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sarahhm
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posted January 10, 2016 11:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sarahhm     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i'm wondering should i message him today? what will happen if i do? like.. how would he react?

whats your question?

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posted January 10, 2016 11:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MinceyMouse     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
what are his initials?

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posted January 10, 2016 11:41 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sarahhm     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
KD

thank you whats your question?

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posted January 10, 2016 11:43 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MinceyMouse     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
A general for job interviews coming my way in the next 3 months, please

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posted January 10, 2016 11:48 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MinceyMouse     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
10 of coins/rx, 5 of coins, page of coins

Should you message him? you should only if you REALLY need to. Do you intend to ask him for something? He's going to be hesitant to give it to you.. Page of coins in this deck looks down on people and is half covered with a shield- so expect his response to be defensive and he will need reasons for your request.


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posted January 10, 2016 11:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for intuitivefish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Im not picking up the best vibes to be honest. I feel like he would read it but not reply that soon. I dont feel he is in the best energy/mood to give you a good reply.
I get him being a bit withdrawn and not up to talking.
He would reply but later in a few days I think.

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posted January 10, 2016 11:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sarahhm     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by MinceyMouse:
10 of coins/rx, 5 of coins, page of coins

Should you message him? you should only if you REALLY need to. Do you intend to ask him for something? He's going to be hesitant to give it to you.. Page of coins in this deck looks down on people and is half covered with a shield- so expect his response to be defensive and he will need reasons for your request.


month 1 - 4 swords, 8 of pentacles, the wheel
month 2 - 7 of cups, ace of cups, king of swords
month 3 - 3 of cups, queen of pentacles, king of pentacles

i don't think you'll have many job interviews in the 3rd month cause i think by then you'll have your job. both queen and king of wands to me is balanced in the financial and career sense and mixed with 3 of cups the card of celebration. you'll have a job. next month though, not too grand. you'll be going on interviews but it's not going to be too fruitful. when things pick up with going to be the 2nd month. i say multiple offers that you don't know which position or job to choose and it'll just be a successful month for job hunting. i see you acting like the king of swords. stable, intellectual, paced very well.

looks great!


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i don't really need to but i want to. we've been doing this 5 of wands power struggle, cat and mouse, does she like me does he like me ******** and i just want everything lied out or at least some movement towards the event of us laying things out on the table... i just don't know what to do with this guy. when to make a move, or just sit back at let him make the move. hes so hard to read. like what if i wait and do nothing and he finds another girl?

so much on my mind with this one

thank you for your reading!

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posted January 10, 2016 11:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for intuitivefish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I would like to ask about my love in this and next month please.

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posted January 10, 2016 12:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MinceyMouse     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hmm, sarahhm, if he's acting that way, how about you take a step back and re-evaluate things with him? Doesn't sound like a person who want to be committed in any form. This is assuming you've already told him you like him...

EDIT: thank for the reading

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posted January 10, 2016 12:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sarahhm     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by intuitivefish:
Im not picking up the best vibes to be honest. I feel like he would read it but not reply that soon. I dont feel he is in the best energy/mood to give you a good reply.
I get him being a bit withdrawn and not up to talking.
He would reply but later in a few days I think.

yeah he's been doing that and i have no idea. in the beginning he would reply straight away and paragraphs and i have absolutely no idea what turned the tide. especially cause he pursued me heavy in the beginning. we just fizzled out didn't talk for nearly a month, didn't get a happy holidays or birthday from him. then i drunk texted him telling him and he replied lol, we matched on tinder so i know he's into me and he just sent lol. then the next night after the tinder match he messages me <3 <3<3 we matched on tinder!

i thought he was messing with me! so i replied lol.

i have no idea what's his deal is with me.. like i wondering if he has some idea that i'm playing games with him (i would never intentionally ive been into him from the beginning). i don't know if he's actually into into me. so much potential!


i dunno i just want to know what to do to move past this ******** or if this is it and just to move on.

[edit] just saw your question off to do it now!

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posted January 10, 2016 12:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sarahhm     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by MinceyMouse:
hmm, sarahhm, if he's acting that way, how about you take a step back and re-evaluate things with him? Doesn't sound like a person who want to be committed in any form. This is assuming you've already told him you like him...

EDIT: thank for the reading


i haven't but after nearly a month of no talking we matched on tinder and he messaged me 'we matched on tinder <3<3<3' ... i was so mad cause i thought he's just been messing with me and using me as an ego trip i replied to him the same way he's been replying to me. with an 'lol'

i dunno, i kinda wanna call him out on this ********

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posted January 10, 2016 12:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MinceyMouse     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Being matched on tinder doesn't mean much, for example (yes, I'm a terrible human being), I got matched with someone I knew on Tinder mainly because I swiped right for the heck of it. I did not like the person at all..

Communicate, tell him what you want him to know, and then withdraw. See what he does then play it by ear. [obvs, just a suggestion].

