posted March 06, 2016 05:09 PM            

My question is
Would it be any use to kindly talk things through with E about what makes him feel hurt in our relationship?

posted March 06, 2016 08:04 PM            

I would love to exchange with you. Here's your reading.

4 of swords, king of swords, 4 of cups, * 8 of wands

The four of swords is showing that you are feeling a bit disconnected from E so yes I feel it would be good to talk to him. The king of swords would be him. The four of cups would be showing a feeling of inward discontent with him however your clarifier was the eight of wands showing progression. It is important to not push it on him though as he may not be ready to talk things through just yet. Best to give it some time when both of you have calmed down.

posted March 08, 2016 04:20 PM            

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Originally posted by poochycat:
Hi Sikanda,

I would love to exchange with you. Here's your reading.

4 of swords, king of swords, 4 of cups, * 8 of wands

The four of swords is showing that you are feeling a bit disconnected from E so yes I feel it would be good to talk to him. The king of swords would be him. The four of cups would be showing a feeling of inward discontent with him however your clarifier was the eight of wands showing progression. It is important to not push it on him though as he may not be ready to talk things through just yet. Best to give it some time when both of you have calmed down.

My question is after talking to Adimi, that J is feeling quite confused about our relationship. Will he give me hints that he wants a sexual relationship or just a friendly one. I feel he is suppressing a lot of feelings for me but he's not sure where I am coming from. Thanks if you could do this for me. Poochy

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Ahh alright thank you for the reading! I wasn't sure why but I couldn't seem to see it posted. Oh anyway yes, I'm feeling disconnected from him. I try to get in touch but he seems to make himself unavailable.. I might be wrong but I would think he knows how I feel (and if he doesn't it still hurts). So yes, I'm discontent and disappointed too.
A possibility is he might taking some revenge on me for something that I can't actually tell you 100% for sure. But the problem with him is that everything is a grey area and I never know where I stand :/. I wish I could talk to him and see what he tells me. I miss him a lot too, I can't believe it, when he chooses not to appear due to no excuses at all.
I think it would be lovely to know that we are both past this situation already.

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Now onto your reading. Yes, I saw your question on Adimi's thread and I decided to ask how J is feeling about you now. He seems to be quite passionate. There has been however some conflict between both of you that has led to a crisis in the way he sees things and he understands the relationship. He seems to be struggling right now, trying to get a grip over the situation, I can see the confusion there.

Ace of wands - Tower - Chariot

I think he feels there's magic and chemistry between you and it's also a very physical one. I think he does have sexual longings about yourself too. But at the same time he tries to remain in control of his feelings and emotions. The cards seem to point to a very close bond and a solid foundation for the relationship though. He feels secure and nourishing in it (and probably he looks after you so as to provide you and cover your physical needs). So in short I would say yes, he wants a sexual relationship and a friendly one too.

Page of pents - Ace of pents - King of cups

posted March 08, 2016 04:54 PM            

Thanks for my reading and I'm happy you saw yours I feel there is still some hope for the two of you. The cards are saying just to give it some time. Let me know.

posted March 08, 2016 05:59 PM            

Oh I see. Well then he probably is acting a bit cautious, but as I told you I got that his feelings for you are strong and the relationship seems well-grounded so no worries , I think with time it will things will go better. In fact, I got Knight of Pents for the progression of your relationship so that's a great positive sign.