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Topic: what are his intentions?
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Aurora_girl1990 Knowflake Posts: 528 From: kuala lumpur,malaysia Registered: Feb 2013
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posted January 27, 2016 10:31 AM
Hi i met a guy on ok cupid in person.I'm just not sure what he's intentions are towards me whether it's good or bad intentions.If anyone could help me with this i'd really appreciate it.Thanks IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 61714 From: Saturn next to Charmaine Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 28, 2016 02:44 PM
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Aurora_girl1990 Knowflake Posts: 528 From: kuala lumpur,malaysia Registered: Feb 2013
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posted January 29, 2016 02:27 PM
thanks Randall for the bump IP: Logged |
Aurora_girl1990 Knowflake Posts: 528 From: kuala lumpur,malaysia Registered: Feb 2013
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posted January 30, 2016 05:49 AM
bump?IP: Logged |
Ceridwen Moderator Posts: 23794 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted January 30, 2016 07:48 AM
Strength - Ace of Wands - Death (clarifier: 3 of swords)Upps, sorry, but my first thought was he wants sex, he might still downplay it, or try to temper his impulses (Strenght card), but Strenght is also a lustful crd, as is Ace of wands, and Death "can" be about the "little death". With the clarifier to what that transforms into of 3 of swords, I don`t get a good feeling of this spread, almost looks like he might already be in a relationship, and this would lead to a lot of heartache for you? I sincerely hope I am wrong, and would like other readers to pull, too. That spread was just too "single-mindedly" focused on a sexual intention.
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Aurora_girl1990 Knowflake Posts: 528 From: kuala lumpur,malaysia Registered: Feb 2013
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posted January 30, 2016 09:30 AM
quote: Originally posted by Ceridwen: Strength - Ace of Wands - Death (clarifier: 3 of swords)Upps, sorry, but my first thought was he wants sex, he might still downplay it, or try to temper his impulses (Strenght card), but Strenght is also a lustful crd, as is Ace of wands, and Death "can" be about the "little death". With the clarifier to what that transforms into of 3 of swords, I don`t get a good feeling of this spread, almost looks like he might already be in a relationship, and this would lead to a lot of heartache for you? I sincerely hope I am wrong, and would like other readers to pull, too. That spread was just too "single-mindedly" focused on a sexual intention.
That's just bizarre.That's exactly how it's been going so far.He keeps asking me sexual questions yet when i confront him about wanting sex with me,he downplays it. And the part about him still being in a relationship-well it's not clear what happen between him and his gf ,all i know is she doesn't want to marry him.I don't know if they are still together but he still refers to her as his gf. So you might be onto something there Ceri.Uncanny really because as i read this reply,i was talking about this guy to another friend who said that he just wants sex too. IP: Logged |
Aurora_girl1990 Knowflake Posts: 528 From: kuala lumpur,malaysia Registered: Feb 2013
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posted January 31, 2016 06:35 AM
bump.Anyone else?IP: Logged |
Aurora_girl1990 Knowflake Posts: 528 From: kuala lumpur,malaysia Registered: Feb 2013
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posted February 01, 2016 07:46 AM
please help.anyone?IP: Logged |
SereneDaze Knowflake Posts: 1622 From: Registered: Mar 2014
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posted February 01, 2016 08:28 AM
I don't know what else you could expect from a guy who already has a girlfriend but goes on OKcupid. That alone says a LOT about his character. To be honest you do not need readings to see where this is going to go, if he had any interest in pursuing you romantically and not just for something sexual on the side you would not be feeling so down, insecure and anxious for yourself. I think deep down you know the answer to this situation already. Cut this guy off, you deserve so much better!IP: Logged |