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MillyX
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posted December 11, 2015 10:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MillyX     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have a few Q's in my head...

First one: Should I contact Sean through Facebook?

If I did do that what would happen?

Does he miss me too? What does he think about if ever he does think about me?

Part of me wants to contact him but part of me has too much pride & is afraid that he'll ignore me or mock me for not being over him.

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DreamCatcher
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posted December 11, 2015 10:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DreamCatcher     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by MillyX:
I have a few Q's in my head...

First one: Should I contact Sean through Facebook?

If I did do that what would happen?

Part of me wants to contact him but part of me has too much pride & is afraid that he'll ignore me or mock me for not being over him.


Hi milly. I will exchange. I'd love to know how j is feeling about me and what , if anything, you see happening between us

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posted December 11, 2015 11:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DreamCatcher     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by MillyX:
I have a few Q's in my head...

First one: Should I contact Sean through Facebook?

If I did do that what would happen?

Part of me wants to contact him but part of me has too much pride & is afraid that he'll ignore me or mock me for not being over him.


Ok this is what I get for you. : I see here that as far as sean is concerned , he feels you have turned your back on him, and that you no longer have feelings for him at all .

If you were to send him a fb message , he would be very surprised and would not know how to react initially. But - I see within two weeks from
The message , he will write you back and you will be very happy with the reply. I see the two of you flaking heatedly - and a good month of exchanges. It looks positive , but that it would be short lived. Feels more like closure to me. Make sense ?

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MillyX
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posted December 11, 2015 11:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MillyX     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
YES thank you it does! I still have feelings for him it's just I changed my number to help myself move on because I thought he would never come back. I saw on his FB that his relationship status is 'married'. He never replied to my text messages just disappeared as if I never existed & it's like I get it he has a girlfriend now...And yes I absolutely WANT that closure. Usually, I just want to forget he ever existed but this guy has been on my mind alot, and I want him to get out of my head.

Will get to yours

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harmonicvibes
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posted December 11, 2015 11:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for harmonicvibes     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
MillyX. Here is what I got for you. First off, I think that he's see you obviously, as a really prideful fiery person who can be in control of her emotions, head rules the heart. At first, for some reason, I feel that he's going to feel torn? Are you a abrasive individual who even when trying to be soft you harsh? I think he is going to then feel hmmm debatable about messaging you. I think he will. It will take some time though, it won't be right away he will weight the pros and cons then finally conclude he wants to respond.


My question is how is I.C. feeling about me?

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MillyX
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posted December 11, 2015 11:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MillyX     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
FOR DREAMCATCHER

For you I got Queen of hearts, 9 of diamonds & ace of clubs

Ok I think the first card represents you. You have feelings for this guy, you are attracted to him and stop doubting yourself this guy is attracted to you!!! You feel it he feels it too, you both are just so unsure of yourselves. I feel like both of you will go out on a date in the beginning & you will definitely communicate with each other to get to know each other better.

Again, stop doubting yourself he likes you!!!!

Can I ask another Q: Does Sean miss me or think about me too? If so what does he think about? He has been on my mind alot & I think about the good old days.

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MillyX
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posted December 11, 2015 11:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MillyX     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by harmonicvibes:
MillyX. Here is what I got for you. First off, I think that he's see you obviously, as a really prideful fiery person who can be in control of her emotions, head rules the heart. At first, for some reason, I feel that he's going to feel torn? Are you a abrasive individual who even when trying to be soft you harsh? I think he is going to then feel hmmm debatable about messaging you. I think he will. It will take some time though, it won't be right away he will weight the pros and cons then finally conclude he wants to respond.


My question is how is I.C. feeling about me?


Yes this makes sense. I seem fiery but inside I am a big emotional baby. And I understand the pros & cons thing because since the beginning we were debating whether or not to date each other because we met through his best friend...I had a one night stand with his best friend before meeting him, his best friend had feelings for me while I didn't.I broke his bff heart, and all of his friends are telling him to stay away from me since I'm 'trouble'. But we were attracted to each other...It's just there were obstacles, it seems impossible even now.

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MillyX
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posted December 11, 2015 11:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MillyX     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
For you Harmonicvibes I pulled queen of diamonds & 5 of hearts.

I think IC sees you as someone stable, practical, down to earth. However as far as feelings I don't think IC has love feelings for you the card I got is that of separation. This person feels detached from you.

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DreamCatcher
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posted December 11, 2015 11:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DreamCatcher     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi milly- I don't see any quotes. Were any your of those for me ?

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MillyX
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posted December 11, 2015 11:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MillyX     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Edit: Yes the one for you is the one right after harmonicvibes. It was meant to get posted after you but harmonicvibes posted the same time as me I think

Here's a repost if you can't see it

For you I got Queen of hearts, 9 of diamonds & ace of clubs

Ok I think the first card represents you. You have feelings for this guy, you are attracted to him and stop doubting yourself this guy is attracted to you!!! You feel it he feels it too, you both are just so unsure of yourselves. I feel like both of you will go out on a date in the beginning & you will definitely communicate with each other to get to know each other better.

Again, stop doubting yourself he likes you!!!!

Can I ask another Q: Does Sean miss me or think about me too? If so what does he think about? He has been on my mind alot & I think about the good old days.

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posted December 11, 2015 11:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DreamCatcher     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by MillyX:
FOR DREAMCATCHER

For you I got Queen of hearts, 9 of diamonds & ace of clubs

Ok I think the first card represents you. You have feelings for this guy, you are attracted to him and stop doubting yourself this guy is attracted to you!!! You feel it he feels it too, you both are just so unsure of yourselves. I feel like both of you will go out on a date in the beginning & you will definitely communicate with each other to get to know each other better.

Again, stop doubting yourself he likes you!!!!

