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Topic: Why am I shy? It doesn't make sense
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Leo-Cancer98
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From: Toronto,Ontario,Canada
Registered: Nov 2014
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posted December 04, 2015 06:24 PM
  
I feel like I'm supposed to be an outgoing Leo Sun, but I act shy and introverted most of the time. I need a lot of me time to reflect about life cause I feel like there's a time to be social and a time to just sit back and enjoy your solitude. I'm always in conflict with myself though; on one hand I want to stay home, but I also wanna get out of the house and roam - I drive myself crazy. But at the end of the day, my mood governs everything. Sometimes I want nothing more then to stay home and chill with my family. Oh and I almost never start convos with people ... unless I feel like I need to compliment them about something. I can also be very talkative when I'm passionate about something. 
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FruityLlama
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posted December 04, 2015 06:28 PM
Your cancer placements demonstrate this, but they will tell you more if you look at where they are in your chart  There's way more to it than just your sun and there are alot of different colours to Leo sun IP: Logged |
Spongebob
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posted December 04, 2015 06:45 PM
The problem is how people stereotype Leos as very one dimensional.Aspects and house placements can account for a lot. So can other overriding forces in a chart. You don't have any really social signs on any of your angles. Im a Leo sun also and had a guy sternly lecture me on the phone because he was surprised i was so quiet. He knew i had a leo sun, he was into astrology, and wanted the "wild leo ride" so i guess he was disappointed. My moon is in the eighth house. So I'm not really that type unless I'm at home talking to you, know you well and feel comfortable enough. IP: Logged |
DeeMonroe
Knowflake Posts: 67
From: Powered by the Sun with Pluto undertones. 🌓
Registered: Jun 2011
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posted December 04, 2015 07:18 PM
Your Cancer placements off top.I'm a Leo too but with a Scorpio ASC and down time is a must for me. This "down time" can last for days. I'll come home, clean up, light my candles and ignore all phone calls Lol. IP: Logged |
Seimei
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From: n2thedust
Registered: Apr 2015
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posted December 04, 2015 08:18 PM
Not in disagreement with anyone here, But I see Neptune. Sun in Leo =Earth in Aquarius.
If you look at you progression as Mars rose above Natal ascendant, Neptune descended and played a heavier role n your self-development
especially so with Pisces on MC.
By the way,, the Helio nodes of Bless(11 aq 44'22). That is a nice moment to be born.
That Leo may show stronger yet.
You also have Fortuna,Tyche and Harmonia on ascendant, so consider your non gregarious nature a good thing.------------------
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Kannon McAfee
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From: Portland, OR - USA
Registered: Oct 2011
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posted December 04, 2015 08:37 PM
Leo-Cancer98, That's Cancer rising. You'll get it worked out for a balance that you can be happy with.
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Spongebob
Knowflake Posts: 66
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posted December 04, 2015 08:44 PM
I just noticed the hard aspect from the sun to saturn...IP: Logged |
Randall
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From: Saturn next to Charmaine
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posted December 04, 2015 09:30 PM
Moving to Personal Readings. IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted December 04, 2015 09:58 PM
I think it's age related...Cancer AC can be shy, but not so much with a Venus/Mars conjunction in the first house. You are very attractive - and you are about to become more and more attractive.
By the time you are in your early 30s, you'll be one of the most confident people around. IP: Logged |
LaceyLeigh
Knowflake Posts: 491
From: New Jersey
Registered: Jul 2014
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posted December 04, 2015 11:52 PM
Saturn in your 11th house.IP: Logged |
DualGem
Newflake Posts: 10
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Registered: Oct 2015
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posted December 05, 2015 02:23 AM
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Originally posted by FruityLlama:
Your cancer placements demonstrate this, but they will tell you more if you look at where they are in your chart There's way more to it than just your sun and there are alot of different colours to Leo sun
I agree, believe it or not its a lot more common then you think.
There are lots of Leo Suns with Cancer aspects, especially Venus in Cancer. IP: Logged |
Sven555
Knowflake Posts: 974
From: UK
Registered: Jul 2012
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posted December 05, 2015 02:41 AM
Personally, I put your shy down to your age and to your Moon + Mercury.At 17, you are still no way near the heights it's only around 21 you might notice a difference. You have Moon in 6th house, which makes you full aware of your 'faults' and perhaps you try and work at them, but you are not quite there yet Mercury in 3rd is good, but RX can give you a disadvantage, as you might be offpage to others (different thinking).
Because both of these planets are in Mercury houses, you analyse yourself alot, creating expectations before results.
That Venus/Mars in 1st have not been activated yet, you are still Moon/Mercury currently. If you really want too, you can change all of this but it will have to be done by forcing yourself out of your comfort zone.
You have a nice looking chart, I agree with the others in saying that you'll be stronger in your 30's
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Leo-Cancer98
Knowflake Posts: 176
From: Toronto,Ontario,Canada
Registered: Nov 2014
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posted December 05, 2015 05:48 PM
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Originally posted by Sven555:
Personally, I put your shy down to your age and to your Moon + Mercury.At 17, you are still no way near the heights it's only around 21 you might notice a difference. You have Moon in 6th house, which makes you full aware of your 'faults' and perhaps you try and work at them, but you are not quite there yet Mercury in 3rd is good, but RX can give you a disadvantage, as you might be offpage to others (different thinking).
