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lilypad18 Knowflake Posts: 938 From: my mother's uterus Registered: Apr 2015
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posted March 30, 2016 07:11 PM
anyone???IP: Logged |
dustib Knowflake Posts: 1393 From: USA Registered: Feb 2015
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posted March 30, 2016 07:14 PM
I can in a bit if that's OK. What is your question? I can also give feedback tomorrow... will I see R tomorrow night? IP: Logged |
lilypad18 Knowflake Posts: 938 From: my mother's uterus Registered: Apr 2015
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posted March 30, 2016 07:21 PM
my question is if T will contact me this week, or next week. I mean, if he does it, it will probably be this or next week. I have another question, if you want to answer it feel free to leave another as well. A I want to ask about his feelings abt me IP: Logged |
lilypad18 Knowflake Posts: 938 From: my mother's uterus Registered: Apr 2015
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posted March 30, 2016 07:22 PM
for your question I got a no...IP: Logged |
mooninaries94 Knowflake Posts: 430 From: where the rain grows Registered: Jan 2016
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posted March 30, 2016 08:04 PM
@lilypad18 just here to mention I replied to your question on my topic.IP: Logged |
dustib Knowflake Posts: 1393 From: USA Registered: Feb 2015
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posted March 30, 2016 08:49 PM
quote: Originally posted by lilypad18: my question is if T will contact me this week, or next week. I mean, if he does it, it will probably be this or next week. I have another question, if you want to answer it feel free to leave another as well. A I want to ask about his feelings abt me
Will T contact you this week? I got clover, letter and child. Yes I think he will but I think he's going to act childish and it will be very quick contact. How does T feel about you? I got bouquet, mountain, sun, ring and stork. Looks like there were some obstacles for him but they will ending and he has good feelings about you. The ring shows that he feels a strong bond with you. I think you will start to see changes in him though soon. Will I see R this weekend at all? Wondering why the hot and cold with him as well. Any other questions? IP: Logged |
lilypad18 Knowflake Posts: 938 From: my mother's uterus Registered: Apr 2015
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posted March 30, 2016 08:57 PM
Brb with your question, place more if you want tomine: Do you see me being in a serious relationship with T? IP: Logged |
lilypad18 Knowflake Posts: 938 From: my mother's uterus Registered: Apr 2015
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posted March 30, 2016 08:59 PM
big yes, you will see him this week, maybe just maybe at the end of the week, but for sure. He will act kinda defensive maybe, or you towards him, I kinda see he is mad at you but holds that anger in, that's where the defensiveness comes fromIP: Logged |
dustib Knowflake Posts: 1393 From: USA Registered: Feb 2015
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posted March 31, 2016 08:38 AM
quote: Originally posted by lilypad18: Brb with your question, place more if you want tomine: Do you see me being in a serious relationship with T?
I got lilies, child and letter. Yes all the cards are positive here. The child is about a new start and I also see communication here and honest intentions with the lily. R has always contacted me after practice, except for last night. I know you saw defensiveness/anger which is what I think is now. Will he contact me today? I pulled for myself this morning regarding my day and got star/coffin which means giving up or coming to an end so I'm nervous now. IP: Logged |
lilypad18 Knowflake Posts: 938 From: my mother's uterus Registered: Apr 2015
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posted March 31, 2016 09:23 AM
I would say yes, he will contact you today, and Id also say that what your cards told ya is true, something is completong between the two of you, something is being left behind for something better to come. Maybe its the relationship itself or a part of the relationship. This will happen through communicationIP: Logged |
dustib Knowflake Posts: 1393 From: USA Registered: Feb 2015
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posted March 31, 2016 09:41 AM
There was communication between us. He said he didn't contact me because his practice ran late and he had his son that he was trying to put to sleep. Can you pull and see if things are done between us? IP: Logged |
dustib Knowflake Posts: 1393 From: USA Registered: Feb 2015
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posted March 31, 2016 02:57 PM
Just wanted to update you: tonight I will not see him just as you said. He has not mentioned another time and in fact his whole demeanor has changed. Can you tell me why and if he will continue this way or change back to how he was? And when I might see him. Thank you so much for your time. Any questions? IP: Logged |
lilypad18 Knowflake Posts: 938 From: my mother's uterus Registered: Apr 2015
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posted March 31, 2016 03:42 PM
hi dustib, sorry for not answering your last question, Ive been a little busy todaywhen I get home Ill pull some cards for you. Feel free to post more questions if u want to, no problem IP: Logged |