Can I ask another Q: Does Sean miss me or think about me too? If so what does he think about? He has been on my mind alot & I think about the good old days.



Ok thank you. Doing these now. May i ask one more? So you say he feels it too? What does he like most about me?

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harmonicvibes
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posted December 11, 2015 11:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for harmonicvibes     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you so much Milly. We are going through...a rough time. I lays into him pretty bad last Friday. So you are right, we are at this time seperated from each other not talking.


Do you have another question? If so, I do as well that is if he was attrCted did have feelings for me romantically initially

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MillyX
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posted December 11, 2015 11:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MillyX     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by harmonicvibes:
Thank you so much Milly. We are going through...a rough time. I lays into him pretty bad last Friday. So you are right, we are at this time seperated from each other not talking.


Do you have another question? If so, I do as well that is if he was attrCted did have feelings for me romantically initially


Yes my other question is if Sean misses me

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MillyX
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posted December 11, 2015 11:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MillyX     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Ok thank you. Doing these now. May i ask one more? So you say he feels it too? What does he like most about me?

I'm pulling cartomancy cards but again I have to repeat this, be confident about yourself...I feel like you are doubting so much whether or not he likes you, souls are attracted to each other because we have lessons to learn from each other. Your souls knew each other before coming on this earth. I pulled 6 of diamonds and 2 of hearts. I feel like he is attracted to you because you are hmm...mature & responsible. But again, I feel like it's his soul that is attracted to you he recognizes you. When you love someone, you just do, it's not rational.

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MillyX
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posted December 11, 2015 11:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MillyX     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by harmonicvibes:
Thank you so much Milly. We are going through...a rough time. I lays into him pretty bad last Friday. So you are right, we are at this time seperated from each other not talking.


Do you have another question? If so, I do as well that is if he was attrCted did have feelings for me romantically initially


I asked if he had romantic feelings for you initially. I got ace of clubs, 9 of swords & queen of clubs.

I'm getting that initially this was a mental connection, you guys were just talking getting to know each other but I don't see romantic feelings. I feel like he was stuck on some girl from his past, someone who is fiery, outgoing etc.

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harmonicvibes
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posted December 11, 2015 11:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for harmonicvibes     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you MillyX. I just hope he didnt think I was ugly or something. I would of hoped he at least had found me pretty..

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MillyX
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posted December 11, 2015 11:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MillyX     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I forgot to post my other question: Mine is does Sean miss me

And don't feel that way! It's really not you, it's him I feel like this guy had issues of his own to really get into another relationship or opening up to someone new.

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harmonicvibes
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posted December 12, 2015 12:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for harmonicvibes     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Milly:


Sean really had a great time with you, you were happy, it was fun, chemistry was there. He saw no clouds in between you two. I think at some point, he really thought about a second chance with you at Sims point but I don't think so much right now bit doesn't mean IRS a loss cause. In the present, I mean super present he feels very defeated by you and the situation both you walked away, but he felt you more the one who ended things? Slayed him sort of speak?


Milly, thank you. Yes, I believe he has a ex in his home country whom he may still miss? Or a girl there who was something special to him.

My biggest fear is that he was using me, that he wasn't physically attracted. Do you think he was physically attracted to me? He would message me everyday, take me out, pay for dates. He would compliment me. I just feel like, whoa, maybe not? I'm list,sad and confused. It was a connection that lasted briefly but I rarely date so when I connect I really connect.

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MillyX
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posted December 12, 2015 12:23 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MillyX     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by harmonicvibes:
Milly:


Sean really had a great time with you, you were happy, it was fun, chemistry was there. He saw no clouds in between you two. I think at some point, he really thought about a second chance with you at Sims point but I don't think so much right now bit doesn't mean IRS a loss cause. In the present, I mean super present he feels very defeated by you and the situation both you walked away, but he felt you more the one who ended things? Slayed him sort of speak?


Milly, thank you. Yes, I believe he has a ex in his home country whom he may still miss? Or a girl there who was something special to him.

My biggest fear is that he was using me, that he wasn't physically attracted. Do you think he was physically attracted to me? He would message me everyday, take me out, pay for dates. He would compliment me. I just feel like, whoa, maybe not? I'm list,sad and confused. It was a connection that lasted briefly but I rarely date so when I connect I really connect.


I did not end things, he was the one who stopped speaking to me one day, stopped replying to my messages as if I never existed. That hurt me so much. Then months later he decided to contact me back saying hi, I was so angry at him for being a boomerang who just disappears and reappears out of my life that I texted back: who's number is this & what the f*ck do you want. I guess that scared him away.

Then I found him on facebook & his status was in a relationship...So I decided to change my number, to forget him. But he pops up in my mind alot.

I don't even know why I miss this a*hole, but I do. This is why I am so conflicted. Rationally I shouldn't like this guy, after everything he made me go through but my feelings are like I need this guy & I don't know why I really can't explain it.

Anyways, this is why I am constantly stopping myself from contacting him.

I can't exchange for now, I have to go to bed got work tomorrow but absolutely do not put yourself down based on looks. Don't put your self worth based on some other guy's opinion of you or whether or not he liked you or finds you attractive. CONFIDENCE. Be fiery, love yourself be the bad a$$ you!!!

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harmonicvibes
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posted December 12, 2015 12:35 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for harmonicvibes     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Really. Dang, Milly he sounds like a total jerk. I reky misinterpreted the cards. Yeah what a jerk, he's probably self centered doesn't see the wrong he does. I'm new so I am not too shocked that I really the cards wrong.


Yes, well this Ivan guy, he was very Okay with me but we only knew each other were talking since November 20th till last Friday when I blew up on him but I got mad at him once before, apologized, two days later he text me... last Friday being the last or second time. OK goodnight and thank you milly

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