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Journey_of_Gemini
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posted December 30, 2015 01:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Journey_of_Gemini     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi, my boyfriend and I are coming to our 2 year mark. Over the summer things got pretty out of hand and since then we've been on a downward spiral. After everything I still would believe we can overcome the pain we've cause each other but I don't think he has that same faith in us as I do. I'm his first serious and longest relationship and we've been through a lot together. He keeps pushing me away saying that he doesn't feel he's worthy of being with anyone and he never expected things between us to get how they are. I think he's just scared we'll hurt each other again so instead of facing the issues he'd rather run. I know he has problems with establishing emotional connections but I thought I could be the one to help him through that. A large part of me doesn't feel like it's really over but at the same time I know I can't force anyone to stay with me. Is it really over? What is he running from? What's going on with him? Should I just let it go mentally, emotionally? I'm never believe in giving up on love but I think I might've met my match here. His initials are GP. Mine are LD. I just really need some type of insight or guidance. Thank you

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Journey_of_Gemini
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posted January 20, 2016 05:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Journey_of_Gemini     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Someone?

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hmm
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posted January 21, 2016 01:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hmm     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i'll do a tarot reading tonight

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hmm
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posted January 22, 2016 12:56 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hmm     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
PLEASE TAKE THIS WITH A GRAIN OF SALT

what's he running form
3 of swords reversed
upright would mean heartache, reversed it refers to mending taking place.
as for what he's running from, i'd say his heart just isn't in it

what's going on with him
3 of cups
not always, but this can come up for a third party, maybe there is someone else in his life

what you should do
10 of penticles reversed
upright it's building a life together i think, reversed would be moving on

what you need to know
2 of cups
goes well with what i was saying about what's going on with him
two of cups is two people coming together emotionally
so once again maybe you need to be aware that there may be someone else in his life

what's going to happen
queen of pentacles
i don't know how to interpret this, normally i'd see it as a good relationship outcome. pentacles are about stability and queens would support a relationship dynamic.

i read one source that says that when court cards are in an outcome position that they describe a person. so maybe the outcome will be him being with a queen of pents type of person?

i'm not sure

what should happen
page of wands reversed
up right would be starting a new journy,
reversed i'd say that it shouldn't go anywhere

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harmonicvibes
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posted January 22, 2016 01:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for harmonicvibes     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hello hmmm. Would you like to exchange? If so I have a thread started.

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hmm
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posted January 22, 2016 08:50 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hmm     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
ok i'll keep it in mind if anything comes up...

but i started one too...it's called person above me...it an exchange kind of thread

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Journey_of_Gemini
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posted January 25, 2016 02:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Journey_of_Gemini     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Interesting. I think you may be referring to me with other people in my life. I'm casually talking to other people bc right now we aren't really committed to each other because after everything that happened between us. One of the individuals I'm talking to I do have a slight emotional connection but I would easily break it off for my boyfriend because that's the person I'd rather be with instead of other people so idk. If my boyfriend and I do decide to make it official again i"d have no problem with getting rid of these 3rd parties. I really have no desire to establish a serious connection with other people, but they want the same from me but I'm not feeling it because I love my boyfriend. So maybe the last card in reserve symbolizes me not going anywhere with this other person. But I'll keep everything in mind.


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Originally posted by hmm:
PLEASE TAKE THIS WITH A GRAIN OF SALT

what's he running form
3 of swords reversed
upright would mean heartache, reversed it refers to mending taking place.
as for what he's running from, i'd say his heart just isn't in it

what's going on with him
3 of cups
not always, but this can come up for a third party, maybe there is someone else in his life

what you should do
10 of penticles reversed
upright it's building a life together i think, reversed would be moving on

what you need to know
2 of cups
goes well with what i was saying about what's going on with him
two of cups is two people coming together emotionally
so once again maybe you need to be aware that there may be someone else in his life

what's going to happen
queen of pentacles
i don't know how to interpret this, normally i'd see it as a good relationship outcome. pentacles are about stability and queens would support a relationship dynamic.

i read one source that says that when court cards are in an outcome position that they describe a person. so maybe the outcome will be him being with a queen of pents type of person?

i'm not sure

what should happen
page of wands reversed
up right would be starting a new journy,
reversed i'd say that it shouldn't go anywhere


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