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posted January 11, 2016 12:55 PM            

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Hi

I was just thinking about something. What would happen if I did actually e-mail J telling him I want to switch days because of my feelings for him and that I noticed he is becoming emotionally distant towards me and I feel I am making him uncomfortable? Just a little threat. I don't know if I will actually do it or not. Would he respond back? How do you feel he would respond. I would be throwing a monkey wrench in the situation. Thanks if you can back to me. Poochy

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posted January 11, 2016 01:11 PM            

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Hi poochy.
If you were to actually send it. He would be cold with a reply to you. I dont actually feel a reply. I get he could either ignore it and not say anything due to not understanding why the change.
If he choses to reply it would be cold and just something like fine ok as you wish. He wouldnt show what he truley feels.

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posted January 11, 2016 01:17 PM            

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O.K. thanks. Do you still feel he will change in 3 to 4 months as you said in a previous reading? He is acting very reserved towards me and I know you said this was part of his "plan" but honestly I can't see this happening now.

Let me know if you need anything.

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posted January 11, 2016 01:19 PM            

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Just have a question.
What does A feel about the flow of our conversation. Sometimea I think he doesnt know what to say

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posted January 11, 2016 01:21 PM            

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Originally posted by poochycat:
O.K. thanks. Do you still feel he will change in 3 to 4 months as you said in a previous reading? He is acting very reserved towards me and I know you said this was part of his "plan" but honestly I can't see this happening now.

Let me know if you need anything.

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I can still feel the change yes. I dont wish to influence you and you should follow your gut. But I do feel some change come to you and him.

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posted January 11, 2016 01:37 PM            

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Hi, back, for you these are the cards I pulled.

8 of wands, 3 of wands, knight of wands, * the fool

The eight of wands sometimes shows travel or at least swift moving energy coming into play. It is definitely showing this with the knight of wands. Didn't I pull this card on your last reading? Then the three of wands is still showing progress with a bit of work still. Almost the same as your last reading, isn't it? The fool is showing making unexpected changes but it is a positive card.

* I think he may be feeling a bit nervous about what to say. Think back to that reading I did for you about him acting like a school boy. He does have feelings for you so maybe a bit tongue-tied.

Re my reading. Do you feel J and I will progress to just a nice friendship. I think he is sending out the signals to me that NO we will not be getting physical and that is why he is being so reserved.

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posted January 11, 2016 01:46 PM            

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Yeah I reread your readings all the time. I like to get a 2nd feel for them.
I just dont wish for him to feel like its boring or something?
I do like that its tempered so not all at once but an effort to talk to me.
wow its been 4 days I think in a row thats awamzing change.

Should I just let him be in charge or would opening up a bit be a good thing to show him nothing to be afraid of?
He told be he wont be coming till after easter..
so hoping we will keep communication going, light and good.

J might want to push it into friendship only, I feel like he thinks its more safe that way for both you and him. But I do feel like he couldnt manage to be only friends as he would miss all the flirting and teasing he does now.

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posted January 11, 2016 01:56 PM            

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Thanks, I know he is thinking things over. Several readers have said it would progress favorably but having said anything specific. It's almost like he is avoiding me sometimes. Do you feel there will be any conversations regarding this or will it just continue and eventually we will just have a friendship?

I feel with A, yes, tell him and bit a bit more flirtatious. That might open him up a bit more.

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posted January 11, 2016 02:04 PM            

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I wish he would give me something to be fliratious on lol he is so weird at times. I do appreciate his effort.

thank you

No, I dont get any communication to do with this, I get him more continuing than him saying anything concrete about it. I get a more avoiding attitude and ebing childish.

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posted January 11, 2016 02:11 PM            

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Oh brother, he's a grown man not a child
He has been divorced twice. Could this be this reason, being so immature? If you still feel it progressing into something positive, that's good.

I still feel you could flirt with A. Show your sense of humor as it might lighten the mood with him s well.

