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prettyinpink
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posted January 24, 2016 08:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for prettyinpink     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Never in my life have I met someone so annoying as my co worker. Completely narcissistic, hypocrite, envious, fake. She hates every woman that is prettier than her; I think she has no female friends because of that. It's the first time I have an enemy. I don't even talk to her, still she provokes me everytime she has a chance, tries to humiliate me in front of others etc.
Maybe we have an incompatible placement or something?

Her chart:
Libra Sun
Pisces Moon
Leo Mars
Libra Mercury
Virgo Venus

My chart:
Sag Sun
Aqua Moon
Cancer Rising
Sag Mars
Sag Mercury
Capricorn Venus

Usually I'm ok with Libras. Pisces moon is a placement I really dislike though.

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posted January 24, 2016 09:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MahaKali     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Don't know for you, but I must add that if there is one sign that I don't like at all, it's Libras. I am the first who don't like to comment just on Sun sign, but there is no single Libra with whom I was good.

And as a girl, I must comment Libra men first. I find them so narcissistic, in love with themselves, they want to be seen and you to admire them if you can in every second, they want to be dominant and they are good liars, also selfish. An perfect description for an Libra man is Dorian Gray, that's how I find them. And all of these they will do at passive way, so you will meet their true face later, they can be good manipulators.

Female Libra is a bit different, but have similarities at some things, but I've always found Virgo Venus weird, just like Virgos can be generally But when you mix Libra and Virgo together, idk, me personally don't like it. It's an bad combination in my opinion, and maybe it can indicate jealousy.

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posted January 24, 2016 10:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for prettyinpink     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by MahaKali:
Don't know for you, but I must add that if there is one sign that I don't like at all, it's Libras. I am the first who don't like to comment just on Sun sign, but there is no single Libra with whom I was good.

And as a girl, I must comment Libra men first. I find them so narcissistic, in love with themselves, they want to be seen and you to admire them if you can in every second, they want to be dominant and they are good liars, also selfish. An perfect description for an Libra man is Dorian Gray, that's how I find them. And all of these they will do at passive way, so you will meet their true face later, they can be good manipulators.

Female Libra is a bit different, but have similarities at some things, but I've always found Virgo Venus weird, just like Virgos can be generally But when you mix Libra and Virgo together, idk, me personally don't like it. It's an bad combination in my opinion, and maybe it can indicate jealousy.


lol at Dorian Gray! Indeed, Libra men are full of themselves. They are nice to be around and to hang out with, but that's all.

Women are ten times worse. If you say "I bought a new purse" they'll RUN and buy one too, preferably better than yours. They're jealous of everybody, they need to feel better than others. But most of them hide it well...I never had problems with other Libra women - I'm not a big fan of them and it's mutual, but we are polite to each other. But my co worker...she doesn't even try to hide it. It's funny actually, she gets mad at anything that makes other people happy.

What's your sun sign, btw?

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MahaKali
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posted January 25, 2016 06:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MahaKali     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by prettyinpink:
lol at Dorian Gray! Indeed, Libra men are full of themselves. They are nice to be around and to hang out with, but that's all.

Women are ten times worse. If you say "I bought a new purse" they'll RUN and buy one too, preferably better than yours. They're jealous of everybody, they need to feel better than others. But most of them hide it well...I never had problems with other Libra women - I'm not a big fan of them and it's mutual, but we are polite to each other. But my co worker...she doesn't even try to hide it. It's funny actually, she gets mad at anything that makes other people happy.

What's your sun sign, btw?


Yea, seems like there is no help for this sign. Damn, I am evil. But it's just my experience with them, also there is few Libras I know, with Virgo Venus, all of them are freaks with with an weird fetishes and think they are center of the world, that they are the smartest ones and know everything. And if you find yourself near them, they will just talk and talk, and others will listen to them whole night if they can not escape.

I am:
Sun Capricorn
AC Scorpio
Moon Pisces (you don't like, but that's ok )
Mars Cancer
Venus Aquarius
Mercury Sagittarius

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Sikanda
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posted January 25, 2016 12:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sikanda     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I believe that this is a karmic connection. Maybe there's a reason why she should cross your path like this and she's affecting you in that manner probably because there is something here that you must learn from that connection in order to go on, be it learning to ignore her, to let go...
If you'd like a reading about this, let me know and I can do for you.

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posted January 25, 2016 01:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Julz87     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It so strange all your planet sign placements compliment very nicely. Maybe except the Moon which is key. Could be an unevolved Libra?

