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Topic: Is it truly over? (Giving Janus 4 midpoint reports in return for readings)
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Lumi0
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posted March 17, 2016 02:05 PM
  
I know Im being desperate, but this situation is becoming a nightmare for me. Im a Venus in 12th with Ve/Plu square and I don’t let go easily and after being together with someone who returned once; Im now having difficulties letting go of him because I still believe he wants to return. Problem is, he hasn’t and Im still waiting. I have done so many things to try and accept the situation (even banishing spells a friend of mine helped me with since I was having dreams of him daily and nightmares), meditation, affirmations and so on, yet I can’t let go because I don’t believe its over.So what is my question? Well, will we get back together and if yes, WHEN? If not, why? How does he think/feel about me right now? In return for readings, I will give you a Janus 4 midpoint report. To send you one, I will of course need your email address. The orb I will be using will be 0*50. And why not tarot? Because as it turns out, I can’t even read for friends anymore because I keep thinking about my own issues which affect the cards. IP: Logged |
MinceyMouse
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posted March 17, 2016 03:17 PM
What are his initials?IP: Logged |
Lumi0
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posted March 17, 2016 03:21 PM
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Originally posted by MinceyMouse:
What are his initials?
I ended up editing the original post about the initials, but since you're fine with just the middle name initial, I'll remove the rest of the info.  (He's a King of Cups man) IP: Logged |
MinceyMouse
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posted March 17, 2016 03:23 PM
That's fine. Just needed a point of reference. IP: Logged |
MinceyMouse
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posted March 17, 2016 03:32 PM
Will you get back together?10 of swords // queen of coins / king of coins From a distance, you think you're meant for him, and he for you. However his priorities are not, and will never be, a deeply committed relationship with anyone. You have your stuff to do, and they do not cross paths with his in a romantic sense. I have seen spreads like this before, and the king of coins is always the heart breaker for a person who wants him as much as life itself... however the king of coins will comes back in a non-romantic roll in your life (where you choose the degree of his involvement). What does he think of you? The high priestess/ 7 of coins / ace of swords Given that the two of you are not in touch with each other, the HP makes sense. He knows little of what you're up to and what you're thinking of doing. 7 of coins shows that he thinks of you as a person immersed in work and you're happy doing it. Ace of swords, represents you as a person who speaks the truth. None of these cards show sexual feelings, or romantic feelings. He admires your work ethic, but doesn't go further than that. I feel like he's not going to come back for a relationship but merely for a platonic relationship or a non-committed relationship where he is also with other women. :/ IP: Logged |
Lumi0
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posted March 17, 2016 04:02 PM
MinceyMouse,
thank you for the reading. I appreciate it! Seeing 10 of swords does not surprise me one bit. The odd thing is that Im currently not working and he knows that, so having the 7 of coins pop up is very odd. (In my own previous readings with cards that have come up repeatedly, he's always seen me as the Empress) But him seeing me as a HP I do find revealing, though my interpretation differs from yours. I could see right through him, which Im sure made him uncomfortable and is another reason why I feel like this isn't over. Ace of Swords? Heh, made me chuckle. Truth teller indeed... What is your email adress so I can prepare your report? I need your birth data etc as well, of course IP: Logged |
MinceyMouse
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posted March 17, 2016 04:13 PM
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Lumi0
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posted March 17, 2016 04:17 PM
MinceyMouse,
I have sent you an email. I would appreciate it if others had a look as well! IP: Logged |
MinceyMouse
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posted March 17, 2016 07:17 PM
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SereneDaze
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posted March 17, 2016 07:25 PM
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missblyss
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posted March 18, 2016 01:27 AM
