posted February 02, 2016 01:23 PM            

I do have a question: what is this karma I have with her? Why does she do this to me, while I do everything I can to her???

posted February 03, 2016 02:50 PM            

I am sorry, that you are having so horrible relationship with your mother. I have similar with my father. Ain’t nice at all when you don’t get along with people who should actually be always at your side.

So I asked: Why does her mother threat her this horrible way?

I did Tarot and Leno for you.

For you I got cards that are denoting you avoiding conflict whenever is possible (are you that kind of person who would rather just walk away instead of fighting with someone?). It might just be that right now you can’t avoid (psychically or physically) any more away from those problems.

I believe that the root of you mother’s behaviour is her high expectations (at least in some way). Decisions that she makes in conversation with you are rash, hasty and impulsive. It looks like she wants to dominate, is pushy somehow. Cards denote that perhaps she doesn’t even realise the fact that she crosses the line between being parental and being just simply aggressive. According to cards it looks like you have no control over her behaviour. At least not at this particular point in time.

Perhaps her attitude has much more greater impact on you because you have a strong need for change at this moment (maybe transits to your Natal / Solar Chart could reveal more about that) or even more – maybe problems that you have at your household are actually forcing you to change something in your life so that you can move on and reach/get this what is destined for you. (I truly believe that when destiny wants to give us something than it will give us exactly that; whether we fight against it or just simply accept it. Only that accepting it will hurt us less (or won’t hurt us at all).) It all looks like February will bring you some more problems with your mother; or at least no significant progress is indicated. but there is also advice to just hold back, keep it to yourself.

As for advice cards are denoting that you need to stay positive and just simply optimistic. And think before you speak – really, rather just hold back and keep it to yourself instead of saying something that you could regret later! Also perhaps you could do some sports (or anything that needs strong physical effort). BUT bottom line you NEED focus to achieve your goals; focus your attention on your key priorities (pick them if you haven’t already) and stay committed to your goals without re-thinking or over-thinking about anything else. Opportunity will come to you and you need to be ready to just grab it – make yourself ready for it.

I hope that you are getting better. Soon. I send you lots of love from the other side of Earth.

posted February 03, 2016 05:32 PM            

So sorry to hear of your situation. I pulled these tarot cards in response to "why are you being mistreated by your mum": Devil. 8 of swords, 5 of cups

You need to end this relationship, which is causing you so much grief. 8 of swords is suggesting that you need to reflect on your status as a victim and acknowledge how you may be perpetuating this. You need to open your eyes and see that this situation can be ended. Five of cups too is a sad card - this situation is not a good one and needs changing.

I asked what you should do: King of wands, 3 of wands, Hanged man rx
You are a creative individual one who needs to follow through on their hopes and dreams. Believe that you have the talent to succeed. Take control of your life. Be assertive in this situation but not forceful. Remember that you are in charge. In this instance, I would suggest you clearly and firmly assert that you will not accept rudeness and bad behaviour. Saying 'no' to it is the same as saying 'yes' to yourself.

2 of wands speaks of balance in your situation - it means that you must raise your voice in objection to wrongs that you see. Hanged man rx is asking you to see the options open to you. It is now time to make a change - be aware that a sensible sacrifice made now of something that no longer works for you will open up your life to something even more positive than what you “let go of".

I also pulled an Angel messages card - Adriana.
This is asking you to follow your intuition - "notice the repetitious thoughts and feelings; or vivid visions, dreams, or auditory messages. These are my loving messages, urging you to take actions or make changes. I will make sure that you are safe while you follow this Divine guidance. "

posted February 04, 2016 11:12 AM            

Well, you both picked up well the situation. I feel lost, I feel I need to do something. But right now, I can't move... Not alone. All my friends are married or are living with their partners.

But I won't lose my hopes. I think drawing is the relief I have in hands right now, and I'm going to a short trip on Monday (and mom complained A LOT).