcana.

With MR:
Moon
Renewal (Judgement)
Ego (Devil)

There is some intense attraction between you two that changes both of you internally and psychologically. I think if you continue here it will aid more of that growth especially emotional growth. With you and MW it is very sexually driven. I think that ultimately this will not lead you both down a happy path. One of you will end this connection in the future when you have outgrown its purpose in your life. eventually one of you are going to see this connection for what it is without the rose colored glasses and this will naturally mean moving on.

With D:
Awakening (Hanged Man)
Release (Death)
Life Experience (Tower)

I feel that you will be waiting for this person if you pursue this path. It will take some revaluation on your part to see if this is what you really want. Why did it end before? Will things change if you get back together? I feel that it will not end well either if you pursue this. This relationship is best left in the past and its purpose has already been fulfilled. Trying to resurrect it will not do either of you any good.


Conclusion: It doesn't look like you will end up with either one. Both are for your soul growth to prepare you for your real soul mate.

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posted December 01, 2015 08:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Orange     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you, my dear

the two readings resonate strongly.

Thanks again for confirming my intuition.

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posted December 01, 2015 08:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for athenegoddess     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You're welcome.

All we can do is enjoy the ride. Everything happens for a purpose and sometimes its beauty cannot be seen until we have outgrown it.

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posted December 01, 2015 08:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for FmVenusWLove     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hmmmm, ok. Instead of asking the question you posed, I decided to do a more extensive reading since this situation is a bit more serious in my eyes. I think I am starting to understand, but to be honest there isn't enough context here for me to give you a very accurate reading - please keep that in mind as some of what I interpreted may not pertain to your situation. That being said, perhaps the cards will speak to you.

I used a RWS based Tarot deck.

Situation: 10 of Wands
This man's intentions: Justice
World, 6 of Pentacles, 4 of Cups, Queen of Wands

Before doing this spread, I asked the cards if this man is indeed intentionally stalking you/attacking you spiritually and pulled 5 of Cups. In conjunction with the other cards I pulled, I do see that this man has either expressed interest in you romantically or possibly even expressed a desire to be friends but was rejected in some way. Either you have flat out rejected him or you have not been present enough for him in either capacity and therefore he views your actions as a dismissal. I see this reflected in the 10 of Wands - perhaps your relationship started out light and carefree but I want to say that over time you began to feel the weight of expectations and accountability and this likely turned you off to interacting with him - you simply became overwhelmed. I don't want to say that he is intentionally trying to hurt you or upset you - rather he is trying to connect with you in any way he can out of desire to get back what he feels he put in to the relationship...if that makes sense. I don't see Justice as indicating something spiteful or emotional. Instead I see it as indicating that his intention is to even the playing field and act in a way that reflects his view of your actions in the past. I believe that perhaps you unknowingly encouraged or happily shouldered a lot of the responsibility in your interaction in the past which may be way he is reacting this way now.

This for me is reinforced by the World (what are you doing to contribute to his attachment) and, as luck would have it, an opposing card the 4 of Cups (what you can do to disconnect from him). I think you are not drawing firm enough boundaries with him. You are continuing some kind of emotional or spiritual involvement with this man that is feeding his ability to connect to you on that level - perhaps even by focusing on his spiritual invasion you are adding fuel to the fire, so to speak. Advice here is to withdraw your involvement in his affairs or withhold your attention and focus on yourself. Meditate, and try to disengage from an awareness of matters outside yourself. Have you ever heard of the phrase "if you believe it, it will be so"? I think that this spread is telling you that the more apathetic you become and the less of a fuss you make of this, the less of an impact it will have on your life.

Advice moving forward would be to be more self-assured - It seems this situation has rattled you or made you feel insecure or fearful. Be open and sincere with this person but most importantly have faith in your own ability - you have the ability to stop anything this person does that makes you feel uncomfortable; it's just a matter of exerting your will.

Thank you for waiting as I worked through this spread. I hope this made sense and that some of this was helpful.

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posted December 01, 2015 09:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for athenegoddess     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you.

It seems he thinks his behavior is warranted. Which I don't understand why unless I really am his girlfriend reincarnated who died on him. However even if this were true, I wouldn't do this if I were in his position. I really am let down at his spiritual immaturity and expecting that I owe him something when I owe him nothing and actually don't even want to be with him anymore at all and he makes my skin crawl and I feel bad for him now.

I will keep trying to Block him.


Do you have a Q?

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posted December 01, 2015 09:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for FmVenusWLove     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think it's all just part of the process and eventually he will let go and move on. It will end, so just be strong! I wish you the best of luck

My question is related to a slightly similar situation: What can I do to gracefully end my involvement (friendship) with S?

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posted December 01, 2015 10:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for athenegoddess     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Fool
Moon
Hierophant


Nine of Winter
Two of Winter
Five of Winter

Had this person caused you pain? I feel a sense of you really wanting this friendship to end because they hurt you? You feel very let down and have been thinking of telling them you don't want to continue the friendship. Has this person done some sort of cheating towards you? Something unfair?


To do this gracefully, you have to confront the person and tell them that the friendship you share with them is no longer comfortable for you because it crossed some sort of boundary that you need for your own health. I get this relationship isn't healthy for you. You have to do whats right for you and you can also say you are very spiritual and that this friendship no longer serves you and your growth. Its just not right for you and you mind and heart. I feel there has again been some dishonesty. Point out that feeling this way in a friendship - like everything isn't clear isn't good for you. You have to say this is for your own good and that you are firm and know what is best for you.

So again, I would talk to them and just say that this friendship crossed personal boundaries that you need for your heart to be at ease. Everyone has them. You have to start fresh now without the confusion and drama.

This is also very good I see from your higher self. This friendship isn't aligned with your higher self, so doing this is a good idea.


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