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Solar_Leo_Queen
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posted March 19, 2016 09:33 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Solar_Leo_Queen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Everyone's probably gonna think I'm crazy, but I think I've found my twin flame.

We've been through the first couple of stages--synchronicities, familiarity, falling in love, etc. And now, I believe we're in the running and chasing stage.

Everything was all good until everyone started assuming we were dating, which I think made him uncomfortable because he doesn't really want a relationship right now. He just broke up with his ex a few months before we met and it was terrible. I understand he needs his time. I told him I can respect that he doesn't want a relationship and that we can just stay friends, but lately he has been withdrawing from me. I feel like he's scared.

We were hanging out a lot in February, but slowly, we started hanging out less and less. And just yesterday, he told me he was moving far away.

It really upsets me but I can't do anything about it.

The one question I really want to ask from this is why do runners run away? If anyone has gone through the runner and chaser phase, I'd like to hear your experiences.

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FairyDust75
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posted March 19, 2016 10:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for FairyDust75     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I can understand what you're going through. Been there done that. Right now I'm involved with someone where we behave like a couple but yet he's never said it officially. He has a lot of life struggles going on right now and I don't want to pressure him. But it's all there, the feelings and stuff. I felt like we were getting closer and he's suddenly been arguing with me a lot and he's been pulling back on communication. I've been told by my trusted advisor that he's feeling pressure to make a decision regarding us and that he's pulling back to figure it out. But I need to be careful because I was told if I push him he'll end it. I'm in such a state of turmoil right now you can't believe. So all I've been doing is following his lead for now. Letting him initiate the texting, stuff like that. I don't really know what else to do. One reader says one thing another says something else. Hard to say. And no clue what he'll end up doing either. One said he'll walk away but will talk to me later on. Another said he doesn't want to end it and even if he did it wouldn't be for long because he can't be without me. I don't know anymore.

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