posted March 03, 2016 05:00 PM            

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Originally posted by ikja:
I didn't see sweetie x thanks for posting.

What's your question? I'm here now x

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hi ikja!

posted March 03, 2016 05:04 PM            

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Originally posted by ikja:
Thanks for your reading Hun.
I think it definitely picks up on the main impressions that I have picked up with him. He such a difficult person to deal with.

I'm going to pull on your question in a sec!

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posted March 03, 2016 05:22 PM            

From these cards, I get the feeling that for a significant time in your life... Perhaps your dad was not as present in your life as he could have been (ship). I pulled a clarifier in this card and it was lily. This suggests to me that perhaps he wasn't as emotionally connected to you (lady) as he could have been whilst you were growing up. There was a lack of intimacy for some reason - he may have been emotionally or physically distance. It seems to me that following this distance, perhaps you went back and forth with him verbally (whip).

Alternatively, you may have fought with yourself mentally (whip + crossroads). Deciding what you had to do to get over your experiences with him.

Regardless of the decision that you decided to make, it affected you deeply (fish - fishes swim in water) and that is perhaps what lingers with you today? You may have discussed this issues you have had with him, with him directly... But the "leftover" hurt still lingers - perhaps subconsciously and this is what causes you unease today.

I think the issue is that for some time, you have been pretending or avoiding the fact that there is some leftover ill feeling and you need to address this, before you will be able to move on. You've got some personal mysteries to uncover and perhaps that is what you need to embark on?

posted March 03, 2016 05:31 PM            

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Originally posted by ikja:
So I asked: Why does Lily hate her dad?
I pulled: Ship (+ Lily + Lady) + Whip (+ Crossroads) + Fish (+ Book)

From these cards, I get the feeling that for a significant time in your life... Perhaps your dad was not as present in your life as he could have been (ship). I pulled a clarifier in this card and it was lily. This suggests to me that perhaps he wasn't as emotionally connected to you (lady) as he could have been whilst you were growing up. There was a lack of intimacy for some reason - he may have been emotionally or physically distance. It seems to me that following this distance, perhaps you went back and forth with him verbally (whip).

Alternatively, you may have fought with yourself mentally (whip + crossroads). Deciding what you had to do to get over your experiences with him.

Regardless of the decision that you decided to make, it affected you deeply (fish - fishes swim in water) and that is perhaps what lingers with you today? You may have discussed this issues you have had with him, with him directly... But the "leftover" hurt still lingers - perhaps subconsciously and this is what causes you unease today.

I think the issue is that for some time, you have been pretending or avoiding the fact that there is some leftover ill feeling and you need to address this, before you will be able to move on. You've got some personal mysteries to uncover and perhaps that is what you need to embark on?

I hope this reasonates, even on a basic level xxx

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yes, this.is exactly what is going on, you are really good!!! everything resonates deeply, except for the part that I never talked with him about this, I always feel some kind of unease or embarrassment when I have to talk or even think about this. When I was little, we three, my mother him and I were living in Romania, so he came to Spain leaving us there so that he could come to Spain and start a new life, I mean a new life in which we two, my mom and I, were included. he came here to find a house, job, etc, and give me a better life. that's why I feel sometimes bad about the situation because he distanced himself for this reason, he didn't left on purpose or abandoned us. but the feelings are still there and I still can't get over them

posted March 03, 2016 05:39 PM            

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Originally posted by ikja:
Yes go on! I'll try my best lol xx

I may do one of them today and then the last one tomorrow. Hope that's ok? Don't want to be inaccurate X

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sure! take ur time!

Q1: do you think this whole situation with my dad is why I keep experiencing man in my life abandoning me suddenly?

Q2: I would like to ask here for a tarot reading from the situation with my ex. Let me explain a lil: we didn't talk in a long time, but I somehow have a gut feeling that he is gonna contact me. Anyways I'll probably just be having false hopes though. But I'd like to know the whole situation about this: was there love? did he missed me sometimes? did he regret breaking up? and things Like that. I mean, a general reading about the situation, because I'm still a lil confused, if that could be possible

posted March 03, 2016 06:00 PM            

So, I asked: Is the situation with your dad the reason why men disappear on you suddenly?

First card pulled: Child (yes). This card is symbolic of new beginnings and therefore, it implies a 'yes, rebirth is necessary). In addition to this, I think it's interesting that your problems with your father started off when you were younger. Perhaps the child reaffirms the root cause of your current issues with men. Things that begun when you were a child, are still lingering and affecting you.

I then asked: What does Lily need to do to move past these issues?