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posted January 10, 2016 12:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sarahhm     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by intuitivefish:
I would like to ask about my love in this and next month please.

ace of pentacles, queen of swords, 9 of coins
7 of wands, the wheel (clarifier - the lovers, 7 cups), 9 of wands

did you meet someone last month/recently? i see that this month with regards to your love life you're staying level headed. you've been hurt in the past and you're not here for that ******** anymore so you're in a place where you'd rather be single than to deal with the wrong person which puts you in a great place to be. there is potential for a relationship to develop, whether acquaintance to friends, or friends to lovers. but at the same time there is an overarching theme to this month of work to do that's putting love a bit on the back burner or at least doesn't give you enough time to dedicate to it. next month though the big thing is that you'll have a choice. you're holding on to something, you're fighting for something and i say yourself and your freedom. i don't see it as a choice that will make feel sad, it's a choice that's a bit more pleasant. i say you'll be thinking of officially entering a relationship and that fighting and defending your autonomy is just concern about how much the relationship is going to take out of you. because, imho, every time we enter a relationship we are sacrificing a bit of our freedom. no more single mingle, for example. but i say in the end it looks great. moving on to a new chapter and all

let me know if this resonates

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posted January 10, 2016 12:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sarahhm     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by MinceyMouse:
Being matched on tinder doesn't mean much, for example (yes, I'm a terrible human being), I got matched with someone I knew on Tinder mainly because I swiped right for the heck of it. I did not like the person at all..

Communicate, tell him what you want him to know, and then withdraw. See what he does then play it by ear. [obvs, just a suggestion].


do you think now is a good time or wait for another time? like next week or something. i dunno, i'm questioning whether i made the right move with the 'lol' .. cause when we first started chatting he teased me about not matching with him on tinder .. ******* confusing prick

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posted January 10, 2016 12:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for intuitivefish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you.

Umm not really sorry. I am in on/off contact with my ex. Havent met anyone.
I dont work in such a job where it would get in the way I have good working hours.
My ex is working abroad so we might see eachother but it would be for short.
I would like to be in a relationship so no it would be a choice of freesom for me sorry.
Not really making sense.

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posted January 10, 2016 12:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MinceyMouse     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Send him a text now.. I mean why wait. Get what you want out there, and then relax and see what happens.

I still think you shouldn't invest anything into this guy...

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posted January 10, 2016 12:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sarahhm     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Thank you.

Umm not really sorry. I am in on/off contact with my ex. Havent met anyone.
I dont work in such a job where it would get in the way I have good working hours.
My ex is working abroad so we might see eachother but it would be for short.
I would like to be in a relationship so no it would be a choice of freesom for me sorry.
Not really making sense.


queen of swords is usually described as a widow, woman post breakup. ace of pentacles in a love sense is slow start and development. add in the 7 of wands and 9 of wands. theres the option in the universe for something to happen with your ex. in terms of the choice with the lovers cup, yeah you'd like to be in a relationship but you saying that you'll take the next guy that shows up, irregardless of his faults and shortcomings?

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posted January 10, 2016 12:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for intuitivefish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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queen of swords is usually described as a widow, woman post breakup. ace of pentacles in a love sense is slow start and development. add in the 7 of wands and 9 of wands. theres the option in the universe for something to happen with your ex. in terms of the choice with the lovers cup, yeah you'd like to be in a relationship but you saying that you'll take the next guy that shows up, irregardless of his faults and shortcomings?

No im not saying that.
Im saying it would be a "choice" if its my ex i know him too long to think i wouldnt want it.

Everyone has faults and shortcomings but I never said I would go for anyone I have enough years to know what I want.
But i dont look at it as giving up freedom.

Im not post break up. I have been single for a longer time

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posted January 10, 2016 12:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sarahhm     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by MinceyMouse:
Send him a text now.. I mean why wait. Get what you want out there, and then relax and see what happens.

I still think you shouldn't invest anything into this guy...


yeah i'm gonna, just gonna say 'did you swipe right on tinder just for the craic? just ***** and giggles?'

don't know if today though cause i'm reading back everything i wrote and i'm raging right now. so i don't want it to transfer across my texts.

ill let you know what happens though! lol

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posted January 10, 2016 12:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MinceyMouse     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
ok- let me know how it goes

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posted January 10, 2016 12:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sarahhm     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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No im not saying that.
Im saying it would be a "choice" if its my ex i know him too long to think i wouldnt want it.

Everyone has faults and shortcomings but I never said I would go for anyone I have enough years to know what I want.
But i dont look at it as giving up freedom.


thats good. i dunno, maybe i wrote that freedom bit as sorta.. projection thing. to me if i get in a relationship, it means choosing that guy over the freedom of looking. so could just be me projecting. hopefully it works out with your ex!

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posted January 10, 2016 12:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for tonia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Is it over with Ab?
Yours?

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posted January 10, 2016 12:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for intuitivefish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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thats good. i dunno, maybe i wrote that freedom bit as sorta.. projection thing. to me if i get in a relationship, it means choosing that guy over the freedom of looking. so could just be me projecting. hopefully it works out with your ex!

Well no thats not me.

Best not to assume or put yourself in readings.

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posted January 10, 2016 12:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sarahhm     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by tonia:
Is it over with Ab?
Yours?

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posted January 10, 2016 01:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sarahhm     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
@minceymouse - message has been sent. he has seen. no reply yet. lets see how much of a **** boy he is

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