Because both of these planets are in Mercury houses, you analyse yourself alot, creating expectations before results.
That Venus/Mars in 1st have not been activated yet, you are still Moon/Mercury currently. If you really want too, you can change all of this but it will have to be done by forcing yourself out of your comfort zone.
You have a nice looking chart, I agree with the others in saying that you'll be stronger in your 30's
Thank you! What do you mean by off-page to others? How does a planet in Retrograde affect the way it would normally be expressed if it hadn't been in Retrograde? I have Jupiter in Pisces RX exactly conjunct my MC .. should I be worried?! IP: Logged |
SDragon
Moderator Posts: 555
From: Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Registered: Sep 2012
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posted December 05, 2015 05:51 PM
Yup, was just going to point out that you have 5 planets retrograde. Those would make one more introspective and appear shy in my opinion.IP: Logged |
Leo-Cancer98
Knowflake Posts: 176
From: Toronto,Ontario,Canada
Registered: Nov 2014
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posted December 05, 2015 05:55 PM
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Originally posted by Spongebob:
I just noticed the hard aspect from the sun to saturn...
What hard aspect? I never understood how this makes sense, but according to CafeAstrology.com, my Sun trines Saturn (0'54 orb). IP: Logged |
Leo-Cancer98
Knowflake Posts: 176
From: Toronto,Ontario,Canada
Registered: Nov 2014
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posted December 05, 2015 05:57 PM
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Originally posted by Seimei:
Not in disagreement with anyone here, But I see Neptune. Sun in Leo =Earth in Aquarius.
If you look at you progression as Mars rose above Natal ascendant, Neptune descended and played a heavier role n your self-development
especially so with Pisces on MC.
By the way,, the Helio nodes of Bless(11 aq 44'22). That is a nice moment to be born.
That Leo may show stronger yet.
You also have Fortuna,Tyche and Harmonia on ascendant, so consider your non gregarious nature a good thing.
You lost me, LOOL :$ IP: Logged |
Leo-Cancer98
Knowflake Posts: 176
From: Toronto,Ontario,Canada
Registered: Nov 2014
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posted December 05, 2015 06:06 PM
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Originally posted by Odette:
I think it's age related...Cancer AC can be shy, but not so much with a Venus/Mars conjunction in the first house. You are very attractive - and you are about to become more and more attractive.
By the time you are in your early 30s, you'll be one of the most confident people around.
Lol how do you know I'm attractive? People say I am, but I don't see it :$ My features are symmetrical with each other, but the right side isn't symmetrical with the left side - it makes me so insecure. I've always felt like an insecure girl, but at the gym, it's like that side of me just dissapears and I end up acting and walking like I own the place. Almost everyone knows me, in a good way. Sometimes I think "what are you doing? why are you talking to her? What if she's judging your face?" IP: Logged |
Moonfish
Moderator Posts: 5099
From: Tropical Ocean
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted December 06, 2015 05:03 AM
In my opinion, Sun square Chiron
That would make it hard for you not to experience life without a blast to the ego. You probably been through some pretty harsh situations that damaged your social skills(?) That's just my guess based on my research about Chiron. Overall, it could be very cringe-worthy to one's psyche.
I also want to add that like me, you have Chiron in the 5H. The beautiful things such as letting loose, having fun, and being intimate can be very painful for us.IP: Logged |
Moonfish
Moderator Posts: 5099
From: Tropical Ocean
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted December 06, 2015 05:22 AM
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Originally posted by LaceyLeigh:
Saturn in your 11th house.
I agree,
I have this too, and it's very stifling to one's social life. http://www.theastrologyplace.uk/2013/05/saturn-in-11th-house.html IP: Logged |
Leo-Cancer98
Knowflake Posts: 176
From: Toronto,Ontario,Canada
Registered: Nov 2014
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posted December 06, 2015 08:29 AM
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Originally posted by Moonfish:
I agree,
I have this too, and it's very stifling to one's social life. http://www.theastrologyplace.uk/2013/05/saturn-in-11th-house.html
Really? How so? In basic words please, that paragraph is way too long lol.
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Moonfish
Moderator Posts: 5099
From: Tropical Ocean
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted December 06, 2015 11:24 PM
Well again, it can be stifling to one's social life causing one to a loner whether they love there solitude or not. Here's a general paragraph from the link posted. quote:
One of the greatest pains of Saturn placed in the 11th house of the chart is the sense of loneliness and separateness the person feels. They have difficulty acting spontaneously in front of a community and give off a cool or stiff manner, but may not always feel welcomed into the group. Saturn here needs seriousness and depth which will only come from maturity, and they may have to develop a more self-sufficient attitude towards this area of life. It is not a placement for those that merely want to be well-liked or a favoured member of the group.
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