I'm pulling some odd cards for this. You are right when you say you feel him wanting to come back. I am not sure how much of a conscious thing this is on his part, but it does seem that he is wanting it at least on some level (I only say this because I know how good men are at compartmentalizing emotions).. is there a chance he could be testing you? trying to see what you do when you have the "freedom" to do anything? or does he want you to change something and this is his manipulative way of doing it? It feels like if you want it you could have the chance to be together, but I'm just not getting good feelings from him personally, i don't feel like he will treat you right if you get back together. could it be that the reason he broke things off is because he knows he would hurt you?? Weird energies around it all, I see why you are confused. Overall, I think if you REALLY want this you could have it... but see if it's what you really wantIP: Logged |
Lumi0
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posted March 18, 2016 03:00 AM
Missybliss,What were those cards..? Confusion on his part would make sense, (typical Moon/Mars in Pisces, sorry to say) but that he would be testing me? Difficult to say. After we got back together the first time around he promised me the Sun and the Moon, but that only lasted for a week and then he got tired. In that sense, sure, he hurt me, but our relationship was never easy to begin with, and both of us knew it wasn't going to be. I was seeking clarity, but alas, Im getting more confused! :/ IP: Logged |
cherful24
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posted March 18, 2016 05:40 AM
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cherful24
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posted March 18, 2016 05:49 AM
First of all I don't read cards this is all clairvoyant. It's hard for him to come back to you in your life because he knows what you want and how you feel. He however, doesn't share what you do unfortunately. He's choosing to stay outside. He's not looking for drama he's not looking to lead you on. And I believe he can sense that you feel that he is the only one for you. He does feel a little bad and I think it has prevented him from moving forward 100% however I don't feel it so strong that it's stopping him. Because I too feel he's going to be in a very committed serious relationship that would lead to marriage real soon in fact it's possible he already knows her, I think he does. While he wants to know how you're doing , he also wants to be able to feel fine without feeling like a jerk, so friendly Times together are out of the question. I actually see something a little bit different then the others have said...to where he's going to put all of this to bed and not have a heavy burden any longer (which is what he feels right now)...and I'm seeing this in the immediate future. I have a feeling you will actually be introduced to the girl. And when that happens, I only see a handful of other conversations with him and then I think he will have exited out of your life for good. at that time, I don't see him having any guilt or feeling a heavy burden, he'll have completely moved forward with another lady. It feels he always felt that you were more of a person to hang out with and not someone he saw as a long-term partner marriage. were u 2 FWB?? So that's Where the tiny bit of guilt comes in because he didn't realize how you were taking it. And I do believe he's trying to do the good guy thing right now but again that's going to change real soon. To be blunt. The only thing that's making his energy pivot towards yours is you. It's like you have cords that's keeping him stuck and that's why he's pivoting... But he's been slowly cutting those cords. In real soon no matter how many dreams are how much thinking and energy you're putting towards this man, he'll have broken free... If you were to have been able to let go easier and earlier on, I don't see where he would be thinking about you unfortunately. Personally I don't see him confused I just see him with that pivoting motion going towards you because of all this energy you're giving him but he knows what he wants and he knows what he wants to do, and like I said he's going to completely exit soon. I would love for you to be able to tell him how you feel and hope that he would come back to you butt that is not what's going to happen here. Sorry. There's a woman who I believe is in publishing and that's who he is meant for And I gotta say, when you meet this lady, when you know who she is, when you see how right those two are for each other you're going to realize why the missing pieces just never puzzled together, and you'll be surprised how quick you finally get over him. It's like once you see it, those two together, that's all you'll need in order to move on IP: Logged |
Lumi0
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posted March 18, 2016 07:41 AM
cherful24,We were most definitely not FWB and meeting that woman is impossible, because we were LD.
And cords? I didn't mention it, because it was part of the "and so on" in my original post, but cord cutting is the first thing I did, because he had managed to enter my dreams purposively after we first broke up. After we got back together he told me that he had tried to connect with me on that night out of desperation, which explained the multiple dreams I had of him. (Otherwise I would have never known he even had this ability, something which he learned from me.) And him knowing what he wants? That most certainly doesn't sound like him... I will send you an email!