lilypad18 Knowflake Posts: 938 From: my mother's uterus Registered: Apr 2015
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posted March 31, 2016 04:15 PM
he changed because his feelings have changed for you. he kinda feels abandoned by you, and he is now judging his feelings towards you. He feels emotionally overwhelmed. His judgement is actually from a place of misinformation, or the fact that he hasn't talked to you. I mean, it's not that he is mad because you two haven't talked. He has all this feelings as a consequence of not communicating with you. Since there are no words between the two of you, I think he has started to think too much everything, overanalyze and that's where these emotions come from. I think if you try to have a serious conversation with him, (and if you do, you will know exactly what to tell him) he will change his behavior and will start again with you, will start to feel new and good things for youIP: Logged |
dustib Knowflake Posts: 1393 From: USA Registered: Feb 2015
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posted March 31, 2016 04:52 PM
I'm confused because we have communicated today. We were supposed to see each other tonight and he canceled. I asked when I would see him again and he's not responding. He knows I'm interested and I even told him I would drive to him because of his crazy schedule. I even apologized for coming across as too eager and understood if it was all too much for him. He told me today he's not done then has pretty much stopped communicating other than to tell me to go to dinner with a friend tonight since he has his son IP: Logged |
lilypad18 Knowflake Posts: 938 From: my mother's uterus Registered: Apr 2015
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posted March 31, 2016 07:13 PM
then maybe when I told you about not communicating, it was badly communication on his sidelet me ask again the cards: okay this time, what I get is that he is controlling you through non communication. Okay this makes much more sense. He thinks he is making justice this way, because he knows you are having a hard time with him acting like this. This comes from a place of insensitivity. does this resonate? if so, I'll continue IP: Logged |
dustib Knowflake Posts: 1393 From: USA Registered: Feb 2015
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posted March 31, 2016 09:08 PM
That makes perfect sense! And honestly feels right IP: Logged |
lilypad18 Knowflake Posts: 938 From: my mother's uterus Registered: Apr 2015
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posted March 31, 2016 09:17 PM
I'm glad it resonated!would you like to exchange again? IP: Logged |
dustib Knowflake Posts: 1393 From: USA Registered: Feb 2015
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posted March 31, 2016 09:25 PM
Sure! There was communication tonight between R and myself. He mentioned tomorrow night for seeing each other. Will it happen? Is he serious or no? What's you question? IP: Logged |
lilypad18 Knowflake Posts: 938 From: my mother's uterus Registered: Apr 2015
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posted March 31, 2016 09:26 PM
my Q: What's in store for me this April?IP: Logged |
lilypad18 Knowflake Posts: 938 From: my mother's uterus Registered: Apr 2015
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posted March 31, 2016 09:42 PM
I think yes, you will meet him tomorrow night. It will be you taking somehow the initiative and you will both cooperate to make things better. You will have a lot of patience here. After this, you will feel rest and peace inside of you.About him being serious.. It's not that he is or isn't serious. He is serious sometimes and is willing to put a lot of patience to your relationship. But sometimes he fails doing things right because of his arrogance and impulsiveness IP: Logged |
dustib Knowflake Posts: 1393 From: USA Registered: Feb 2015
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posted March 31, 2016 09:59 PM
For you for April I got rider, ring, crossroads, key and stars. It looks like there is going to be movement in terms of someone you know or even someone new coming into your life. You are going to be faced with choices regarding what you are really wanting in terms of a commitment. I feel like you will have to figure out what works for you and what you want to do moving forward. I do see romance with the stars and with the crossroads it means a choice in romance. You will figure it out by the end of April though on what you want. Please keep me informed. And thank you! Yes it does sound like him....very frustrating! IP: Logged |
lilypad18 Knowflake Posts: 938 From: my mother's uterus Registered: Apr 2015
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posted March 31, 2016 10:03 PM
thanks a lot honey! will keep u updated!IP: Logged |
dustib Knowflake Posts: 1393 From: USA Registered: Feb 2015
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posted April 01, 2016 04:47 PM
We did see each other today. He has practice so had to leave but said he might be back after....can I ask if he will? IP: Logged |
lilypad18 Knowflake Posts: 938 From: my mother's uterus Registered: Apr 2015
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posted April 01, 2016 04:52 PM
Not really sure, but Ill go with a yes. Are you really worried about this whole situation rn? You should see things from another perspective, because the situation isnt as bad as it seemsIP: Logged |