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posted February 12, 2016 06:02 PM            

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What happened between me and f, is he coming back and is there a future?

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posted February 12, 2016 06:38 PM            

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Hi colourful butterfly,
I will read for you .
I got that yes, he will come back to you. Ten of cups is a very positive card that talks of happiness and togetherness.

As for the outcome between both of you, I got the 6 of Pentacles, which speaks of generosity and care for each other, but one might be more invested into this than the other.

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posted February 12, 2016 07:00 PM            

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Hi colourful butterfly,
I will read for you .
I got that yes, he will come back to you. Ten of cups is a very positive card that talks of happiness and togetherness.

As for the outcome between both of you, I got the 6 of Pentacles, which speaks of generosity and care for each other, but one might be more invested into this than the other.

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Ok, thank you so much!!! Sigh.. which one? I'm so tired of getting hurt.

Is there a way to yell how long before he comes back?

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posted February 12, 2016 07:25 PM            

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I havent known him long and we had a falling out. I deleted his number and not sure if I'll talk to him unless he proves to me he's sorry and has some kind of better respect for me. Errrrr!!! I was sooo mad at him!!! I do know no one is perfect so hopefully he will return to me the guy I met vs the guy I last talked to. When I met he was the perfect guy!!!!

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posted February 12, 2016 07:26 PM            

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Ok, thank you so much!!! Sigh.. which one? I'm so tired of getting hurt.

Is there a way to yell how long before he comes back?

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Well I asked again and it seems very possible that you would be the most interested in making it work, more interested in fulfilling your wishes with this relationship. He does care, and he is being patient but he seems more disconnected. And it seems it will take quite a long time for him to be back to your life, yes. As for the time I'm getting about 11 weeks (page of swords), but page of swords could also mean autumn.

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posted February 12, 2016 07:41 PM            

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Well I asked again and it seems very possible that you would be the most interested in making it work, more interested in fulfilling your wishes with this relationship. He does care, and he is being patient but he seems more disconnected. And it seems it will take quite a long time for him to be back to your life, yes. As for the time I'm getting about 11 weeks (page of swords), but page of swords could also mean autumn.

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Oh wow! Ok, that's good to know! Thank you so much!!! So would he be my future husband?

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posted February 12, 2016 08:20 PM            

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Sorry to ask so many questions, I really do appreciate you help!!! I really liked him because it's the first time I'd felt alive in 2 years or so.

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posted February 12, 2016 08:35 PM            

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Well you are welcome. Look, on a side note, whoever you want to can become your future husband . But yes, I get that there's potential for him to be your future husband.

I understand that he is very important to you. If you'd like my humble advice, though, I would try opening myself to life, looking for new experiences and embracing them all. Maybe that helps you see this from a new perspective.

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posted February 12, 2016 08:52 PM            

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Look, on a side note, whoever you want to can become your future husband . But yes, I get that there's potential for him to be your future husband.

I understand that he is very important to you. If you'd like my humble advice, though, I would try opening myself to life, looking for new experiences and embracing them all. Maybe that helps you see this from a new perspective.

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I did not know this!!!! I did not know it was my choice,like whatever I wanted would happen. I thought every thing was faited. Thank you for letting me know that! !! Definatly, I'm very much about my self respect and won't tolerate anything less of someone but I have learned you have to teach someone how to love you.

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posted February 12, 2016 08:54 PM            

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Definatly 10 million people in this world, I will open up more to life and the experiences that it brings!! Thank you so much again!

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posted February 12, 2016 09:01 PM            

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Yes, I'm happy to hear that, you definitely should . It's good to know that my words had a positive effect on you.

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posted February 12, 2016 09:06 PM            

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Yes, I'm happy to hear that, you definitely should . It's good to know that my words had a positive effect on you.

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Definitely so! Thank you, thank you, thank you!!!!

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posted March 11, 2016 09:03 PM            

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Hi colourful butterfly,
I will read for you .
I got that yes, he will come back to you. Ten of cups is a very positive card that talks of happiness and togetherness.

As for the outcome between both of you, I got the 6 of Pentacles, which speaks of generosity and care for each other, but one might be more invested into this than the other.

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Just wanted to give an update on him. He contacted me in 11 days. It ended up the same as before. He didn't come back as the same guy, he seems distant which made me distant. I felt like he had someone else , actually told this. I questioned him about it but he would avoid answering. When we are together we have amazing chemistry but I can pick up that he has someone else or distracted. He is not as into me as he once was. I'm wandering if autumn is when they break up and he comes back around or whatever.He'd have to contact me, I am not chasing him. I don't even know if I'd give him another chance. I told him I was looking for a husband and he said he didn't see himself ever getting married. I'm not ready for marriage yet but what if I want it someday? Plus, he's seems to just want to play games whereas I am not fond of it. It's like he wanted me to be about him but he wasn't about me , he wouldn't answer questions I had and just disregard for any of my feelings. I just don't get it but I guess it's not ment to be gotten . I just want a man who wants something serious with me.

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