Pisces Moon is very selfless - people naturally gravitate towards these people - maybe thats what's making you tick. Where as Aquarius Moons are very liberal-accepting as well but can display indifference, a cool detached exterior and people naturally crave warmth, some sort of connection, though both posses humanitarian tendencies. Take a look at Astrology 2.0 there was a poll going around as to what Moons generally people like or gravitate towards to (regardless if our own moon sign is compatible or not) - Pisces Moon took the cake. They seem like lovely people.

Judging from your placements (even if you are a Sag Sun) she seems like the more outgoing one - Leo Mars: action oriented, competitive, they are always ON & Mercury Libra: knows how to charm with her words ..Usually when we don't like someone or are prone to jealousy is when that other person posses an attribute within themselves that we ourselves would like to posses therefore we mirror. Another difference between both your placements is that you tend to see the big picture where as she is prone to detail (sees the minor details) those two can clash quite a bit but can compliment very nicely as a team, you have what she lacks and vice versa.

You should post your synastrys or composite.

I attract Sags a lot longest relationship was with a Sag 5+ yrs but faves are Virgo's (analytical perfectionist mofo's) Aries (brave adrenaline junkies) Leo's (fun and overprotective) Capricorns (ambitious) Taurus (comforting) Scorpios (intense & mean as hell) Cancer (sensitive) Geminis (logical) what the hell I love all signs and can't decide I'm a Libra after all

Venus placements for vain tendencies are the following but you also you have to take into consideration the whole chart as aspects & house placement play an important part:
Venus in Libra, Virgo, Leo, Pisces, & Taurus

Risings signs for vain tendencies:
Libra, Leo, Virgo maybe Taurus idk about this one.

Btw all sings placements are prone to jealousy, not just Libra & Virgo people, we all feel jealousy at some point in our lives - its human nature.

I'm:
Libra Sun
Capricorn Moon
Libra Rising
Virgo Mars
Scorpio Mercury
Libra Venus

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posted January 25, 2016 02:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for outofideas     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well, i personally haven't met many Libras in my life, but i had a university tutor who was weird.

Just like your co-worker he is:

Libra Sun
Pisces Moon
Libra Mercury

We were a small group of students and i was the only girl during our classes. So, as most of our tutors, he was quite friendly and open to us, in his own way. I would say he certainly is one with self-confidence, although nothing extreme. His attitude was consistent and perhaps inducing respect in others. However accepting and supportive that tutor was to everyone, we all noticed that he was prejudiced and judgmental to me.

At first i was enjoying his classes but soon enough he started making fun of me and undermine me in front of everyone. I did nothing to provoke this, he was just picking on me. And this lasted for a long time, he even didn't want to recognise the effort i was putting in my course works. Which was a shame because i actually really enjoyed the disciplines he taught.

It felt like he didn't want to accept i'm a serious student who actually can perform well. He's 40+ and single, and from what i could gather he must have had some issues with females - he would just not see them as equal human beings

Anyway, with time, things got much better and he actually became nicer towards me, and i can add that we've learned some valuable lessons in his classes. All in all, it seems like Libras can be prejudiced for no real reason (affected by something from their past?) and might not be afraid to show that.

As for Libra females i believe they need to be complimented on their beauty all of the time... they care about how they appear in other's eyes

I'm also a Sag Sun, but that's all we seem to have in common regarding planetary positions

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posted January 25, 2016 03:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for prettyinpink     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by MahaKali:
Yea, seems like there is no help for this sign. Damn, I am evil. But it's just my experience with them, also there is few Libras I know, with Virgo Venus, all of them are freaks with with an weird fetishes and think they are center of the world, that they are the smartest ones and know everything. And if you find yourself near them, they will just talk and talk, and others will listen to them whole night if they can not escape.

I am:
Sun Capricorn
AC Scorpio
Moon Pisces (you don't like, but that's ok )
Mars Cancer
Venus Aquarius
Mercury Sagittarius


I think I don't know anyone else with Virgo Venus...I always thought Pisces moon was the problem because, from what I've seen, it makes people kind of...twisted lol. Once I met a Taurus Sun - Pisces Moon; if I had to guess, I'd never think he was a Taurus. I know a Scorpio with Pisces moon too, and he's one of the most bipolar people I know.

