posted January 19, 2016 10:50 AM            

Its like...we've been friends for about a decade and for some reason I feel as if its time i separate myself from him.

I did a one card pull and asked "Should i end my friendship with this person"?

I got the STAR

I asked for a clarifier, and i got TEMPERANCE..

posted January 19, 2016 05:27 PM            

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Originally posted by DreamCatcher:
If you have to ask, then you already know the answer

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posted January 20, 2016 11:09 AM            

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Originally posted by ILovePoems:
Want me to pull for you instead? I dont really know what the cards are saying. Maybe the cards are saying that there is still hope for you two. For you two to cooperate and actually getting along but I dont think you guys fight or what not.. Maybe even get another chance to be friends again.

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posted January 20, 2016 11:28 AM            

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Originally posted by DreamCatcher:
Ok well then I'm looking at it as : if you end the friendship you will most definitely heal, and perhaps you need the break. if you choose to remain friends, balance is required. I also feel that you can remain friendly feomma distance if that makes sense. Like if your soul feels depleted then end it, but if you feel there's a good energy exchange, keep it. Also, pay attention to your intuition and how this friend makes you feel

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posted January 20, 2016 12:54 PM            

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Originally posted by happyaskings:
Just curious/testing something here: does he use drugs or drink heavily?

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posted January 21, 2016 02:01 PM            

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Originally posted by ILovePoems:
So sorry, I forgot to reply.

What is your friend initials?

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posted January 21, 2016 02:02 PM            

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Originally posted by Sikanda:
Hi NYCdodger, this is not really an astrological or tarot-based comment, rather my opinion, if you don't mind.
I think that if this friendship is draining your energy, then you should cut it off. It's ok to let others know where you stand from time to time, and you are not in the same wavelength now (this happens in life), you feel like a stranger around him, so why feign all the time when you can find something authentic somewhere else? Maybe you feel guilty to be the one to leave? Well in that case, if you are just neutral about it, then keep it for the sake of the memories at least. But as a last advice: use your intuition, do what you feel you should, what you think is best for you.
I hope I helped.

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Thank you for your kind words

posted January 22, 2016 01:16 PM            

It seems right here that you have maybe thought about it? I think that you're trying to make a decision on if it's worth being friends with this person or not. It looks like from someone's angle.. this person is just thinking alot of questions in their mind.. wondering is it worth it? They may also feel that being friends with this person is not going anywhere. This card can talk about having patience and to just think before you make a move.. The next card can talk about the friendship? The card shows a person that looks dead.. like maybe the friendship is maybe dead to one person? They don't feel the same anymore or think that the friendship may had died? There is a male in this reading.. it seems that he's the type that is rather loyal and friendly but can be stubborn.

the hanged man - 7 of pentacles - 10 of swords - King of pentacles

posted January 22, 2016 01:52 PM            

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Originally posted by ILovePoems:
Okay I finally have time to ask.

It seems right here that you have maybe thought about it? I think that you're trying to make a decision on if it's worth being friends with this person or not. It looks like from someone's angle.. this person is just thinking alot of questions in their mind.. wondering is it worth it? They may also feel that being friends with this person is not going anywhere. This card can talk about having patience and to just think before you make a move.. The next card can talk about the friendship? The card shows a person that looks dead.. like maybe the friendship is maybe dead to one person? They don't feel the same anymore or think that the friendship may had died? There is a male in this reading.. it seems that he's the type that is rather loyal and friendly but can be stubborn.

the hanged man - 7 of pentacles - 10 of swords - King of pentacles

Does any of this make sense?

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I would have to agree for most of it. Im unsure who is the King Of Pentacles though. I do see stubbornness so I'm a little confused. He's loyal in terms of material things, but mentally it can be a draining experience being around him from time to time and its hard to explain why. Maybe I'm just growing to be more reclusive.

For example, him and i would discuss something political. He would voice his opinion, then i would voice mine, simple. If I don't agree with what he's saying, i would simply agree to disagree and move on. But if he doesn't like what i say (or if he doesn't like that i don't agree with him), he would challenge my opinion and try to prove it wrong...thats fine, i don't have any problems with that. So after challenging me i would explain to him in further detail why my opinion is the way it is and why i believe in it. If he doesn't like my response, he would challenge me again by bringing up ANOTHER topic on top of the original one. Then once again I will explain to him why my opinion is the way it is and why i believe in it. If he doesn't like it, then he would AGAIN bring up another topic that is COMPLETELY different from the original one (and throw little ad-libs and comments in between). Sometimes it would get to the point where I would forget what the original topic was because he is constantly changing it. Then I would just laugh and tell him that if he wants to have the last word to feel better about himself then he can have it, because its just my opinion! Lol. I've even had to tell him to shut the hell up several times because of how annoying he is when it comes to these things.

This is just ONE scenario. But for some reason, being around him has become more of a draining experience. He is loyal though, I will definitely give him that..

posted January 22, 2016 02:35 PM            

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Originally posted by ILovePoems:
Hmm.. well if he's loyal then would it make sense if he's confident in what he says or likes to work alot?

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