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cherful24
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posted March 18, 2016 08:05 AM
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Lumi0
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posted March 18, 2016 08:27 AM
Cherful24:
could you please edit your post and unquote me? Yes, long distance and he also had every intention of coming. He's also the one who wanted to be serious about the relationship, not me. But what Im finding a bit depressing about this is that you can see him with someone but not me.
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missblyss
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posted March 18, 2016 11:23 AM
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Originally posted by Lumi0:
Missybliss,What were those cards..? Confusion on his part would make sense, (typical Moon/Mars in Pisces, sorry to say) but that he would be testing me? Difficult to say. After we got back together the first time around he promised me the Sun and the Moon, but that only lasted for a week and then he got tired. In that sense, sure, he hurt me, but our relationship was never easy to begin with, and both of us knew it wasn't going to be. I was seeking clarity, but alas, Im getting more confused! :/
10 of swords, fool, devil are the ones I remember
If it doesn't resonate than perhaps that isn't what he is doing. I had an experience with a moon in pisces/ venus in pisces man so it may be somewhat similar... But he wasn't aware of it but he would actually pick up on my thoughts of frustration of him.. I didn't ever cheat on him but he would feel disloyalty in my thoughts for brief moments and it caused him to lose trust in me so he would do things like break up with me to see "if I really cared". IP: Logged |
Lumi0
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posted March 18, 2016 11:52 AM
Missybliss,
In our case it was the other way around. I was constantly picking up on his feelings which drove me insane and still does, because I feel like Im picking up on major "I ****** up and don't know what to do" vibes. And I shouldn't be "picking" a thing after cord cutting, a banishing and other stuff I've had to do. Yet, the connection is still there. I will GLADLY give you a report anyway, so just give me your email and I will contact you! Still giving reports to anyone who wants to help me gain some clarity over this situation! IP: Logged |
athenaia
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posted March 18, 2016 12:03 PM
Page of Pentacles for Will We Get Back Together? You might be receiving a message from him - if could be very practical and realistic in tone, but it may come from a childish place in his mind. Usually pentacles is about stopping any sort of day dreaming and getting involved in "realistic" matters - it could be him saying that you both need to move on with your lives, you both have two different goals and would be impractical to continue dating.. there's a groundedness in his message. If you guys do get back together again, it will take a long time to develop and you both need to grow individually as people first. This card is ambiguous for "yes/no" so I pulled a clarifying card which is The High Priestess. To me, honestly, whenever the tarot sends me this card it's saying "This Information Will Not Be Available At This Time". It sounds like he's trying to emotionally shut you out for the time being, and you're both going through a major psychological/spiritual upheaval at this point in your lives. Or some times this card is "You Already Know This Answer To This..." - kinda infuriating, I know. This card is both yes/no simultaneously. Now, outside of tarot, my advice is to surround yourself in hobbies. Ground yourself into your physical body with work outs, nature walks, yoga, anything that gets you out of your headspace. When you're involved in the community and bettering yourself, your energy will lighten, and he won't feel the burden of your sadness, and the universe will begin to conspire to work in your favor again. You HAVE to trick yourself into moving on - even if just in a physical sense - but you're in a rut right now and you have to get back in touch with your inner peace. A burst of endorphins from exercise does WONDERS for the mood and makes you feel like life trajectory is moving forward again. I truly hope you both get the clarity and/or closure you deserve. IP: Logged |
missblyss
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posted March 18, 2016 03:44 PM
hey honey, something else I am getting regarding this situation is that it may be one of those things that "releasing" him and your connections/cords to him entirely may be what is needed to perceive clearly the energies on your side and his. It seems that there is definitely intense feelings on both ends, and he may feel you pulling and aching for him.. And you feel his aches and pangs as well.. But I feel that once you can get to the spot where you truly disconnect, then you will be able to both see what you want and manifest what you want. Almost like, let it go and see if it was ever really yours.. but for you it seems more of an energetic let go. I think he needs to feel, energetically, that you have released him before he will want to reuniteIP: Logged |
