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Topic: Dating disaster?
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Aurora_girl1990 Knowflake Posts: 484 From: kuala lumpur,malaysia Registered: Feb 2013
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posted December 06, 2015 11:47 AM
Hi,i met this guy on Ok Cupid about 3 days ago(with plans to go on a date in a couple of week's time),and it was all going well until tonight.He came online,said he met his ex that he loved and he started feeling bad and down,saying he's poison and that he'll break me down if i stay around him. I tried talking to him but then he stopped replying.I'm worried both about him and about where this would go. Could anyone be kind to give me a reading with the hopes of finding out two things. 1-Is he okay ?And will he talk to me again. 2-where would this budding relationship go from here?Is there hope? His intial is A and mine is J. Thank you very much to everyone who chimes in.
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dustib Knowflake Posts: 1114 From: USA Registered: Feb 2015
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posted December 06, 2015 12:33 PM
Ok not going to pull but give some advice. You hadn't even met this guy and worried about a relationship with him after talking for 3 days? Guys can pick up someone who is desperate for a relationship and some will play on that A LOT! He's telling you he's still in love with his ex....run away! I'm not trying to be harsh at all here so please don't take it that way!!IP: Logged |
GeminiKarat Moderator Posts: 1808 From: Austria Registered: Jun 2014
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posted December 06, 2015 02:39 PM
I am a beginner. Please read it with a pinch of salt.Is he okay ? Knight of swords – Queen of swords Yes, because he is with a woman. And will he talk to me again.
Page of swords – 8 of cups Yes, because of the developments. 2-where would this budding relationship go from here? King of cups – 4 of swords With those cards here and the other answers I would say: You will find a better person. Is there hope? Wheel of fortune – Ace of swords Hmm. Those are awesome cards and I would say: Yes, define your new beginning. Feedback helps me to improve. I will read it tomorrow. Thank you! IP: Logged |
MillyX Knowflake Posts: 1690 From: canada Registered: Feb 2012
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posted December 06, 2015 07:54 PM
I totally agree with dustib. If a guy is still in love with his ex & if he says that he is poison & will break you down RUN THE OTHER WAY. He means it, this guy is not ready for a relationship & you will end up with a broken heart, don't think you're the exception to the rule. You're just going to be his rebound, he'll be with you but he'll always think about his ex. Don't EVER get into a relationship with someone who is not over their ex, its not healthy they will bring their past baggage into this relationship. You deserve better. I've been there I have done that, on both ends being the rebound of some guy & being with someone to get over my ex. In both situations it never ends well, it always ends with heartbreak. I feel like this guy needs to work on himself before starting to date again. IP: Logged |
GeminiKarat Moderator Posts: 1808 From: Austria Registered: Jun 2014
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posted December 07, 2015 05:57 AM
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