O.K. thanks for our little pow wow session haha. I will let you get back to work

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posted January 11, 2016 02:17 PM            

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No worries, I am at home, Ican answer more if you need.

J is being a child because he thinks he can and because noone truely says anything to stop him. I get its a sort of acting out because there is noone he needs to report to so he is acting the way he wants to.

You are right, last time Imade a joke it was really good.
Its not easy to flirt when you get a reply like "ah"
lol it takes a magician to turn it into more from my side.

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posted January 11, 2016 02:28 PM            

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Do you work part-time? Such a relief you don't get the little squirrels all day haha.

Next time you get a text from A, {I feel soon) flirt up a storm! Tell him how much you are looking forward to seeing him. Build up the return until you both see each other

Still wondering what caused the divorces with J. Do you feel it is just immaturity?
I'm just trying to "feel out" his personality so I know what I am dealing with.

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posted January 11, 2016 02:34 PM            

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Lol he replied 5 min ago.

No, by law because of stress and a lot of noise, standing on my feet all day, our work hours are 5.5 hrs in morning shift and 6 in afternoon.

Brb with ur reading

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posted January 11, 2016 02:43 PM            

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You are dealing with a grown child. He doesnt like having resposabilities. I feel this lack of responibility is what causes divorces. I get he was too flakey and didnt show the balance of a marriage with 1 side just giving too much and him taking too much thinking he doesnt need to any more since it was a marriage.

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posted January 11, 2016 02:57 PM            

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Yes, I feel you are right and I can't wait to see the change in him as you and others have said would happen.

Funny that A replied to you just now. Lay it on thick haha.

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posted January 11, 2016 03:01 PM            

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I did make a joke but he wasnt very responsive. Sent back a smiley...

Eh

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posted January 11, 2016 03:16 PM            

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Keep doing it, he will eventually be more responsive. I feel he really likes this interaction.

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posted January 11, 2016 03:20 PM            

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I hope so 😊
For now he does eventually reply to keep a connection.

Maybe this month wont be bad. Hope he wont have many pauses in contact.

Im still baffled how continous he has been. Almost like what came over him. Its nice but hard to believe.
Dont know how to describe like its happening by mistake.

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posted January 11, 2016 03:31 PM            

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Hmmm...I feel there may be a small break then responding again one after the other. The cards are definitely showing a positive progression as I've said all along. I wouldn't question it too much, knowing how he is. Keep the conversations cute and flirty.

Intuitive, I'm afraid I will have to leave you for now as it is close to dinner time. Ask questions if you have them and I will reply tomorrow. XX

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posted January 11, 2016 03:33 PM            

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Thank you.

Have a nice day x

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posted January 11, 2016 05:06 PM            

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Hi, I'm back for just one more question if it's O.K.?

I'm just wondering how J would react if I was to ignore him? For example not joining him and the others for coffee breaks and not talking to him. How would he react? Giving him a taste of his own medicine. Poochy

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posted January 11, 2016 05:12 PM            

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It would make him wonder. You would need to stick to it for longer for him to understand you are being serious and that you are trying to prove sonething. He wouldnt like power being taken away from him. But I do feel he would try and give you space thinkng thats what you want

I also have another.
How would he feel if I were (not now) bring back old memories of when we started.
It was so innocent.
Woul it make him withdraw.

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posted January 11, 2016 05:41 PM            

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Ha we are both in a thinking mode big time LOL. Are you into astrology at all? Perhaps transit would show when things might star happening, but I remember you saying around February. I get impatient sometimes. We won't be seeing each other for two weeks so a bit of a break.

I think that would be a lovely idea to go into the past with him. I feel he would like talking about it.

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posted January 12, 2016 07:51 AM            

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Sorry no, I dont understand astrology at all, I bearly understand my own little fishy head

I will be around, not right away but I am not at work now so if you have anything please let me know.

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posted January 12, 2016 06:22 PM            

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Hi intuitivefishy

I don't have any questions at the moment but have been thinking about you. If you have questions, let me know. Poochy XX

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