missblyss
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posted March 18, 2016 03:51 PM
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Originally posted by Lumi0:
Missybliss,
In our case it was the other way around. I was constantly picking up on his feelings which drove me insane and still does, because I feel like Im picking up on major "I ****** up and don't know what to do" vibes. And I shouldn't be "picking" a thing after cord cutting, a banishing and other stuff I've had to do. Yet, the connection is still there. I will GLADLY give you a report anyway, so just give me your email and I will contact you! [b]Still giving reports to anyone who wants to help me gain some clarity over this situation![/B]
i don't doubt that you were consciously picking up on things, but do you think there is a chance he was unconsciously picking up on things? my experience with piscean moons is that they often are VERY receptive to other's deepest feelings and react to them, even when they are absolutely unaware that they are doing so. Because of your awareness of energy, I would safely assume that you would consciously pick up on things, but sometimes the people who are unaware of it are actually some of the most energetically sensitive and receptive ones out there IP: Logged |
missblyss
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posted March 18, 2016 03:53 PM
also, I don't believe it matters how many spells of cord cuttings you do to release someone, if you continue to engage in the thought patterns of thinking about them, you will recreate those energetic cords. I think moreso than cord cutting, it is controlling the mind and not allowing yourself to think about him anymore.IP: Logged |
Lumi0
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posted March 19, 2016 03:41 AM
athenaia,
the fact that you picked a Page of Pentacles is quite interesting, because a friend of mine did a reading for me a month ago which had to do with my career etc and Page of Coins was in the 'outcome' position. What made this reading a bit odd was that it ended up being more about my relationship than anything else. 6 of wands in 'future', what lies ahead 'star', Lovers in 'hopes and fears' and then the Page in outcome. The reason I knew this was about the relationship was because the King of Cups (which represents him), was in the 'your environment' position as card 8th. And seeing that High Priestess again is also interesting. The first time it was picked by MincyMouse it had to do with how he thinks of me, which I think is probably true. Thank you for the reading and advice! What is your email so I can give you a report? missybliss
You're just too kind! Thank you for being so helpful, means a lot to me. Letting go is what I have been trying to do since the beginning, since I know this situation is causing me more harm than good, but like I've mentioned before, the reason I can't is because I believe HE wants to come back and that desire, if real, is what is maintaining the connection. That is why Im trying to figure out whether Im right or not. Because it doesn't make sense to me that after everything I've done that the feedback is still so strongly there. It shouldn't be. There is a chance that unconsciously he was picking up on stuff, yes, but whatever it was, it was stuff that I had already told him about, because I usually know whats going on with ME. Like I mentioned earlier, I would pick up on his feelings before HE was even aware of them, which caused the majority of problems in our relationship. What's your email adress so I can send you a report? Its a really good report, very revealing! Still open for exchange! IP: Logged |
BeagleTango
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posted March 19, 2016 05:59 AM
Hi Lumi0
I would like to try.
Please take it with a grain of salt Will you both get back together?
Storks+Scythe+Clouds
I think there are changes in the connection between you both. Things seem to have bluntly ended. And it is unclear still whether you both will get back together at this point. How does he feel about you?
Star+Birds+Tree
His feelings for you are good ones, and you have been on his mind. Probably he has been thinking of the chats that you both shared. And it seems like he is taking his time to think things through, even if he knows what he wants, he could be rather slow to come forward. Feels like the outcome of whether you both will get back together depends on his thoughts and action of telling you about it. So things will continue to be cloudy if you keep on waiting, and with him, indecisive?
I think it's better to confront him and share your thoughts/concerns? I wish you well Lumi. Take good care of yourself. Be with someone that makes you happy P/S: I have a Piscean Moon, and I sometimes feel like I "feel" someone's feelings/thoughts, but never too sure if those are real. And that makes me confused and unhappy. Maybe he feels that way too. IP: Logged | |
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