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posted January 29, 2016 06:19 PM            

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Hey you

Just wanted to let you know that it is not even February yet,(not quite) however you said in November that things would start to change with J in three months. Yup you're right,as always, and practically had to push him away as he started flirting with me today big time. I need to buy a big stick. Or maybe a shotgun to put him in his place.

How are things going with you? Enjoy your weekend. Poochy

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posted January 30, 2016 04:23 AM            

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I'm glad you are getting what you hoped for.
I'm doing fine. Not much going on with me. Ty.

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posted January 30, 2016 11:52 AM            

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Hi,

I guess you misunderstood me. This is something I do NOT want. I want a friendship nothing else. I am married and even though we are having problems I am trying to work on it. Having an affair is only going to add fuel to the fire. I have always been a little bit nervous about if/when he would make his move to the point of changing my times at work. Remember when we talked about that? Yes I am attracted to him. That doesn't go away just because you are married. It is a human trait.

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posted January 30, 2016 12:09 PM            

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its not like I meant something bad.I get 20 initials a day to give insights Im sorry but I cant always connect who each one is. I gave an insight not meaning to insult your marriage, like I told you once I never judge.
If it means anything he wont stay flirty that long. it an on/off thing right now and he like I said was in a good mood so shared it in that way.
Why you think I would want mean something bad towards you I dont know. I never will, never had.

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posted January 30, 2016 01:45 PM            

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Hi back
It's because you said "I'm glad you are getting what you hoped for." I interpreted that as if you felt that I wanted to take things further with J. Nothing could be further from the truth. Admittedly I enjoy all the flirting. It's a real ego boost for this 64 year old woman from a man who is younger.

I am glad that you are not one to judge then. To me it sounded that way. All is forgotten.

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posted January 30, 2016 02:03 PM            

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I didnt even mean it in that way but trying to show support if that was what you had in your hopes. You misread it.

Anyway.. doesnt matter as its only flirting and you have the power to stop it and do as you wish.

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posted January 30, 2016 03:02 PM            

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It's O.K

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