I know sun sign alone says little about someone and the whole chart is what matters, but there always seems to be a "pattern" - you can easily differ a Taurus sun from a Gemini sun, for example. However, I've noticed that Pisces moon overpowers the sun sign. My co-worker is completely different from other Libras I know. I don't know how it works for you though

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posted January 25, 2016 03:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for prettyinpink     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Sikanda:
I believe that this is a karmic connection. Maybe there's a reason why she should cross your path like this and she's affecting you in that manner probably because there is something here that you must learn from that connection in order to go on, be it learning to ignore her, to let go...
If you'd like a reading about this, let me know and I can do for you.

I'd like, please

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posted January 25, 2016 03:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for prettyinpink     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Julz87:
It so strange all your planet sign placements compliment very nicely. Maybe except the Moon which is key. Could be an unevolved Libra?

Pisces Moon is very selfless - people naturally gravitate towards these people - maybe thats what's making you tick. Where as Aquarius Moons are very liberal-accepting as well but can display indifference, a cool detached exterior and people naturally crave warmth, some sort of connection, though both posses humanitarian tendencies. Take a look at Astrology 2.0 there was a poll going around as to what Moons generally people like or gravitate towards to (regardless if our own moon sign is compatible or not) - Pisces Moon took the cake. They seem like lovely people.

Judging from your placements (even if you are a Sag Sun) she seems like the more outgoing one - Leo Mars: action oriented, competitive, they are always ON & Mercury Libra: knows how to charm with her words ..Usually when we don't like someone or are prone to jealousy is when that other person posses an attribute within themselves that we ourselves would like to posses therefore we mirror. Another difference between both your placements is that you tend to see the big picture where as she is prone to detail (sees the minor details) those two can clash quite a bit but can compliment very nicely as a team, you have what she lacks and vice versa.

You should post your synastrys or composite.

I attract Sags a lot longest relationship was with a Sag 5+ yrs but faves are Virgo's (analytical perfectionist mofo's) Aries (brave adrenaline junkies) Leo's (fun and overprotective) Capricorns (ambitious) Taurus (comforting) Scorpios (intense & mean as hell) Cancer (sensitive) Geminis (logical) what the hell I love all signs and can't decide I'm a Libra after all

Venus placements for vain tendencies are the following but you also you have to take into consideration the whole chart as aspects & house placement play an important part:
Venus in Libra, Virgo, Leo, Pisces, & Taurus

Risings signs for vain tendencies:
Libra, Leo, Virgo maybe Taurus idk about this one.

Btw all sings placements are prone to jealousy, not just Libra & Virgo people, we all feel jealousy at some point in our lives - its human nature.

I'm:
Libra Sun
Capricorn Moon
Libra Rising
Virgo Mars
Scorpio Mercury
Libra Venus


She's definetely more outgoing than I am. She talks to everyone - even to me lol -, even though she doesn't care about these people. She just loves the attention she gets.

To tell you the truth, I never felt like a Sag. My moon says a lot more about me...I'm a reserved person and even after I get to know people better I'm quite detached and keep lots of things for myself only.

At first I tried to befriend her or at least stay on good terms, showing her she had no reason to hate me, but it was useless.

I usually like Libras. My best male friend is a Libra Sun - Gemini Moon


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posted January 25, 2016 04:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for prettyinpink     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by outofideas:
Well, i personally haven't met many Libras in my life, but i had a university tutor who was weird.

Just like your co-worker he is:

Libra Sun
Pisces Moon
Libra Mercury

We were a small group of students and i was the only girl during our classes. So, as most of our tutors, he was quite friendly and open to us, in his own way. I would say he certainly is one with self-confidence, although nothing extreme. His attitude was consistent and perhaps inducing respect in others. However accepting and supportive that tutor was to everyone, we all noticed that he was prejudiced and judgmental to me.

At first i was enjoying his classes but soon enough he started making fun of me and undermine me in front of everyone. I did nothing to provoke this, he was just picking on me. And this lasted for a long time, he even didn't want to recognise the effort i was putting in my course works. Which was a shame because i actually really enjoyed the disciplines he taught.

It felt like he didn't want to accept i'm a serious student who actually can perform well. He's 40+ and single, and from what i could gather he must have had some issues with females - he would just not see them as equal human beings

Anyway, with time, things got much better and he actually became nicer towards me, and i can add that we've learned some valuable lessons in his classes. All in all, it seems like Libras can be prejudiced for no real reason (affected by something from their past?) and might not be afraid to show that.

As for Libra females i believe they need to be complimented on their beauty all of the time... they care about how they appear in other's eyes

I'm also a Sag Sun, but that's all we seem to have in common regarding planetary positions


Most Libras I know try to hide it when they don't like someone. They simply stay away from that person. That's why I think one of my co-worker's other placements is responsible for her shady behavior lol now that you mentioned, it could be her Libra Mercury.