Cards pulled: Lady + Mice (+ Mountain + Coffin) + Tree

I think it's really interesting that the lady card appears in this spread, as it suggests that your active effort/participation is necessary to ensure that your inner struggles are managed and overcome. The centre card is the mice card, which suggests that addressing your emotional state is the key to improving your relationships with other men.

Stability (tree - which is at the end of the spread) is promised to you (lady) provided that you are willing to do the necessary work to move past your emotional burdens (mice).

When I sought to clarify HOW you may do this, I pulled mountain which indicates blockages and suppression overall. You need to get passed the mindset that 'nothing will work' (mountain + coffin). This leads me to ask you the following rhetorical questions: What is blocking you from moving forward? What still hurts? When you answer those questions, you will be led to a new beginning.

You will be able to start afresh (mice + tree) and start again.

posted March 03, 2016 06:26 PM            

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Originally posted by ikja:
Will do your love reading tomorrow dear xx
It's my favourite thing! Lol looking forward to it x

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posted March 03, 2016 06:28 PM            

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Originally posted by lilypad18:
hahahahaha how come most of all tarot readers favorite thing are love readings?

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posted March 03, 2016 06:33 PM            

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I have Venus opposite Pluto natally, so I can really sympathise with loving situations lol. It's a blessing and a curse loool X

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omg, I'm really interested in that. If you can and have time, I would like to know how that aspect manifests in your life

posted March 05, 2016 10:20 AM            

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Originally posted by ikja:
Will do this tonight sweetie x

Sorry for delay, my bro came round last night. Haven't see him for over a year. Will hook you up today Xx

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posted March 05, 2016 11:48 AM            

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Originally posted by FmVenusWLove:
Hey Lily!
SO sorry for the delay! This week was a bit crazy but I'm all yours today. What questions would you like to ask?

Will leave feedback on the Astrology reading you did for me as well - it was great! Thank you so much for such a thorough look

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hi girl! don't worry we all have time to spend outside of here hahahahaha I'm happy you liked the Astro reading

well, my questions:

-Does T like me? what are his feelings for me?
-Should I participate in the competition?
-Do you see me starting something special this year?

posted March 05, 2016 08:33 PM            

Did X love Lily?

Initial card pulled: Coffin (No) I get the feeling that there were not strong feelings of love from X to you because he was dead inside for some reason. That's not to say that he didn't have fond feelings for you; but it might be the case that they were not as strong for you as the ones you had for him. It might even be the case that he met you at a stage in his life where he was undergoing transformation and healing or recovering from another situation. Relationship or otherwise.

I asked for clarification on this, and got Mice + Tower + Cloud

These cards confirm my intial feelings and suggest that perhaps he was having difficulties or worrying about a relationship with an authoraritive body or person. The doubt surrounding a resolution in this area made him rather closed or or left him without the capacity to give to you in the way you wanted him to.

Does X regret breaking up with Lily?

Initial card pulled: Crossroads (maybe) - This card suggests that missing you is a possibility. However, he hasn't been able to settle on a definitive train of thought. In other words, he hasn't been able to make up his mind about missing you.

So then I asked, what is preventing X from making a decision: Letter + Garden + Mountain.

Is your ex a sociable person? Is he always on the go? Does he have a lot of friends? Does he go out a lot. These cards simply suggest to me that he has been keeping himself busy with other events and parties or a main event or party that has had complications associated with it.

Does X miss your presence in his life?

Cards pulled: Birds + Lady + Ship

These cards suggest that he does generally miss your presence in his life - especially the conversations that you used to have because you offered him the opportunity to escape from the issues or the hurt that he was experiencing or had been experiencing. Are you significantly different to him in some way? (Like culturally or regionally)... I get the impression that he was intrigued by the "foreignness" you brought to your interactions. Alternatively, it might be that because you were so emotionally open or had a desire to love... This was attractive or interesting to him. He likes you're openness and willingness.

Will X and Lily reunite in the next 6 months?

Initial card pulled: Sun (yes) this card shows that the reunion may be quite passionate. Not in a romantic way given the previous cards, but because deep feelings on your side may be stirred up and you will find that you need to address them. It might even be that you feel empowered to reach out following the personal growth and soul searching that you will do around issues related to your dad.

I wanted to know how a reunion may come about and pulled: Flowers + Lily + Key

Is your birthday coming up within the next 6 months? Is it possible that he may reach out to wish you a happy birthday? I think it's funny that the lily card is the central card (hence why I asked if it was your birthday). If your birthday is not coming up, it could be that you that reaches out to him on his birthday and then things will flow from there.

posted March 05, 2016 08:42 PM            

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Originally posted by ikja:
Apologies for the delay sweetie, I'm here now and I've got the cards for your question:

Did X love Lily?

Initial card pulled: Coffin (No) I get the feeling that there were not strong feelings of love from X to you because he was dead inside for some reason. That's not to say that he didn't have fond feelings for you; but it might be the case that they were not as strong for you as the ones you had for him. It might even be the case that he met you at a stage in his life where he was undergoing transformation and healing or recovering from another situation. Relationship or otherwise.

I asked for clarification on this, and got Mice + Tower + Cloud

These cards confirm my intial feelings and suggest that perhaps he was having difficulties or worrying about a relationship with an authoraritive body or person. The doubt surrounding a resolution in this area made him rather closed or or left him without the capacity to give to you in the way you wanted him to.

Does X regret breaking up with Lily?

Initial card pulled: Crossroads (maybe) - This card suggests that missing you is a possibility. However, he hasn't been able to settle on a definitive train of thought. In other words, he hasn't been able to make up his mind about missing you.

So then I asked, what is preventing X from making a decision: Letter + Garden + Mountain.

Is your ex a sociable person? Is he always on the go? Does he have a lot of friends? Does he go out a lot. These cards simply suggest to me that he has been keeping himself busy with other events and parties or a main event or party that has had complications associated with it.

Does X miss your presence in his life?

Cards pulled: Birds + Lady + Ship

These cards suggest that he does generally miss your presence in his life - especially the conversations that you used to have because you offered him the opportunity to escape from the issues or the hurt that he was experiencing or had been experiencing. Are you significantly different to him in some way? (Like culturally or regionally)... I get the impression that he was intrigued by the "foreignness" you brought to your interactions. Alternatively, it might be that because you were so emotionally open or had a desire to love... This was attractive or interesting to him. He likes you're openness and willingness.

Will X and Lily reunite in the next 6 months?

Initial card pulled: Sun (yes) this card shows that the reunion may be quite passionate. Not in a romantic way given the previous cards, but because deep feelings on your side may be stirred up and you will find that you need to address them. It might even be that you feel empowered to reach out following the personal growth and soul searching that you will do around issues related to your dad.

I wanted to know how a reunion may come about and pulled: Flowers + Lily + Key

Is your birthday coming up within the next 6 months? Is it possible that he may reach out to wish you a happy birthday? I think it's funny that the lily card is the central card (hence why I asked if it was your birthday). If your birthday is not coming up, it could be that you that reaches out to him on his birthday and then things will flow from there.

I hope at least some of this spread reasonates with you and I wish you all the best with the ex situation; I know how difficult such situations can be xxx

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omg thanks a lot ikja for this detailed reading! a lot of things resonate!!!

I am indeed from Romania and he is Spanish soo hahahahah thats what he may like, and yeah I think that he probably miss that thing too, he was having trouble with his mom and I always felt I was a big support for him in that matter

I dont really think he was a big social butterfly, but who knows maybe he changed hahahaahhah

my birthday nor his isnt coming in the 6 next
months though hahahahah

would it be possible if I asked you one more Q bout this?
it is about if I was really in love with him, because I dont really think so

posted March 06, 2016 01:46 AM            

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Originally posted by lilypad18:
hi girl! don't worry we all have time to spend outside of here hahahahaha I'm happy you liked the Astro reading

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Haha, that is true - good point Here we go!

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-Does T like me? what are his feelings for me?

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I admit, I love these questions. I'm happy to look at T and what's going there

Knight of Swords, 8 of Wands Rx, Ace of Coins

Are you an air sign by chance? Aquarius or Gemini in particular? Just curious.

I'm wondering if things are progressing quickly with T without any real understanding of wants/needs/or expectations. I believe things with T may be a bit hot and cold right now? I want to say that he he is definitely fixated on you to some extent. I believe it may be too soon for him to have developed a true emotional attachment to you, but based on this spread it does seem that he is interested. Is communication difficult or at times confusing between you two? I see in this spread that, though he seems interested and wants to move things forward with you, things seem to come to a standstill when it comes to taking action on that desire. I want to say that things either move forward at a rapid pace, then blow up in some way OR things just never get off the ground. Something about this interaction between you two is a little draining for him - there is the suggestion of a "stop" "go" "stop" pace between you and I think it wears him out a little. The Ace promises a new beginning though, one to build a strong foundation upon. It tells me that there is a strong intention to ground your relationship (what ever it may be at this point) and slowly start to move forward. This spread feels very much as though something is beginning - as though there is a spark that could develop into something lasting. However, it does not promise this future - the cards, though positive in my eyes, are also very changeable.