She doesn't confront me directly - she throws hints. I usually don't respond to these hints, I pretend I don't notice them and keep being nice to her. Later I get back at her after I have some time to think. It's not like I can start an argument and get rid of her

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posted January 25, 2016 06:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for outofideas     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by prettyinpink:

She doesn't confront me directly - she throws hints. I usually don't respond to these hints, I pretend I don't notice them and keep being nice to her. Later I get back at her after I have some time to think. It's not like I can start an argument and get rid of her

Damn, i'm the same... it must be a Sag thing...we probably need to learn how to deal with it instead of just pretending we didn't notice, when in truth we *always* notice and it bothers us later. I don't think it does us any good to keep closing our eyes and remain nice to those who don't exactly have positive intentions, as it allows it to exacerbate.

I suppose you don't truly dislike this person, as much as you're trying to find out why they're acting the way they do. Perhaps next time she does her thing challenge her to explain or justify why she does it?

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posted January 25, 2016 06:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for prettyinpink     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by outofideas:
Damn, i'm the same... it must be a Sag thing...we probably need to learn how to deal with it instead of just pretending we didn't notice, when in truth we *always* notice and it bothers us later. I don't think it does us any good to keep closing our eyes and remain nice to those who don't exactly have positive intentions, as it allows it to exacerbate.

I suppose you don't truly dislike this person, as much as you're trying to find out why they're acting the way they do. Perhaps next time she does her thing challenge her to explain or justify why she does it?


She would never tell me. She hates women in general, but specially me.

At first I didn't dislike her, but after all she's done I can't stand her anymore. I avoid her all the time.

Also, ignoring and later getting back works as a passive aggressive technique I think we should keep it up, some people don't deserve our honesty.

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posted January 25, 2016 06:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for outofideas     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
People usually don't want to be told the truth or find it difficult to deal with our honesty, so this can be made in to a good weapon

Well it sounds like she's not worth your time and energy, some people simply can't be helped. She must be with a troubled personality, so as long as it doesn't interfere with your job or you're not tightly working together then you shouldn't need to deal with her primitive behaviour.

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posted January 25, 2016 07:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MahaKali     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by prettyinpink:
I think I don't know anyone else with Virgo Venus...I always thought Pisces moon was the problem because, from what I've seen, it makes people kind of...twisted lol. Once I met a Taurus Sun - Pisces Moon; if I had to guess, I'd never think he was a Taurus. I know a Scorpio with Pisces moon too, and he's one of the most bipolar people I know.

I know sun sign alone says little about someone and the whole chart is what matters, but there always seems to be a "pattern" - you can easily differ a Taurus sun from a Gemini sun, for example. However, I've noticed that Pisces moon overpowers the sun sign. My co-worker is completely different from other Libras I know. I don't know how it works for you though



Twisted haha, yea good word to describe. But to be honest, I can be very moody. I think that my Cancer Mars plays big role in it also, and my Moon and Venus in 4th house. Idk, Pisces Moon can be good for people who love nurturing, cause it's an emotional, sensitive Moon. But also there is bad side. And it depends also on other person, what they like, like you said you don't like it. So nobody is perfect, but I just can't stand Libra men, they are the worst and I attract them for some unknown reason..

And idk if it's good to comment Libra women, cause I don't know many. The one I know was my good friend, but she got pregnant, now has a kid, and she just disappeared. But there is one Libra woman, with Moon and Venus in Scorpio, and my friend had big problem with her, she liked so much my friend's boyfriend, and they couldn't live in peace cause of her, she was really crazy and jealous, like an psychopath, wrote him messages all the time, tried to separate them and so on.

Yea, that's true, you are your Natal Chart, not just your Sun sign, but all of us have traits of our sign.

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posted January 26, 2016 01:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sikanda     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by prettyinpink:
I'd like, please

Ok, I pulled out Nine of Swords as an advice for this situation. It seems this situation has you excessively worried :/. Well the advice is not to worry that much, but to do something about it and work it through. It could be kind of a wake up call from 'the nightmare' into reality (maybe to realise that things weren't as awful as you expected?).
As I asked for clarification I got three of wands, so it seems the solution needed in this case is taking a step back from the current situation, in which you might feel stuck right now, and think from a broader perspective. Focus on your goals and passions and keep them present. This person won't be an obstacle to achieve whatever you want to.

Let me know if it resonates with you.

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