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-Should I participate in the competition?

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I don't ask "should" questions because, like yes/no questions, I find that they do not always generate accurate reading results as they do not utilize the strengths of the Tarot. I hope that's ok. I asked instead what the outcome would be if you participated in the competition and what the outcome would be if you didn't.

Participate: King of Wands RX, Nine of Swords
Don't Participate: 3 of Cups

Interesting. If you did decide to participate, I see this as being quite stressful for you. I believe you may have high expectations of what may happen in this competition - these expectations may push you to achieve what you may not be ready or capable of achieving at this time, causing you to feel pain, disappointment or just generally feel upset if things don't go the way you hoped. This competition could also bring out a side of you that may alienate you from others close to you. The cards speak of stress, worry, fear, feelings of disappointment and regret as the outcome. It could potentially be a good learning experience for you in terms of setting realistic expectations and how to be a better leader or more respectful of the limitations of yourself and others...but it will be a hard lesson learned.

If you do not participate, I see the opportunity to strengthen friendships and relationships, interestingly enough. The women in your life are highlighted here. There can be a real sense of camaraderie between you that may involve a very active social period. It seems that the 3 is heralding a new phase - it speaks of a completion, of a compromise finally reached, and of a break from stress.

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-Do you see me starting something special this year?

thanks beautiful!

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D'aw. What a nice compliment *blush*

I asked what is ahead for you in 2016 and pulled:

10 of Wands RX, The Magician RX (10 of Coins RX)

Hmmm, well I see your desire to start something reflected in this spread. You are very close to reaching the pinnacle in a few key areas of your life and are ready to manifest your ideas. I see your excitement. I see that you feel you have so much to give and that you have a lot of creative drive, but you also may be getting ahead of yourself. There is a sense of not recognizing and respecting your own limitations. Your biggest challenge this year will be to avoid overloading yourself. There is the danger that you may let important responsibilities slide because your goals are too lofty or misdirected - this will also affect your relationship with others and the quality of your relationships with those around you will be highlighted this year. Either way it is important to simplify in order to be successful.

Rather than seeing you start a new project, I see a need to step back and reevaluate what it is you are trying to create. Your spirituality is highlighted this year in the sense that, as you work through the delays and begin trying to create something for yourself, you will need to be calling on all parts of yourself. There is something about yourself that you've neglected - namely a skill or talent of some sort that you will find and utilize to its full potential this year. This is an important turning point for you and will likely reconnect you with something bigger than yourself, with spirituality, and with others on a deep spiritual level. I want to say that there is a sense of loneliness about this spread but that there will opportunities to open yourself up to inviting quality relationships with others into your life again. I think this year will be an important one for you to build the foundation for something special to come later on.

posted March 06, 2016 11:48 AM            

yes girl, I'm ALL air everything hahahahah my whole chart breathes ONLY air hahahahaha I'm a Libra sun plus Mercury, Gemini Ascendant, Aqua moon conjunct Aqua MC!!!!!

your answer really resonates with what's going on. The thing between us is that we have been since October last year without really knowing OR talking what was going on between us. There hasn't been any serious communication, from his side or from mine. I never felt actually the need of asking him what was going on, I had somehow clear in my mind that maybe he didn't like me or wasn't looking for a serious relationship, and I was okay with that. At first I liked him and wanted to get on a serious relationship with him, but the feelings suddenly disappeared from my part, and I was okay with us just being 'friends'. But lately he has been ******* me off with a lot of things and the manners with which he has been treating me, and I was about to give up on him and not hang out with him anymore, since we hanged out the last day and I felt really comfortable with him. He was really kind, and then I relaxed somehow and had much more fun. He also showed a little bit more interest in me, and somehow I felt that spark you are talking about. So thats why I asked the question, to see if from his side was really something going on, because on the other side, I don't really think the way he acts is how a friend would act, you know what I mean?? I don't know, I am sometimes confused but I don't feel like giving this subject a lot of attention, don't know why. What I don't understand is, why does he feel kinda drained when he spends time with me?

Competition question
Okay then, won't start any competition hahahahaha

2016 question

yes, it is really true. I've been having 2 really tough years and last year I made a change which helped me discover that I am a really creative person. And since this 2 years I didn't do anything interesting, just stayed like a cactus in my house, in a passive way, maybe that is why right now I feel this intense drive to create something. But you are right, maybe I need to consider a few things before.... hahahahah

thanks a lot darling, this reading was awesome.....

posted March 06, 2016 01:12 PM            

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Originally posted by ikja:
I'll be back again with your other question a little later dear xx

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